I had a dancer ask for mine last Sunday. She said just so that she could call me to see how I was doing. I have also had several others in the past that have asked for it for the same reason. Of course I know better. I like seeing them in the club and getting dances from them, ETC but I have only given my number to 3 strippers in my entire career of clubbing. I am private that way but I don't want them to feel rejected. Sunday I just said we'll see about that and hope that she doesn't ask again.
I'll give them my google voice number, one that is specifically prepared for this kind of contact, if I really want to. They can text me that way, and it appears in an app in my phone. If they call, I just let it go to voice mail, and text back.
Three have also gotten mine, and one was a dancer but became my favorite barmaid. So she used it for intel. I see no good reason to give out my number to any dancer that asks, but for a select few, I will and have never had a problem with doing so..
Sure, I give them my number every time when I am there. I always buy a prepaid sim card for my spare cell phone on my first day and throw the card away on my last.
Just depends on how hot she is. If she is a 9 and above and I want to keep hitting that pussy then I will give her my number. Anything else I just decline.
I say.."okay" and go on doing whatever I was doing and don't actually give it. The ones that do have my number have asked my friends, or have physically sat there and made sure I put their number into my phone. I've had a bad experience so I don't usually use the number if I have it.
If there's an exchange of numbers it's typically initiated by me. Typically after several visits. Although recently I've swapped numbers on a first encounter.
Don't use them often. For every one I keep in decent touch with there's probably 3 I practically never or never contact.
I too get leery when the girl asks, especially if it seems too soon. What's her motive?
I have a burn phone so no problem giving the number to unreliable girls. But if I didn't want to give my number out, as mentioned in the OP, I think you could tell her one of the reasons given above or maybe even tell her your phone plan is tight on minutes and unless something else tight was available it just won't happen.
I give them my land line number. Dancers seem reluctant to call that number acting not sure who will answer. I never answer it anyway anymore unless I know the caller and am expecting a call.
I have a phone full of stripper numbers, and I know that it's a risk, having an SO and all. But telling them that you're married should be a sure fire way out of it.
The question was "How have you replied when a dancer asks you for your telephone number?" Out of 28 responses 3 answered the question. The rest went of on other tangents about using Google, getting their number, etc.
The question was not do you swap phone numbers with dancers. Funny how a lot of threads winds up this way. LOL.
If I like her I will give her my number or vice versa. Generally a waste as usually it's asking you to come see them on a slow day or just to send your money..you don't even have to be there.
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But more often than not they offer theirs instead of asking for mine.
I also think bullwinkle is on the right track.
Don't use them often. For every one I keep in decent touch with there's probably 3 I practically never or never contact.
I too get leery when the girl asks, especially if it seems too soon. What's her motive?
Haven't really had any issues to speak of.
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I swear I didn't tell scatterbrain!!!
The question was not do you swap phone numbers with dancers. Funny how a lot of threads winds up this way. LOL.
I think I will go with Jesters response.