I had something happen to me a while back and although I didn't think much about it at the time, over time I have thought about it more and more and am wondering what you all think. One of my friends informed me that his wife started dancing at one of the local clubs, and asked if I would like to join him since he was planning on going and sitting out in the audience to drink. I said yes, but my immediate reaction was to be somewhat surprised and confused. How was he going to feel/react knowing that I was going to be there and see his wife topless? How do I act when his wife if on stage (do I look, do I not look?). I chose to casually take a causal glance every now and then, being careful not to stare, and definitely didn't tip her. She knew I was there, too, because she came over to our table and talked with us for a bit.
The thing that didn't occur to me at the time, but only later, was this...how often does this type of thing happen. I guess I just take it for granted that the girl I'm tipping on stage, or gettting a LD from doesn't have her spouse or boyfriend actually there in the club, potentially watching every move that she or I make.
What are your thoughts?
I don't worry about it. in one of my favorite clubs there is a dancer who's husband is always there when she is working. She lost her drivers license for DUIs. She drinks even more now because he is the designated driver. The more she drinks, the looser she gets. He doesn't care, as long as she brings home the bacon. I even heard from another dancer that one customer wanted to fuck her and she told him to ask her husband for permission. He did and the husband told him OK for $300.