Here's a situation, you arrive at a strip club and you notice the bar is full so you sit at a table after buying yourself a beer. You just want to sit and take in the view.
Then a new dancer sits down next to you and then a new waitress immediately comes over and asks if you need anything after you just bought a beer at the bar. I say I'm fine and don't need anything. Then the annoying waitress persists and asks the dancer and then has the nerve to ask me if I want to buy her a drink. I say no not right now. I'm getting a bit irritated at that point. The waitress asking me if I want to buy a dancer a drink who I haven't even had a second to talk to is sooo irritating.
I get more annoyed when I sit for an extended period of time without a drink because a waitress got busy or forgot me. The thing that pisses me off more than anything is seeing my waitress taking an extended period of time with a group, merrily chatting away while I'm nearly dying of dehydration.
I don't think I'd ever complain about too much attention from a waitress.