Do All Strippers Lie? Or is it all women?
Revo
There was a study done not too long ago by a major Canadian University. And it had to do with peoples attitude on sex. In particular what makes a person sexually aroused and what does not. They broke down the subjects into multiple groups. Straight men, young men, older men, gay men, same with women.
Then they gave each subject a sensor attached to them, and a switch in their hand with a button. Then they would show them a variety of images from tame to sexy to down right kinky. If the men got hard it would indicate arousal, if the women got wet of course the same. Then the people would also indicate when they were aroused by pushing the button.
Well when this study hit the media it made a bit of a stir. But not for what was the real finding. The interesting part is when a person hit the button versus their physiological response. Of all of the groups they were all fairly congruent, meaning that when they were physically aroused they also would push the button. Except for one.
You guessed it. Heterosexual women under 30. When they pushed the button and when they had a real response were significantly different. What does this mean? Are women liars? Does this extend to the stripper community maybe even more magnified? Or are young hetero women just that disconnected from their own sexuality? Or is this just a sad byproduct or our overly oppressive treatment of women and sex from both the right and the left, until young women don't even recognize their own sexuality any more?
I am leaning toward the last possibility. Fuckin crazy world we live in.
Then they gave each subject a sensor attached to them, and a switch in their hand with a button. Then they would show them a variety of images from tame to sexy to down right kinky. If the men got hard it would indicate arousal, if the women got wet of course the same. Then the people would also indicate when they were aroused by pushing the button.
Well when this study hit the media it made a bit of a stir. But not for what was the real finding. The interesting part is when a person hit the button versus their physiological response. Of all of the groups they were all fairly congruent, meaning that when they were physically aroused they also would push the button. Except for one.
You guessed it. Heterosexual women under 30. When they pushed the button and when they had a real response were significantly different. What does this mean? Are women liars? Does this extend to the stripper community maybe even more magnified? Or are young hetero women just that disconnected from their own sexuality? Or is this just a sad byproduct or our overly oppressive treatment of women and sex from both the right and the left, until young women don't even recognize their own sexuality any more?
I am leaning toward the last possibility. Fuckin crazy world we live in.
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May be some exceptions such as Saints and some religious persons.
CERTAINLY a lot happens here at TUSCL as the warning below indicates. LMFAO
“Men tell more lies – women tell bigger liesâ€
“if a man is asked by his woman – where were you last night – the man’s lie will be something like “I was a Larry’s houseâ€â€.
“A woman’s lie is something along the lines of “it’s your babyâ€â€
I would even venture to guess if strippers were tested in a sample by this study they would probably be more congruent than civilian women. Just because they are more engaged with their own sexuality.
But that does not mean they do not lie about other things worse.
They like to think of themselves as deep, emotional spirits who aren't shallow like men are. And they care about important, emotional issues, not like that nasty sex stuff that men care about.
So for example, they'll criticize and despise men as being shallow if they only care how hot a girl looks, but at the same time refuse to even consider, say, dating a guy who is short. But they will never admit it.
They want men to 'love them for who they are, not what they look like', but at the same time have very specific and detailed requirements for how much of a 'bad boy' a guy has to be before they'll date them.
They'll say they want a good guy, who's sweet, and 'makes me laugh', when in fact they can't stand nice guys, cuz they're wimps, and they really want a guy who treats her like crap. But they can't admit it because it makes them look like cheap whores. Which they are.
And they'd sooner die than have anyone think of them as a whore, but at the same time have strict requirements on how rich a guy has to be before she'll even consider dating him. It's all about money, no matter what they say, but they'll never admit it.
Don't get me wrong, I love women. I just see thru their hypocrisy and constant BS.
However, let me suggest that, while I probably went over board, there is a lot of truth in what I say. And while you'll probably never hear a woman admit any of it publicly, in a quiet moment of honesty most would say, "yeah, can't argue with that".
Not all women, but a surprising majority, IMO.
Stripper lie more than most, but politicians are far worse IMO.
If you work in a hospice where people are probably dying a little every day, one might say "Looking good today!" That's a lie for someone else's benefit.
Strippers tell ya you look good for another intention - their own and to gain from it.
1. You have a big dick.
2. I love you.
3. You are the only guy I fuck.
4. I always use a condom (except with you).
5. I don't have any other customers.
6. Well, yea, I dance for other guys but they don't mean anything to me.
7. I never go to the VIP with anyone but you.
8. Nothing happens in the VIP when I go.
9. I don't know that guy who tipped me on the stage.
10. That guy always tips me on stage.
11. I don't give BJ's.
12. You are the only guy I give BJ's to.
So see, dancers can be honest if they want to.
Question: How can you tell a stripper is lying?
Answer: Her lips are moving.
Seriously though I think it is their fear of being called a whore or a slut that makes them lie so much. Wish we could erase that fear in women. I think things would be so much simpler. And sex would not be such a hassle.
Uh, no thanks.
Lopaw, the gay/straight thing is not a surprise to me.
1. Oh your the only one I am dong beside my husband. My SeekingArrangement profile is just for grins. Those guys are so weird.
2. Oh he does not care (husband) he just thinks I do air dances here (at club after fucking her in VIP on reg basis).
3. When I used to play.....before I met you.
4. I know condoms only bc for 18 months (found this out after about 16 mo) but I am on bc now. I dont think he can have kids though (her husband). You have nothing to worry about.... (getting her pg).
5. I am sorry you had to wait but the manager told me I had to give that guy some dances in vip. Nothing beyond that happened. (I had shown up to fuck her in vip after texting on way and time and then she goes in there with this guy).
6. I really love my husband and he is my soulmate (recent post on her FB page).
7. You can call me anything you want (her response to conversation about mistress vs GF after fuckig her 4yr recently - of course I did not bring up the word whore).
8. I really don't expect you not to fuck other girls (really? I know she is married but money going to another girl? dont think she would be too happy.....).
9. My mother (x stripper) is so jealous of me - she told my husband I am a hooker!
10. My getting married won't change our meetings (this turned out to be true).
11. Your only one I am doing (otc and itc).
12. I would rather do this (meetup at motel for sessions vs dance at club - how true).
13. I recently got tested for all std's across the board. Just routine...not to worry LOL everything was fine.
14. I only go bareback with my hubby....
15. A man off Seeking Arrangement paid me 500 for interview but I was repulsed by him. Another one wanted to pay me 5000 to fly to Dallas to c him.....but I said no.
16. Oh I am so horny been awhile since I had sex (she said this at motel session after end of her shift....)
17. Yes lets meet around noonish when the club opens then we can go to CR and do our lovemakin. Could you bring some extra condoms? A friend forgot hers and I want her to be safe.....
My view. No evidence.
Why does it matter? Would you feel better if I said men are worse? Okay, men are worse.
But that wasn't what we were talking about.
If you don't accept it (and this is directed towards everyone) then you're and imbecile and/or hate women.
I've come to believe for th most part (there are of course exceptions) that strippers will tell you what they think they need to tell you inorder to maximize the money they can get from you.
Most of the strippers I've known blend in enough truth in their lies that the overall story sounds believable.
For example, "I'm having a horrible night and I've got two kids, rent due, and no food in the refrigerator" is probably all true. What she failed to mention that she's also supporting a cocaine sniffing boyfriend or husband.
Your mileage may varry