Random stuff ...
SoonerSam
I just wanted to vent for a second. I went to my favorite club on Thursday night. I have two favorites here, not sure I'd call them ATFs, but they are my faves in this club. Anyway, one was there, the other not. No big deal, except that the one who WAS there was occupied by another customer all night. I arrived around 10:00 pm and she was with him. She came over to me and said that he was about to leave and that she'd come over as soon as he left.
Time ticked on and he never left ... and she never left his side. I know she has to make money, and I could tell he must be a big fish because I saw him take her back at least 5 times for multiple LDs. He likely spent well over $500 on her. Meanwhile, I'm trying to find someone with whom I can pass the time and have a little fun.
About halfway through the night, she caught me for a LD (he had just finished a session with her and I had just had a couple from another girl). We stayed back there and she danced for me. I wanted another and she said she could do one more probably. At this point, I felt completely underappreciated. I realize I don't spend as much at one time as he does, but I bet I'm a more consistent customer. Nonetheless, after two dances, she left me for him and we never hooked up the rest of the night.
Guess I'm the PL here. It's OK, but I just felt like my measly $200 I was willing to spend on her wasn't good enough.
Postscript: she texted me tonight to ask if I wanted to come to the club and "have fun" with her. I may or may not.
Time ticked on and he never left ... and she never left his side. I know she has to make money, and I could tell he must be a big fish because I saw him take her back at least 5 times for multiple LDs. He likely spent well over $500 on her. Meanwhile, I'm trying to find someone with whom I can pass the time and have a little fun.
About halfway through the night, she caught me for a LD (he had just finished a session with her and I had just had a couple from another girl). We stayed back there and she danced for me. I wanted another and she said she could do one more probably. At this point, I felt completely underappreciated. I realize I don't spend as much at one time as he does, but I bet I'm a more consistent customer. Nonetheless, after two dances, she left me for him and we never hooked up the rest of the night.
Guess I'm the PL here. It's OK, but I just felt like my measly $200 I was willing to spend on her wasn't good enough.
Postscript: she texted me tonight to ask if I wanted to come to the club and "have fun" with her. I may or may not.
Comments
last commentShe is there to do her *job* - not to tend to anyone’s specific needs or wishes. Customers go there for a physical, sexual, or emotional, encounter – dancers go there b/c it’s their job and to make $$$ - they don’t go there to meet Mr. Right.
Just telling like it is.
I'll steal a line from the moderator of TwoSheds:
"Money rules. Especially in strip clubs. Those who can't compete, eat shit"
I repeat - Get there before he does, and grab her 1st!
Even if you get there and grab her first, she's going to leave when Mr. Big walks in. She's not likely to be that loyal when there are $$$ to be made.
Yep. Even if it was just $100,000 that is what? 10 to 20 years income for nukey-boy?
Next day I saw her and she made up for it. Said that she likes hanging with me but she was in money making mode and couldn't pass it up. Since she was giving me outstanding dances at 2 for $20, I couldn't get angry with her.
Some times the whales subsides me. :)
Their dilemma: They have to make their money but need to balance short term benefits with long term earnings.