What would you have done?

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shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I was in this club a few nights ago and pickins were slim. This stripper sits down next to me and chats me up. Cute face. A little bit over weight. I guess I would call her a 6.5. She asks if I ever watch porn. I reply yes. Then she goes on to tell me that she is making her first porno next week. She gives me the name of the site and tells me it is $10 to join the site. I tell her that I don't pay for porn. That there is too much free stuff out there.

Then she askes if I would like a private dance so that she can show me what she can do. Of course I was interested. So I said yes and we agreed on 2 dances for $30 in a semi private couch room. The 2 dances were all that you could ask for. Busy hands under all garments. So I buy two more and she tells me my dick is bigger than the guys that she is making the porno with. I tell her bull shit. That I have seen enough pornos to know that those guys are hung. She says not all of them.

Then she askes if I want her to take care of my raging hard on. I ask what she has in mind. She says fucking of course. I say I don't have a condom. She says you don't need one. I say I can't do that and even if I had a condom, I would not do it here. One dancer had just been suspended for giving a HJ.

She counters with meeting me OTC for FS. I didn't even ask her how much. I just said "No thanks".

I am very leary about doing OTC with dancers that I don't know well.

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jester214
12 years ago
I might have explored the options for something other than FS ITC, but then again I probably would have done what you did. Just would have depended on my mood.

I would have been more leery about her willingness to do OTC so easily.
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jester214
12 years ago
I might have explored the options for something other than FS ITC, but then again I probably would have done what you did. Just would have depended on my mood.

I would have been more leery about her willingness to do OTC so easily.
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Tiredtraveler
12 years ago
The RED light goes on as soon as she says 'you don't need a condom'.
That is my cue to move on. Send her number to ALP
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georgmicrodong
12 years ago
Bareback? I know *I* would have declined. However, I know you seem to have little problem with a BBBJ (not judging), so why didn't you propose that? Were you really concerned with getting caught, or did you think she was playing you?
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rickdugan
12 years ago
I would have said, "I'm sorry sweetheart, but I'm just here to be teased, not to be pleased."
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DroidX
12 years ago
If It's too good to be true, it probably is.
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Omega22
12 years ago
I would have probably did something similiar. I have never did an OTC so I would be nervous about it. Also I have plenty of money for the clubs but not enough to also do OTC. Maybe when I am making more money and am a little older I will consider OTC but not for now.
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shadowcat
12 years ago
george - My concern with a BBBJ at the time was getting caught. A head bobbing up and down is more noticable than fucking. Had it been during the afternoon when there is more privacy, I might have suggested a BBBJ.
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lovemetiddys
12 years ago
Um if she was a solid ten ,it would have been to good to be true
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ButterMan
12 years ago
i would have at least asked for some details. Did she have a place to go? A hotel? I would be curious but a little cautious I'm sure. OTC is the way to go if you can get it. I would much rather have a BJ in my hotel room than in some club VIP.
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Alucard
12 years ago
SC

I think you did right by declining FS OTC with an Unknown Dancer.



"I would much rather have a BJ in my hotel room than in some club VIP"

Even in a KNOWN Extras club where the management is aware of the Extras & doesn't care or patrol the VIP??
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mjx01
12 years ago
always wear a raincoat ;)
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Corvus
12 years ago
I think you handled it exactly right. An unknown girl refusing a cover. No thanks.
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mmdv26
12 years ago
She prolly had the clap.
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Clubber
12 years ago
sc,

Me thinks, SS.
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shadowcat
12 years ago
Clubber - which part? She did give me the name of the porn site, which I have forgotten because I have no interest in it.
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gatorfan
12 years ago
Next time start a conversation about how many STD's she has amd babies to other clients. I would guess she has a whole litter of them.
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Club_Goer_Seattle
12 years ago
If a dancer asks you to join her for something OTC that's too much for your comfort level, for the first time seeing her OTC, suggest something simple as a first get together. That happened to me in one of my early OTC's. After a year of knowing one particular dancers, there was a particular show that she wanted me to take her to see. The thought of OTC with her was interesting, but I wanted to start out slowly with her. So, I suggested that we just meet for dinner one night before she goes to work and see how just that much goes, before committing to the big event. I actually did one more "diner and dancing" outing with her (as I call it), before taking her to the show she asked me to. We then had a three-year OTC relatioship.
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sharkhunter
12 years ago
I've already turned down a dancer or two who wanted me to meet up for outside the club sex without even bothering with hardly talking to me first. I remember I did tip one girl on stage. I hardly thought she was going to come over to me and talk about prices to meet up away from the club next. She tried to get dances after I said I wasn't interested in that at the moment. I remember when a female customer acted like she was shopping and decided she could just tell me she wanted to take me back to her home just like that without telling me her name or anything. I would have to be pretty horny or desperate to leave with a total stranger. If I talk to her for a few minutes first, that might be different.
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farmerart
12 years ago
WTF? Do you have some magic dust sprinkled all over your body that brings out this behaviour from dancers, shadowcat? Never works this way for me. I certainly can now get action in clubs and OTC is not uncommon if I go hunting; but, it always costs me much more $$$$$$$ than you seem to spend.

Is this just a function of your hunting grounds in Atlanta/South Carolina? Or, are you some devastatingly sexy stud?
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shadowcat
12 years ago
Well Art, The girls are always telling me that I have a big cock and we know that strippers never lie. :)
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Clubber
12 years ago
sc,

Pretty much everything she said, IMHO.
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Clubber
12 years ago
fa,

Sometimes I think the ladies take pity on us old-timers! :)
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rickdugan
12 years ago
@farmer: As I've always said, you club in the wrong places - lol.

@shadow: I'd like to say that I would take the high road if it happened to me, but I don't know. With enough alcohol and a raging hard-on, I could see my judgment getting fuzzy.
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