choose who you get dances from carefully.

Didn't you already cover your thoughts on this with this thread?

tuscl.net

Give it a rest.

no i haven't obviously it's a different subject.

shadowcat, I'm sure follies needs another review, shoosh.

I'll get right on it. :)

dalex! Put down the pipe.

You must have told your English teacher to fuck off too.

Dancers want money. I do not see how they would or should care at the end of the day what other dancers you are giving money, as long as you give them money as well. Maybe if we're talking about sex and they're aware of some other dancer having a certain STD that might matter, but I can't see how it matters for just lap dances or even basic extras.

I always got comments from strippers about it, one said something like "you always talk to the cute girls", and another said something like "what were you doing with that one girl", it surprises me to the degree these girls notice but they notice.

Yeah, but that's just a topic of conversation at that point. If you went wit a girl who they they "didn't" think was cute, do you really think they care?

i do believe they care else they wouldn't have taken notice.

Minnows on a breadball.

Are you named after a laxative?

lol dalex, you have some learning to do about strippers honestly. I can get a dance from the ugliest girl in a club and then go for the hottest girl. It isn't going to make a damn difference.

$$$ = dancer attention . Simple enough for you. It does not matter what she looks like if you are spending money they will come. If a girl does not want my money I am happy to take it home and save it for the next trip. I have also found you never know who is friends in a club. Some times the plain girl is friends with the best looker in the place and is happy to share.

Go back and read some of dalex's first comments when he started here. Enlightening!

You don't have to worry 'bout this shizzle if you've got Jedi mind powers. Just walk in and ask for lapper, then say "this is not the tip you are looking for..."

Works every time. No need to worry 'bout who you get dances from, who you are seen with, any o' that shizzle. Be a Jedi my friends!

@ Tiredtraveler: I certainly share your thoughts in your last two sentences. I have found several examples over the years of less attractive dancers being friends of the hot dancers. And, I've been able to use it to my advantage.

crack whore and strippers

I think Dalex has been listening to too much rap music

I’ve gotten the “I can’t believe you got dances from her” crap a few times; maybe not in those exact words, but something along those lines.

As others have said; the only shit that counts in the SC is $$$ - $$$ talks, BS walks.

Every dancer that has said the “can’t believe bla bla bla” crap has never refused to take my $$$ or do what I am asking her to do.

It also seems that a lot of the younger guys, and myself at times although I am not so young, actually believe the dancers may care about us at any level other than business (all we are to them is a source of income, IMHO). SO – stop worrying about what they think of you/us b/c they are most likely not (thinking about us at all – except if they are broke).

Dalex needs to go to stripper school

I get that "I can't believe you got dances from her" line all the time, even from favorites. First of all, if I don't know you're here, I am not buying dances from you. Second of all, if they come up to me first, and it's someone who fits with what I like, I'm not passing them up. If it turns out they aren't worth the time, I can figure that out soon enough. Third, it's not my fault that two dancers can't stand each other. This is why one dancer at my favorite club no longer qualifies as a favorite. She said stupid little stuff about one of my current faves and it would be one thing if it were SS, but you can tell it's personal. The odd thing is, though, my favorite doesn't badmouth her, at least to me, or anyone else, for that matter, possibly because she wants to DATY with them, or has.

What some girls really observe is how easily they can manipulate guys who worry too much about what others see them do.