Any Guys Go To Strip Clubs Because They Are Misogynistic Manipulators

Is there anyone who regularly posts on this who can't form real relationship with women due to their misogyny? Do women you can't use money on (like women in regular night clubs) catch on to this pretty quickly, thus forcing you to hang around strip clubs instead? Do you realize that you have to use money to buy affection: the strippers will put up with you only if you pay them to, but not if there is no money involved? Can this behavior best be described as "incompetent manipulation"?