Your thoughts on this:
hugevladfan
This was posted by one of the regulars, sentiments I happen to agree with ------I heard a similar analysis from another fave just before she quit. She said that part of it is when you can find a guy who makes your shift more enjoyable that is always worth hanging on to, but that an extra bump in the take home pay makes it even better. Those she said are the customers every smart dancer cultivates. ------ I spent alot of time and $$$ with a girl who reciprocated her time and quality of her dances. The last time we were together we hung out in the champagne room and I was able to procure the use of a CD and she was able to dance to the kind of music that I liked. It was fabulous. Earlier in the night she asked me when were gonna do dinner again (the first time had been three months ago) and I mentioned how Mondays were great for me and they worked for her too. When I called a few days later to set sumpin up w/her she mentioned she couldn't go at that time because she was sunning at the Hard Rock pool that day with her fellow stripper friend (who also was her best friend). A few hours later I pretty much ended any future encounters with her through an e-mail (it was tasteful). If there was no chance for a future relationship and I am not married or unattractive (quite fit actually) what was the point of losing what was easy $$$ on her account? (The reason that was the straw that broke the camel's back from my end was I no longer was going to ask her out because I was tired of her rejections, since I had perceived her to be the one asking me out, with expectations that I was paying for everything anyways I felt my feelings were being trifled with)
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No knowledge of Godel, he?
Only a quack that we see.
stripper sunning anyway
bemusement follows
cloudy on monday
stripper will still be sunning
bemusement follows
The first author of this thread
may hear who he wants.
Why he would decide
davids is worth hearing?
It is beyond me.
Two haikus, one post
Now it seems the count is three,
I must be stopped.
I believe you've summed it up.
Idiosyncratic? Yes
I apologize.
Chandler--- to break it down succinctly we're at the club hanging out she proffers the opportunity to go out to dinner rather unsolicited and when I take her up on it I got what I thought was a really lame excuse (sunning at the pool right across the street from me to boot)
Abbie--- there was no chance for any relationship of a romantic nature OTC. It would've been strictly dinner, movie, show whatever. She even mentioned bringing her 2 YO along.
Is there anyone who cares?
it does not seem so.
Either stop spending money on strippers if you are looking for OTC relationships w/ them, or make it clear to them from that the start that you know all about stripper games and do not tolerate "flaking", and any other disrespect of yourself, your time, or your money. And when they do test this out to see if you are for real, you can't get mad at them by sending them angry e-mails. Instead just don't do business with them for a month or two, and then when you are back not how their behavior improves.
That's the basic algorithm for training strippers: Be clear what kinds of behavior you don't tolerate. When they test you to see if you are for real about this, don't get angry, but just "takeaway" your business for a time. Then do business again, and note the improvement in behaviour, until the next test. Repeat ad infinitium.