I had a conversation with a new favorite a few days ago. It went like this.
Dancer - I've been with my boyfriend/pimp for 3 years. 2 weeks ago he beat me up.
Me - I don't understand how your girls can put up with that kind of shit.
Dancer - Shit happens. Thats life.
Me - Just shakes head.
Ask what his cut is? Say you'll take half (and a blow job for travel expense).
What's her name? I'll hop on a plane to Atlanta and save this fragile southern flower from her vicious pimp. I'll rehabilitate her and help her earn her college degree. She will be grateful and will fall in love with me, and we will live happily ever after.
Are you kidding me? My girl beats me up,and I like it.
Since she is a favorite of yours SC, are you going to save her?
Alucard, I think he was hoping you'd have an swer
Stronger than dirt!
good idea, jack! i was going to suggest one of you guys do that.
these dancers stay with these parasites because the girls are too irresponsible to manage their own affairs and lives.
He’s only showing he (gf beater) cares :)
I'm truly sorry for her Shadowcat. But how can you fix a problem like this?
Joe there's a whole host of reasons people stay with abusive partners. It's not relegated to dancers and doubtful it has anything to do with being irresponsible, though they may very well be that.
Offer a ride to the women's shelter and find a new favorite shadow.
She doesn't sound like she wants to be helped.
It's her life. I wouldn't try to interfere with whatever crap she wants to have in it. She might not be working in a strip club if she was happily married living off her husbands income.
I guess with a dancer with a violent pimp, you can justify being her customer, since you're helping her to avoid a beating for not making enough money.
If a dancer told me that kind of shit, I'd smack her.
Told u that story trying to get you to spend money on her.
It has been my experience that strippers OFTEN don't make the best choice in boyfriends. Seems to fall right in line with most of the other bad decisions they make.
The most comical is the boyfriend that insists on accompanying the stripper to work because he wants to make sure she doesn't get too cozy with one of her clients. You can often see them loudly arguing in the smoking room or talking together in the main room. Either way she's not earning any money and she usually loses her job within 2 weeks.
Run.