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Being Nice to Strippers

davids

When first meeting strippers is important not to show excessive interest or attraction. We wait until the stripper begins to show to us that she knows that we are not just another horny, loser customer and that she is interested in us.

At that point we start to be friendlier to her. We can continue to be friendly when we like the way she is treating us. In fact it is important that we be friendly and nice to her, so that she begins to like us.

If she tries to get us into the loser customer frame, at any point, however, we must "punish" this behavior be briefly withdrawling our attention and approval. As her behavior improves we can begin to escalate the niceness once again.

This is the basic pattern to befriending strippers.