How do I know when one dance is over?
BilliD
Oregon
I stoped by a club on my way home today to scout it out. I didn't have much cash on me and didn't plan on spending much but then I was approached by a dancer that was a 9 as far as what I'm attracted to. She was very convincing and so I decided to get one dance. I got a twenty from the ATM and went with her. She started in the middle of a song and then after what I thought was 1.5 songs she said that it was 3. It was a very good dance so I was probably a bit distracted, but I'm pretty sure it was not 3. So my question is, in your experience, is it customary for a girl to ask if you want to keep going after every song if you haven't talked beforehand about how many you are getting? Or are we on our own to stop it at the end of the song?
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The honest dancers will tell you when a song is over, and ask if you want another. It is best to tell a dancer ahead of time how many dances you want, or to tell her you want her to let you know when the song is finished. Even if you only want one song, to start with, ask her to tell you when that one song has finished.
I know that there are many dancers at Follies that will just keep dancing until you say that you have had enough. The dances are very good so I have just learned when to say when.
Here's a tip - if a girl starts in the middle of a song, there's a 99% chance she's not gonna do anything to alert you when the next song starts. There's also a 90% chance she's gonna overcount or at the very least "round up" I've been known to stop the presses and change my mind when girls try that, or at the very least say something like "lets just do the one" as soon as they start and cut my losses at one dance.
usually say how many we gonna do as have my plan, tho things can change if going good. i will cut short if they being boring however if i have ordered a 3 or 5 song trip.
if anyone ever rips me by overcounting, or trying to (they rarely get away with it, as i like the music usually and actually take notice of the songs), they aint getting another dance ever...
i would only ever lose count if doing a real long session and then i would do a deal for time or for whats gonna happen anyway...
My 43 y/o white behind is unfamiliar w/ most of the rap/hip-hop songs of today and often times I cannot tell if it is a new song starting or the same song with a different beat and different rapper in the same song.
What I usually do is to tell the dancer to let me know when each new song starts (or better yet one could ask her to let you know when the song ends as Club_Goer stated).
The time thing is also an option (and often a better option in clubs where songs may be cut short consistently or at random). But since I like variety and will often just get two dances from a dancer and then move on to the next one; the block of time thing would not be economical for me since I often do not like to invest more than 2 consecutive songs on any one dancer.
The club has been somewhat remodeled and one of the changes made was that a sound (sound of breaking glass) is made whenever a new song starts.
This is very helpful and def helps to cut down confusion w.r.t. how many LDs one has gotten (i.e. it helps the PL with the song counting).
Wish more SC employed something like this.
Don't ask LDK. He's finished well before the end.