This was about my 8th visit to a strip club. (I vary between 2) Sorry if the question sounds dumb but here goes. I went to a club with about $150 (including for tolls,gas) in my wallet. I had one $50 and few $20s. I got a lap dance (pretty good, nothing special). I could of sworn I payed $20 plus a $1 dollar tip. When I checked my wallet at home I couldnt find the $50. I know the dancer didnt go threw my wallet but its possible I accidently payed $50. Funny thing is she didnt even say thanks or hardly a goodbye. If I tipped $30 over the price I would assume she'd be very happy. Maybe it fell out of my wallet at some point. Any thoughts?
If it was dark, maybe she just assumed it was a $20 and didn't realize it was a $50, and had a nice surprise later when she checked how much money she earned for the night.
At the end of the day, you need to be careful with $50's.
I try not to pay for the LD in the VIP. I walk the dancer back to my seat in the main room and use the brighter light to get the correct bills out of my wallet to pay her. The risk is that she might see how much you have in your wallet--yes, they do look if they can. On one rare occasion I gave a dancer a $100 for three great dances and she offered change. I thanked her and told her to keep it. It was well worth it.
SHE GAVE YOU CHANGE??? HUURP DURP!? That's CRAZY, I didn't kno strippers were such nice people like that. I thought anything they saw over the normal price, they auto assume its a tip and leaves you hanging.
Newbie;
First, you aren't the first guy who has done something similiar and as you say, it could have fallen out.
Second, assume the girls are only after one thing - your money. Many girls won't rip you off but most will take advantage of any situation they can find. Getting change is unheard of.
Third, I typically try to go to my club with $20, $5, and $1. I put the ones in my pocket for stage tips and leave the rest in my wallet. The average dance at my place is $25, so this way, I always have the change. However, if I do need change - walk over to the bar and have them break a $20. If you give a girl too much and ask for change, she is going to try to get yuo to give her the extra as a tip.
Last, I also only bring a limited amount of money inside with me. If I a going to get a VIP, I need to go out to the car and get more dough. Not only does this reduce the chance of getting ripped off (or lose it myself) but this also gives me a minute to think with the big head and make sure that I really do want to CR. Sometimes the little head thinks before the big head is engaged. This break also gives me a chance to check my phone for any messages. If I had a call that I need to return, I do so from my car rather than a noisy SC. I just don't need to have to explain where I am and what is that loud music in the background.
I always have the 20s ready in my back pocket so I don't have to worry about organizing what bill is what. Or if I want a set number of dances I keep exact change in one solitary area. Sorry, all tips are ld money
I try to make it a rule never to take my wallet out in a club. I always wear a shirt with a front pocket where I keep a was of $20 bills. In my left front pants pocket I keep a wad of $10 & $5 bills. In my right front pants pocket I keep a wad of singles. This helps me manage my money and also allows me to keep track of how much I am spending. If I ever run short of money in my pockets, I have to decide to violate my "rule" and raid the wallet for more cash than I had planned to spend. I also keep $50 and $100 bills in a separate part of my wallet.
As a dancer, I would never give change unless I was asked for it. Just being honest. But, if I were given $50 for a $20 dance, I would def assume it were a tip. And yeah, dancers expect tips. For every $20 dance I do, I give at least 10 of it back to the club. My club takes 7.50 for every dance, then my house mama and both bouncers each expect 1. So, for each dance I'm only getting 9.5 of that 20. Trust me, I expect a tip, unless I broke your dick/nose/something.
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At the end of the day, you need to be careful with $50's.
First, you aren't the first guy who has done something similiar and as you say, it could have fallen out.
Second, assume the girls are only after one thing - your money. Many girls won't rip you off but most will take advantage of any situation they can find. Getting change is unheard of.
Third, I typically try to go to my club with $20, $5, and $1. I put the ones in my pocket for stage tips and leave the rest in my wallet. The average dance at my place is $25, so this way, I always have the change. However, if I do need change - walk over to the bar and have them break a $20. If you give a girl too much and ask for change, she is going to try to get yuo to give her the extra as a tip.
Last, I also only bring a limited amount of money inside with me. If I a going to get a VIP, I need to go out to the car and get more dough. Not only does this reduce the chance of getting ripped off (or lose it myself) but this also gives me a minute to think with the big head and make sure that I really do want to CR. Sometimes the little head thinks before the big head is engaged. This break also gives me a chance to check my phone for any messages. If I had a call that I need to return, I do so from my car rather than a noisy SC. I just don't need to have to explain where I am and what is that loud music in the background.