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So my ATF has flaked out on me. My CF I have seen 3 times in the club when I ask if she will see me outside the club for a private show (notice I did not say OTC) and that I would take her for a nice dinner to start off the evening. I get a very quick sure I'll see you outside the club, no hesitation at all. This girl is very cute and innocent acting. At least I thought it was an act. After dinner I am walking her to her car and telling her which hotel to meet me at when she says " I've never done a private show before I hope you will be happy". We get to the hotel and she strips down and starts dancing. I ask if she will get completely nude and she says sure. Now I'm receiving the best dances that I have ever received from her but I realize that she has no clue what OTC is. She truly thought I wanted a private dance. I bluntly asked and there was actually a little shock on her face. She asked if she could have a second to think about it. Then she finally told me no but if she did not have a boyfriend she would seriously consider it with me. And not a deadbeat boyfriend. I do believe she was not feeding me SS. She asked if I wanted her to continue dancing and I said yes. The dances were super hot and we did pretty much everything else. She calls me a couple of days later and asks me to come to the club that it is not busy and she wanted to talk to me. I don't go that night but I go the next night. She actually wanted to know if I was mad that she did not do what I asked. The whole thing played out so innocent I could not be mad. I truly believe that she had no clue what I meant. Anybody have an OTC experience like this?
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Unless she winds up in the hospital, LE would probably just brush off any stripper who brought a complaint about anything that happened to her while doing OTC (or ITC or breathing). You have to avoid any behavior that may seem tricky, pushy or obnoxious, cause she's putting a lot of trust in you.
As rickdugan said; there are guys whose OTC may consist more along the lines of a date; i.e. dinner; drinks; etc (or even just LDs in a more private setting; and not FS.