When hounding for backpage sex ever notice a lot of ads say no blacks or thugs only whites and old ?....I mean of course its not worded excactly like this but you get the point it happens a lot...what is up with that ?
i noticed this as well even in the stripper world i noticed this.. its this perception that old white men spend money and or they dont have to work as hard.. escort told me she rather have sex with a old white guy who will pay her for a hour and fuck her 3.5 minutes then fuck a young black guy like me ill pay for 15 mins and fuck her for 17 mins lol..imho all there reasoning are stupid and pejudice and offensive on both ends
They perceive old white men as being more docile and easier to control than young black guys. That's what they want in the business part of their life, "Next! Now serving number 86... *Bang* *Bang* *Bang* Next! Now serving number 87..."
But in the non-working part of their life who do you think will have the advantage? Money, by itself, can't buy you everything.
The worst part of this thread is that juice speaks the truth. I think its two things. One: a black man or thug generally has far more energy than the girl wants to deal with I.e., stereotyping and is too lazy for that but will take the easy going and slow white or old guy. Plus she expects them to tip handsomely. That thing you all complain young and black people don't do at the club. Girls like this are too dumb to understand today's generation and their spending habits. Plus she may generalize this category has a dick too big for her wanting. Small dicks are eash. Again, laziness.
Or two: she's a racist cunt. Dumb bitch doesn't like money apparently. I go with option one
I've noticed that in Las Vegas, you see a lot of young, white chicks with middle-age Asians or Indians. From what some gals have told me, neither group haggles over money, are generous, laid back, and generally lethargic in bed.
Guys seem to be more open minded. Black, white and Asian chicks have all been on my menu, and if I get the opportunity for an Indian (technically Asian but still...), Inuit, Aboriginal or any other race I'll be happy to give them a try. I will say that I cannot put the 3 races I've had in to any category where they all had something in common, or even were similar.
If women can afford to turn down business based on race, they are losing money.
Unless it is the south, I don't think it's racism. On Facebook and at the clubs I see a lot of white dancer's BF's and babydaddys. I don't think it's overstating it that 50% are black. So if they're not racist in "real life" then how are they racist in business. Seems, if anything, it would be the other way around.
i'd guess it has more to do with not dealing with a criminal element than anything else. stereotype or not that perception comes from somewhere I would think most that post something like that must have had some type of bad encounter witha person of that sort in the past. strange how black guys hate they are stereotyped as potential criminals, but if the stereo type is a big dick they are not offended, shouldn't all stereo types be offensive.
Maybe some of these gals are independent and might think that a brotha might want to be their pimp. I called up a BP escort once and shes asked me if I was black. I asked why would you think that. Her reply was that my voice sounded black. Now that sounds like profiling to me. Come to think of it, I do have a Barry White-ish sound, low and smooth.
Mohead this happens all over the country. Wouldnt be suprised if it happened in Canada too. Just go on some escort sites and see what we're talking about
Lol slick. You should join a singing group. Ill be back up. I was once told that my voice is deep like a firefighter.
@ime stereotypes are not all equal. I'm assuming your white so here's a stereotype for ya. White people are hard working honest men.
Here's another: white people have small dicks.
I already know you hated the second but do you honestly hate the first one too? The first one is a compliment
I would think it has to do more along the lines of what “ime†posted – “… has more to do with not dealing with a criminal element than anything else …â€
It’s just as in many other aspects of society – not that it is right – but young black men are more often the ones associated with violent crime.
I peek at BP every once in a while and have actually had some BP “datesâ€. Since I am into chocolate I tend to read mostly the ebony ads/posts; and even the black providers will sometimes post “no black men or thugs†or sometimes “black men over 30â€.
I once asked a black provider about this and she said she (and other colleagues of hers) had had bad experiences w/ young black men/thugs – she said they wanted to fuck and not pay – they would do this by giving her the $$$ when he got there and then snatching it back from her b4 he would leave.
@ranukam you only put part of the post, i didn't invent the stereotype and I don't believe it personally, its just something that ignorant people in our society can choose to believe or not to believe.
@estefador I see the point your trying to make but and its essentially the samething my post said just reversed. LIke i said they are stereotypes we didn't invent them, though i thought it was the asians who were stereotyped with little dicks. Also for the white guys have little dicks I don't give a shit about it because it doesn't apply to me, and if it came down to some girl who was only interested in fucking guys based on the size of their dicks thats just a total whore who I would assume most men would have no interest in.
As with most people here I believe in judging people on their own merits. I highly doubt any of my black or hispanic friends think I am someone who believes in stereo types.
Did you ever notice now none of those backpage ads never say "no Kilingons". I mean that wouldn't be prejudice 'cos i bet they have spines on their dick or some crazy shit like that. Plus you never know when they will pull a d'k tahg on you.
Cat Food's original post said "lots of" backpage ads.
I'm still not convinced it's nothing more than a regional thing. I looked at about 25 ads in Michigan. NONE said "no black men". So I looked at Montgomery, Alabama. Yeah, THAT Montgomery. I had to click on at least 10 ads before I found one that said "no black men".
Granted, a small sample size, but I haven't found "lots".
I seen maybe one in a hundred that say that. You have to realize that Juicetuna is on meth or crappy coke, therefore he can easily look at thousands of ads in no time flat.
Mikey my man I have to differ...Brother Juice does not do meth or coke. No my friend, he is a prophet o' the LORD and being a modern prophet he is jacked into the the interwebs. You see my friend, he has moved to Japan where he has connected a 2 Gbps cable directly into his head. The amount of porn that has downloaded directly into dudes brain is frightening. He has seen more porn than GOD himself!
Oh...I also lied...he is all high on coke all the time. But the direct Internet connection to his brain is totally true. Isn't it my brother?
I find it interesting that in another post regarding extras in clubs, the OP goes on about being a 'man' and taking what he wants.
If you cannot imagine that a petite 20 year old might have enough business to not want to find out what he means by that, alone in his hotel room, then I don't know what to say.
Thug culture is so pervasive among black men that I can imagine feeling it not worthwhile to sort them out.
I pretty much think a woman can choose who's dick is in her, no matter the reason
@ime it was the best negative stereotype I could think of. Now I just thought of a hillbilly one but my point remains. While you said all stereotypes should be frownrd upon, you yourself definetely would not agree if you were complimented with a positive stereotype.
Maybe it's different in the Detroit area since D is about 80% black. But I even checked Lansing which is about 25% black. About 3/4 of the girls were black. I saw many ads saying they prefer older guys but didn't mention race.
“… Granted, a small sample size, but I haven't found "lots" …â€
Finding a few can be said is probably a few too many; especially if you happen to be a black man (which I am not) – and also since I personally have never seen any that said no white or Latino men (but have seen a few over time saying no black men).
@Motorhead, my friend, I regularly browse the escort ads on BP and, believe me, scarcely a day goes by that such ethnic prohibitions are not announced, even in Detroit! There does not seem to be any particular discrepancy between ads posted by white escorts and black ones. If the prohibition is from an African-American provider it is hard to see racism in the traditional sense as the cause.
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There are probably a million different reasons, half of which are most likely based on racist stereotypes.
No boom boom with soul brother... soul brother too buku.
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But in the non-working part of their life who do you think will have the advantage? Money, by itself, can't buy you everything.
Or two: she's a racist cunt. Dumb bitch doesn't like money apparently. I go with option one
If women can afford to turn down business based on race, they are losing money.
Unless it is the south, I don't think it's racism. On Facebook and at the clubs I see a lot of white dancer's BF's and babydaddys. I don't think it's overstating it that 50% are black. So if they're not racist in "real life" then how are they racist in business. Seems, if anything, it would be the other way around.
@ime stereotypes are not all equal. I'm assuming your white so here's a stereotype for ya. White people are hard working honest men.
Here's another: white people have small dicks.
I already know you hated the second but do you honestly hate the first one too? The first one is a compliment
It’s just as in many other aspects of society – not that it is right – but young black men are more often the ones associated with violent crime.
I peek at BP every once in a while and have actually had some BP “datesâ€. Since I am into chocolate I tend to read mostly the ebony ads/posts; and even the black providers will sometimes post “no black men or thugs†or sometimes “black men over 30â€.
I once asked a black provider about this and she said she (and other colleagues of hers) had had bad experiences w/ young black men/thugs – she said they wanted to fuck and not pay – they would do this by giving her the $$$ when he got there and then snatching it back from her b4 he would leave.
@estefador I see the point your trying to make but and its essentially the samething my post said just reversed. LIke i said they are stereotypes we didn't invent them, though i thought it was the asians who were stereotyped with little dicks. Also for the white guys have little dicks I don't give a shit about it because it doesn't apply to me, and if it came down to some girl who was only interested in fucking guys based on the size of their dicks thats just a total whore who I would assume most men would have no interest in.
As with most people here I believe in judging people on their own merits. I highly doubt any of my black or hispanic friends think I am someone who believes in stereo types.
So why do you think that is?
I'm still not convinced it's nothing more than a regional thing. I looked at about 25 ads in Michigan. NONE said "no black men". So I looked at Montgomery, Alabama. Yeah, THAT Montgomery. I had to click on at least 10 ads before I found one that said "no black men".
Granted, a small sample size, but I haven't found "lots".
Oh...I also lied...he is all high on coke all the time. But the direct Internet connection to his brain is totally true. Isn't it my brother?
If you cannot imagine that a petite 20 year old might have enough business to not want to find out what he means by that, alone in his hotel room, then I don't know what to say.
Thug culture is so pervasive among black men that I can imagine feeling it not worthwhile to sort them out.
I pretty much think a woman can choose who's dick is in her, no matter the reason
Maybe it's different in the Detroit area since D is about 80% black. But I even checked Lansing which is about 25% black. About 3/4 of the girls were black. I saw many ads saying they prefer older guys but didn't mention race.
Finding a few can be said is probably a few too many; especially if you happen to be a black man (which I am not) – and also since I personally have never seen any that said no white or Latino men (but have seen a few over time saying no black men).