2ND Chance OTC
SlickSpic
It was a warm Wednesday afternoon in August when I get a call from Angie. She sounds a little melancholy. Normally she is a pretty upbeat individual. We converse for a few when she asks if I'd like to meet up at a La Quinta Inn. I thought about the last time and her poor performance. I also thought about the advice about second chances. Being the kind hearted, brown-eyed, handsome man that I am, I said why not. I love a nooner(take that Al Bundy).
I knocked on her room door and she greeted me in a pair of tight, white booty shorts and spaghetti strap tank. No bra or panties underneath. Her long, black hair was in a pony tail and she was looking hella hot. She greeted me with a hug and a light kiss. So far, so good.
We sit down on the couch and talk a little. Mostly small talk. We start making out some more, our hands roaming over one another. Slow and sensual, nothing rushed, still clothed. I proceed to take her top off and she paused her kissing. Something is amiss, I can feel it. I pull away from her lips, look her in the eyes, and ask "What's wrong?" That's when she broke down and started to cry. Being raised around many women, I'm use to women crying so I don't bug out from it. That being said, I don't like or wanna see a woman in pain. I keep asking her what's wrong but she says nothing. The crying continues and I'm hugging her, doing my best to console her. Just when I think that the waterworks won't abate, she hits me with the news.
She hits me with this-I had a miscarriage this May. Wow! Now the pieces are coming together. No wonder a happy-go-lucky gal like Angie is so different from before. My Mom, my older sister, and two aunts all have had miscarriages and I've seen firsthand their depression due to it. Damn.
Now I'm in a quandary. What do I do? Do I try to continue like the horn dog that I am? Do I leave? Do I try and help her through it? Seeing that I'm not a complete waste of human DNA, I stay and talk to her about the miscarriage. An hour later, I leave. She was much more calm and collected than before.
We never got down to bumping uglies but that's all right with me. She has bigger fish to fry. I left the money with her even though no services were rendered. I know that she needs the money(she sends monthly remittances back to Taiwan). It's probably why she's still doing OTC with former customers.
I don't know if we'll see each other again. Only time will tell. I'm grateful to all of y'all who gave me the second chance advice. At the least, I have closure. This has been SlickSpic, this time not so slick but much more empathetic.
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Since you have a cash arrangement, she is NOT your friend. If she wants to see you for a drink, dinner, sex etc. for free, then she is. But as long as an OTC arrangement involves cash, you are strongly advised by me to stay away from her emotional baggage!!!!
Some girls can handle doing p4p and others really can't, yet some girls from the latter category try to do it anyway because they need the money. I no longer give girls who perform badly the first time a second chance because, in my experience, it almost never improves. All too often, it happens because they are struggling emotionally with giving up sex for cash. No gracias.
We live and we learn I suppose.
We live and we learn. Believe me when I say that I'm not posting this from any moral high-ground. After all my years doing this with countless strippers, I just had one basically use me as her drug courier just the other week, so I'm no more immune to misreading a situation than anyone else.
Anyway, it is what it is. At least it was a cheap educational moment - lol.
The fact that you left the money was a judgement call you had to make on the spot. Right or wrong - only you can make that decision. And if your read on the situation was right then good on ya mate. If not, as Rick says, an educational moment.
Any discussion of morals is clouded by the act of paying for sex anyway. Once you begin to layer on the hustle or real life event decision and whether you leave the money or walk out with your wallet in tact...well that's just too many damn layers now, isn't it?
IMO you made the right call.
You got hustled but never heard of that one. If it becomes obvious u won't get pussy or she did something that killed the mood, simply put your pants on and walk away. Never pay if no services rendered. Read my article on dealing w dancer drama.
Some of them are real flakes - find a girl who is serious about fucking u for money not just some rip off bitch.
I think you did a good deed helping her, but if I were you I wouldn't see her again, not until the whole sorrow goes away.
In the past I’ve always helped out people when in a tight spot.
But strippers are a different animal IMO. I have personally gotten the “oh it’s nothing†line before and in the end I was being conned (although it seemed super real at the time).
One dancer I was involved w/ about 8 years ago even went as far as to tell me her dad had died of a heart attack and she needed money to go to the funeral in a town about 6 hours away. The dancer called me sounding blue and when I asked what was wrong I got the “oh it’s nothing line†until I persisted and she told me about her father’s death. Long story short; I gave her the $$$ but later found out it was all a lie and her father was alive and very well.
Like I said; I’m one for giving people the benefit of the doubt and helping anyone in distress that I can help – but IME giving dancers the benefit of the doubt has almost always back fired on me and they were cunning me.
This chick called *you* up; greeted you all sexy; and then after calling you; and making you go over to her; she pulls that shit (she could have told you over the ph and you two could have talked it over).
It’s hard to know for sure; but I’m def in the “you got played†camp – IMO she may be spending your pity $$$ w/ her bf.
A stripper calling you out of the blue and then giving you the “oh it’s nothing†line is playing on your/mine male/PL heart strings (many strippers have the “woe is meâ€/damsel-in-distress act down pact.
If she had done the deed, she would have been paid. Simple. I don't reward bad behavior and I don't kick out cash to girls who run pity hustles. And a girl who runs that type of game is a horrible future OTC target as well, so the theory that it is a payment against future services is stupid.
No play, no pay.