I went to the SC yesterday and one of the least favorite dancer came to me. It was totally bad because I wasn't about to get a dance from her. She sat on my lap and ask for a drink. In my mind, I was ready for her to leave, but in my mind, long and behold, she was trying to block me from allowing me to get a lap dance. I try the ignore technique so I don't have to bluntly hurt her feeling. Then my opportunity came, and ask if I want a dance, and I decline. Can anyone give me advice to better handle this problem?
Just say you're waiting for someone else. If she asks who, and she will, just tell her so that the conversation will end. Because believe me, if you say something like "I'd rather not say", you'll say prolong the conversation.
agree with shadow on this one. "I don't want to waste your time" works most of the time. if she starts the drink hustle after you've told her this, its time to get rude and say something like "well since I'm not buying any dances from you, it would really just be a waste of my money to buy you a drink now wouldn't it?"
I always go with the "I'm waiting for someone" line if it's someone I know I don't want. The trouble with the "Not right now, maybe later" line is there is the possibility they might actually come back later, especially in small clubs with few dancers.
I'm "waiting for someone" or "I'm going up to tip the dancer at the rail now" and go tip the dancer. Then there is get up to go to the bathroom, take your drink and sit elsewhere when you get back. I never leave my drink on the table so this is not a problem.
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Doesn’t always work but it’s better than nothing.
1. I have no money
2. Not rite now maybe later.
3. I'm waiting for some one.
planters or emerald?