Why Do Some Men Pay Women for Lap Dances or Conversation in Strip Clubs?

Here's another reason for guys to get lap dances which I'm sort of glad that dancers haven't found out about. If they charge much less for lap dances, the guys think that's a bargain and go and get one or two. They may get more after that if the price stays the same. If a very pretty girl offers me high two way contact lap dances at $10 or less per dance, I'll probably think that sounds ok and get a dance or two or more. Grocery stores and other businesses do the same thing to get people to buy since there is something about getting a good deal that makes people buy.

Ok so who's the moron here, someone like me who believes guys are willing to go to strip clubs to see females in person and enjoy looking at them versus someone who thinks they see little value in seeing a person live and an internet picture is sufficient? I got news for you, live and in person is much more enjoyable for some guys. I prefer enjoying real people versus looking at a picture. I've also seen many many people go to strip clubs and not buy lap dances and just watch or tip one dollar at the stage. I believe many dancers have noticed these people as well.

Davids you look like a moron and totally clueless for not realizing this even now after posting on a strip club site. I hope you realize this one day that many customers do not buy lap dances. I myself went to one club for years just to watch and didn't buy a single lap dance that whole time.

Here's another reason to go to strip clubs just to watch, if you're already getting what you need or what from females outside of strip clubs, you don't really feel a need to get dances within strip clubs but may still enjoy looking at lots of naked females. If lots of pretty naked females keep asking over and over again if they can dance for you, you might be willing to please 1 out of 30 or so after a while if you're feeling a bit carefree and horny. I could tell dancers I am broke or don't have any money and if I say it right they may believe me and leave me alone. However I am not always that good at lying.

Because that's where the strippers are.

Internet porn doesn't do much for me. I need the real thing.

You know Yoda's Kantian argument almost makes sense, but I really don't see the world being an worse off if all men suddenly decided to stop spending money on strippers. In fact, I think it would be better off. As for me, if all strip clubs shut down: no big lose, I would just spend more time in regular night clubs.

Nevertheless he does sort of have a point: thank you all you subhuman, pathetic, lap dance buying regular losers. You make me look so much better by contrast. Indeed, I think in the future I will post encouraging people to be even more pathetic. Maybe I will start threads like "the importance of generous tipping", etc.

CG: oh, come on you fucking moron: Guys to go to strip clubs to look at naked women? Hello? You can download porn for free off the internet if looking at naked women is your thing.

Let's get real here: it's about lap dances and conversation, not looking at naked women. Please think before you post in the future.

That's a good one ^. As far as paying for conversation goes, I think that is like paying a rooster to make noise at dawn. However some guys have money to burn and/or they are generous with their drinks they buy for the dancers. If I overhear someone say they maxed out their taxes paid into social security for the year and it's summertime, I know they are making some big bucks.

Here's another clue. If strip clubs aren't fun for you, go play golf, watch a movie, go to a waterpark, go to the beach or do something else that is fun. It'll probably cost you money but having fun or enjoying entertainment usually does.

Come on, the answer is obvious - because they won't do it for FREE in Strip Clubs. Actually, I get conversation for free, just not lap dances.

Ok I will respond to clueless uuhh I mean davids. Because it is fun. Strip clubs allow guys to watch lots of pretty girls getting naked and have some fun for only a dollar tip or so on a pretty consistent basis. Then if you want to have a little bit more fun, you can get a lap dance with no commitments. It's like wham bam thank you mam for the little bit of dance and show. Some guys actually are willing to pay pretty girls to dance naked in front of them because they enjoy it. I hope this provides a clue. Guys get all of this fun and can go about their life without having to hear about a girl's personal problems or get personally involved with her.

On the other hand there apparently are some guys going around seeking REAL NAMES and PHONE NUMBERS in strip clubs. For those guys who just don't get it, I wouldn't be surprised if they are forever clueless. If strip clubs aren't fun for them, I sure don't know why they go. I know many people willing to pay money to have fun and I see it everywhere I go at least on vacation that is.

Because, some of us are DESPERATE to have CONVERSATIONS!!

Yoda is a Kantian? WTF?

Davids. If your getting what you want from strip clubs without spending any money thats fine. Has it ever occured to you that if NOBODY spent any money then strip clubs wouldn't exist. Then where would you go? Your leaching-on as a young single guy who has no outside comitments-or maybe you do and your just looking for some NSA pussy like the rest of us. In either case why don't you shut the fuck up, enjoy what you claim to be accomplishing without spending any money, and stop biting the hands that feed you. The reality is if other guys didn't spend any money in SC's they would shut down and you would have to grow a personality and go try to pick-up women in regular clubs. Jeezzeeee you are so fucking clueless it's laughable.

Is it because you're too old?

Actually davids, it's cheap guys like you who make the rest of us look good. Just because you don't hear what all the dancers say about you in the dressing room doesn't mean they aren't saying it....Hahahahaha!

If you're so sure the world would be a better place without strip clubs why don't you make it your New Years resolution not to go anymore. Ha I'll bet you wouldn't last a week! Hypocrite!