Do Women Really Hate Geeks?
davids
In my experience geekiness does hurt your chance with certain women. Namely the ones who don't have much going for them other than their looks and who, although above average looking, aren't the hottest ones anyway. The 7 and 8s w.o much brains. (Actually there are techniques we have learned to get to these women if we want, but they are beneath our standard, so we mainly just use them for warm-ups and practicing material on.)
Now, OTOH, being a geek is most helpful with intelligent girls, of course, and somewhat oddly, the super good looking ones even if they are only of slightly above average intelligence themselves. (A sense of humor is also a must.)
The tricks for geeks are to just be comfortable with who you are and your interests, and to be able to converse on things women find interesting: psychology and social dynamics are always great topics to talk with women about. Some become a psychology geek.
Now, OTOH, being a geek is most helpful with intelligent girls, of course, and somewhat oddly, the super good looking ones even if they are only of slightly above average intelligence themselves. (A sense of humor is also a must.)
The tricks for geeks are to just be comfortable with who you are and your interests, and to be able to converse on things women find interesting: psychology and social dynamics are always great topics to talk with women about. Some become a psychology geek.
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T-BoneHead seems to think it's a liability, though. Guess he goes for lower class women. Just like Yoda. I can see it being a liability with them: Truth is that the geek is the one out of their leaguge and they know it. So they settle for losers.
there is a kind out there for everyone.
Sure geekiness probably affects you with some women but there are probably other who like that trait.