SW Thread ... As If She Really Didn't Know

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• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  Lighten up Francine its only Bonesbrother.
• Dougster

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  11 years ago

  Oh, the plight of these poor whores!
• georgmicrodong

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  11 years ago

  "God darnet"? WTF?
• gawker

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  11 years ago

  Sounds like an innocent young woman being preyed upon by an immoral lecherous man who feels he can buy whatever he wants.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  No woman can be so dumb and naïve as to think the guy will spend $2k for “conversation” or “just company”. She said she has been dancing for a while and doesn’t have an issue with contact dances. So really; if the dancer does not want to do something; by all means – but don’t expect $2k for nothing.
• shadowcat

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  11 years ago

  She like sounds like a Valley girl. :)
• cky2k827

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  11 years ago

  She should feel like a [view link] she so eloquintly put it. She even said herself she knew what girls did in there.She should have made her boundries clear to the guy before he purchased.If she is unable to do that then dancing isn't the right job for her. And if she does get pregnant she will be one of those chicks who doesn't know untill she goes to take a dump and the baby falls out into the toliet.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  "and I admit I felt like..what the fuck am I supposed to do in here?!!!" Are you telling me this adult woman didn't realize that the customer expected to FUCK her for his $2000. Was she that NAIVE???!!! "OMG IM GONNA GET PREGNANT" The little sperms aren't likely to walk or squirm halfway across your body & into your pussy. And then she must be ovulating. I don't think she mentioned that did she? "Sounds like an innocent young woman" Innocent? I doubt it. Perhaps some other words can be used to describe her.
• jester214

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  11 years ago

  I sympathize with the OP if she's being honest. New, knew what went on but didn't want to do it, also didn't want to pass up the money. All that's understandable, hell she even seemed to accept that for a guy dropping 2K she did need to do a little more. Some idiocy in there for sure but none that was surprising. The responses were what killed me... Hell they tried to convince her she was sexually assaulted.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  Yeah – w.r.t. the responses – I didn’t see too many say give him back his $$$ and tell him you are not that type of dancer.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  If you want sex for money, the only legal way (in the non-Nevada US) is to give the money over, then ask for the sex, and hope the target of your horniness will give you the sex in the hope of getting more money in the future. But even in a Nevada brothel, you can never use violence or force to get your "service". Have to go to court if you feel you didn't get what you paid for, or ask for a criminal prosecution for fraud.
• duomaxwell

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  11 years ago

  Is she an idiot? I've sold a $2500 room that I didn't HAVE to do anything but sit, look pretty and do what I usually do. AND the guy came back the next night. There's nothing that pisses me off more than girls that act like they have no agency and then cry about shit that they let happen.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  With all due respect to you duomaxwell, for $2500 I would expect more than just you sitting there looking pretty. I can observe you looking pretty out in the club for the cost of the cover & a soft drink. For a closeup view, well...I wouldn't pay $2500.
• duomaxwell

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  11 years ago

  Neither would anyone else on this board, I'm sure!
• ime

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  11 years ago

  "Is she an idiot?" I think it's pretty clear she isn't very smart. The thing I don't get did she not sell him the room? Did he just walk in tell manager I want her in the room here's $2500, if she sold it she must have made some pitch that prompted him to pay and act as he did
• how

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  11 years ago

  No stripper nor any other woman must do anything sexually they do not choose to do. But neither should anyone have to pay for what they don't want. He should have apologized for the misunderstanding once it was clear she was only teasing, and requested a partial refund and termination of the session in VIP. And she should have acknowledged her mistake in assuming that which made her feel "retarded," and agreed to the partial refund.
• Tiredtraveler

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  11 years ago

  I agree with @how and duomaxwell . But she claims to have known what 'other girls do in there' and yet she is surprised when she is asked to do the same thing. We have all heard the line "we can do allot more in the Champagne Room Wink, Wink, nuzzle, nuzzle, rub, rub, ..." from a dancer knowing it is usually SS. She should have been more up front about her limits and he then must respect those limits. If she did not make her limits clear up front then she had no right to be indignant when he tried get frisky BUT, he should have BACKED OFF when she said no and learned a lesson in false advertising. She has every right to say no but she should not infer much more than she is willing to do and he has no right to infer more than is actually agreed upon. It also reads like they had both been drinking so they both had impaired judgment and she may have thought she her limits clear and he only heard what he wanted to hear. She wanted the money and did not realize that he expected more than she wanted to provide. Sounds a bit like sobering up sellers remorse. She should treat this a lesson learned and be clear what she will do or not do in the Champagne room or avoid it altogether.
• Otto22

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  11 years ago

  I don't know which one was the most stupid, the dancer or the customer who was willing to pay $2K to spend time with this airhead. I don't understand the appeal of paying this kind of money when an outstanding P4P can be had for much less, including a nice hotel room.
• minnow

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  11 years ago

  Agree with Otto 22 post, plus several other comments on "value". The later can be very subjective. I'm assuming SW and Duos cases included a grossly overpriced "champagne bottle" or 2. Still, how much would grossly overpriced bottle enhance the experience? To use a restaurant analogy: A steak dinner is desirable to many people, but there is a vast difference in prices between a chain like Outback, and Ruth Cris, 4-5 star local establishments, etal. Probably same meat, but different atmosphere, presentation, and preparation. Yet as patrons don't go to RC just to quench their hunger, some patrons don't go to VIP just to bust a nut- they like the company of a beautiful/charming woman. But, yeah, the whole setup is like getting a good salad, wine, but only 3 oz of steak. Or else buying a sports car that is advertised as being very fast, but finding out that dealer has installed a fuel cutoff switch that is triggered whenever one goes over the posted speed limit.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  "Sounds a bit like sobering up sellers remorse" This is what intoxication will get you if that was the case. If not, well...?
• Clackport

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  11 years ago

  $2000? I've never seen anything remotely close to that in my area. That must be in New York or something. That thread is pretty interesting though, maybe I'll check out Stripperweb. I might even create a profile.
• jack0505

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  11 years ago

  I blame the customer here... If looking for extras you gotta confirm it before paying.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  Many people on this board successfully use strip clubs as brothels. I think your mistake is assuming that everyone understands and accepts that strip clubs are now effectively the same thing as brothels. A non-idiot customer has to be aware that, when he gives a lot of money to a dancer, she may just see it as an attempt to seduce her, and she may not be seduced.
• duomaxwell

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  11 years ago

  Yeah, if you're going to shell out that much money you might want to discuss what you'll be getting in advance. You may think that I am a prostitute, but I do not share your beliefs and have no problem asserting myself and my boundaries. I also don't lie to people though, and whenever someone asks if I'm going to blow them in the champagne room I'll tell them no. Girls like the one that made the SW post annoy the hell out of me, it's like they want back pats for being a victim of something that they could have easily walked out on (according to the post).
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  @Duo you and some other dancers go above and beyond in the honesty department. I think this customer is the naive one. In my experience, even in clubs where the norm is two-way contact, a few girls only allow one-way. That's why you start out song-by-song with a dancer you don't know. First of all, some of those Wall Street fuckers need to get held down and fisted in the ass for ruining the world economy. Then maybe I'll agree a dancer deserves to get a finger forced up her pussy in the VIP cause she didn't warn the custy she wasn't down with that. Since the place is a hellhole that pressures the dancers to drink, maybe she didn't feel she could walk out without risking getting fired.
• dabiggtipper

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  11 years ago

  The comments on the SW post are just as stupid as the girl who wrote it. $2000 really,and you thought no sex was involved. She must be really a head case or thinks that she is so beautiful that one must pay that kind of money to look. Once she realized she should have stopped it and gave a partial refund. $2000 means "im gonna fuck" in any language and maybe ten times in some languages.
• duomaxwell

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  11 years ago

  @ilbbaicnl - Yeah, I'd rather be honest and potentially lose out on moneh than be in a situation where I could end up being sexually assaulted for a couple hundred bucks. While I am a total ass beater, someone could just squish me ;( As an aside, while clubs do pressure dancers into not refusing drinks... You can usually get the waitress to water them down. Or, in the case of champagne rooms... Just act all sexy and pour it all over yourself and let another dancer/the waitress lick it off. Works every time.
• sclvr5005

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  11 years ago

  Lol SW never fails to disappoint in the stupidity dept.
• sclvr5005

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  11 years ago

  Lol SW never fails to disappoint in the stupidity dept.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  Funny the differences b/w the sexes. We often complain about dancers on this site and how “intellectually challenged” many of them are. Funny thing – dancers on SW often cite how dumb and gullible the male custies often are.
• georgmicrodong

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  11 years ago

  @papi: And we're both right. :)
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  @Duo I think your choice is a smart one from a personal point of view. My point is that, in our society, it's the exception that people are honest in business transactions. The rule is that they are deceptive. If people start to feel like violence is the way to stop that, all hell will break loose. Strippers should not be singled out as the target for violence for being a part of a society-wide problem.
• Doc_Holliday

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  11 years ago

  Carry a knife and cut his Johnson. It'll be $2,000 he'll remember.
• Doc_Holliday

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  11 years ago

  No means no, Jack.