There was a study done not too long ago by a major Canadian University. And it had to do with peoples attitude on sex. In particular what makes a person sexually aroused and what does not. They broke down the subjects into multiple groups. Straight men, young men, older men, gay men, same with women.
Then they gave each subject a sensor attached to them, and a switch in their hand with a button. Then they would show them a variety of images from tame to sexy to down right kinky. If the men got hard it would indicate arousal, if the women got wet of course the same. Then the people would also indicate when they were aroused by pushing the button.
Well when this study hit the media it made a bit of a stir. But not for what was the real finding. The interesting part is when a person hit the button versus their physiological response. Of all of the groups they were all fairly congruent, meaning that when they were physically aroused they also would push the button. Except for one.
You guessed it. Heterosexual women under 30. When they pushed the button and when they had a real response were significantly different. What does this mean? Are women liars? Does this extend to the stripper community maybe even more magnified? Or are young hetero women just that disconnected from their own sexuality? Or is this just a sad byproduct or our overly oppressive treatment of women and sex from both the right and the left, until young women don't even recognize their own sexuality any more?
I am leaning toward the last possibility. Fuckin crazy world we live in.
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Many want to project one type of image of themselves but live an opposite one.
Pretty much EVERYONE Lies to some degree.
May be some exceptions such as Saints and some religious persons.
CERTAINLY a lot happens here at TUSCL as the warning below indicates. LMFAO
As comedian Chris Rock puts it:
“Men tell more lies – women tell bigger liesâ€
“if a man is asked by his woman – where were you last night – the man’s lie will be something like “I was a Larry’s houseâ€â€.
“A woman’s lie is something along the lines of “it’s your babyâ€â€
Speaking of try to project one image and live an opposite one, our boy alutard exemplifies that.
The above poster is NOT exempt from lying and neither am I.
True. All people lie to one level or another.
I would even venture to guess if strippers were tested in a sample by this study they would probably be more congruent than civilian women. Just because they are more engaged with their own sexuality.
But that does not mean they do not lie about other things worse.
Dougster got it right. I'd go with lying over sexually disassociation.
Women have an intense need to have others perceive them in a good way. Women desperately want others to think they're good girls, not sluts, and they are all the things that are associated with being a good mother and having their little daughters proud of them. And since most women really AREN'T that way, it means they're fucking liars and hypocrites. All of them.
They like to think of themselves as deep, emotional spirits who aren't shallow like men are. And they care about important, emotional issues, not like that nasty sex stuff that men care about.
So for example, they'll criticize and despise men as being shallow if they only care how hot a girl looks, but at the same time refuse to even consider, say, dating a guy who is short. But they will never admit it.
They want men to 'love them for who they are, not what they look like', but at the same time have very specific and detailed requirements for how much of a 'bad boy' a guy has to be before they'll date them.
They'll say they want a good guy, who's sweet, and 'makes me laugh', when in fact they can't stand nice guys, cuz they're wimps, and they really want a guy who treats her like crap. But they can't admit it because it makes them look like cheap whores. Which they are.
And they'd sooner die than have anyone think of them as a whore, but at the same time have strict requirements on how rich a guy has to be before she'll even consider dating him. It's all about money, no matter what they say, but they'll never admit it.
Don't get me wrong, I love women. I just see thru their hypocrisy and constant BS.
Never met a stripper that could hold a candle to my ex wife when it came to lying and she was never a stripper. At least as far as I know. It's pretty bad when your kids ask if you are their real father. I guess it is worse if you can only reply. "I think so".
I find it hard to believe your next to last sentence is truthful in view of the rest of your comments jerikson40. Just my personal view.
Agreed, Alucard. I've been fucked over my fair share of times by former girlfriends, but I don't believe ALL women are the way jerikson portrays them. That tirade spewed some serious resentment.
sclvr, of course you're free to dismiss what I said as a mere tirade and based on nothing but inner resentment...
However, let me suggest that, while I probably went over board, there is a lot of truth in what I say. And while you'll probably never hear a woman admit any of it publicly, in a quiet moment of honesty most would say, "yeah, can't argue with that".
Not all women, but a surprising majority, IMO.
everyone lies. the only difference is how much.
Stripper lie more than most, but politicians are far worse IMO.
jerikson- yeah I think you went a bit overboard. But there's no denying that a lot of what you said is true, tho.
I think the intention of the lie should be taken into account.
If you work in a hospice where people are probably dying a little every day, one might say "Looking good today!" That's a lie for someone else's benefit.
Strippers tell ya you look good for another intention - their own and to gain from it.
Of course dancers lie, except for my favorite. My fav would never lie, she has told me recently:
So see, dancers can be honest if they want to.
I read a related study many years ago that said the same thing about straight women. It didn't go so far as to say women were lying. The authors believed that women don't normally associate physical arousal with wanting sex. Maybe they are deceiving themselves.
Good one Pablo.
Question: How can you tell a stripper is lying?
Answer: Her lips are moving.
Seriously though I think it is their fear of being called a whore or a slut that makes them lie so much. Wish we could erase that fear in women. I think things would be so much simpler. And sex would not be such a hassle.
How do tell if a TUSCL Member is lying or if a guy in a club is lying? What makes OUR lies any less than any spoken by a dancer.
So if only hot young chicks were more like old ladies, dykes or better yet, dudes?
Uh, no thanks.
Wow. Apparently the difference between gay and straight girls in being honest about our sexuality is day and night. Who woulda guessed.
Jerikson, assuming for a second what you say is accurate. Do you really think men, in general, are any different?
Missed, you can make your own conclusions.
Lopaw, the gay/straight thing is not a surprise to me.
Alucard, I never lie.
yeah I'm not all that surprised either about the gay/straight thing. Seems that gay chicks are more in tune with what they want so I figure they wouldn't need to lie about it.
I have been told the following by a gal I have been seeing awhile. She is an x stripper:
You are contradicting yourself from earlier post Revo. Chances are your comment about NOT lying is untruthful.
My view. No evidence.
Shadowcat – LOL!!! Your honesty is refreshing and hilarious!
At least jerikson is aware of and honest about how he feels, and realizes some of it is a bit extreme. Compare that to alutard who speaks completely the opposite of how he really feels and doesn't think other are able to see through him.
"Jerikson, assuming for a second what you say is accurate. Do you really think men, in general, are any different?"
Why does it matter? Would you feel better if I said men are worse? Okay, men are worse.
But that wasn't what we were talking about.
If you accept that then I'd say your tone seemed fairly hypocritical.
If you don't accept it (and this is directed towards everyone) then you're and imbecile and/or hate women.
I have no problem believing the jestie-girl hates both sexes equally.
I agree with everything jerikson said. Youu don't have to hate women to believe it. You can accept it, deal with it, fuck it (the vagina) and catch it in the lie for fun. The fault is absolutely on the men. Men (and mothers) give women biased egos beyond expectations and soon it passses on from gen to gen and now they must fit the quata of being what they probably aren't to keep their sextoy/man.
jerikson40--I wish I had your advice when I was 15. It would have saved me a lot of time, money and heartache.
Great list pabloantonio. Rare is the strip club fan who hasn't heard at least one of those lies before.
I've come to believe for th most part (there are of course exceptions) that strippers will tell you what they think they need to tell you inorder to maximize the money they can get from you.
Most of the strippers I've known blend in enough truth in their lies that the overall story sounds believable.
For example, "I'm having a horrible night and I've got two kids, rent due, and no food in the refrigerator" is probably all true. What she failed to mention that she's also supporting a cocaine sniffing boyfriend or husband.
Your mileage may varry
We guys do EXACTLY the same thing by mixing lies and truth. I don't think I have EVER met anyone who does not lie to some degree. I am not exempt.
Same her. But when it comes to strippers, my lies are basically all of omission. I never just bald-face tell them some fairy-tale wopper.
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