Can a gay male do an objective review on a female strip club?

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• Alucard

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  12 years ago

  "Can a gay male do an objective review on a female strip club?"
  
  Yes.
  
  Any human being including SBGM & with all of us being sexual beings too, can be objective in looking at & speaking about any subject, even a sexually oriented subject such as Strip Clubs. Whether SBGM is a shill or not is an entirely different topic & matter as far as giving an objective review is concerned.
  
  "Um, no. You fuckin FAGGOT!"
  
  That comment speaks for itself in VOLUMES!!!
• thesamurai

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  12 years ago

  If his idea of a good club is females in business suits and non-slutty strippers then the answer to sc's question is no.
  
• pabloantonio

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  12 years ago

  A gay male can no more accurately review a heterosexual stripclub than a straight guy can review a gay club.
  
  If you, SBGM, want to "review" clubs, please review all you want sir, but don't expect people to take you seriously now that you have outted yourself with an in-your-face I'M GAY statement.
  
  Shadowcat only questioned your association with the club, not your sexual orientation. No one here cares what you are, but this forum is not the proper place for pushing the gay political agenda
• Dougster

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  12 years ago

  I don't know. What did everyone think of MisterGay's reviews? He sure wasn't a popular person on this board.
• Alucard

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  12 years ago

  "A gay male can no more accurately review a heterosexual stripclub than a straight guy can review a gay club"
  
  Incorrect IMO.
• lopaw

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  12 years ago

  Hmmmmm.
  This would be like me doing reviews of Chippendales - it wouldn't make much sense from a sexual standpoint, which is what alot of people here are looking for in the reviews.
  But if all you want to read about in reviews is general non-sexual stuff, then SBGM's review would be acceptable.
• motorhead

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  12 years ago

  Can a vegetarian write a review of Morton's Steak House?
  
  I suppose they can talk about the parking and the service and if the salad is good - but is that what I care about?
• inno123

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  12 years ago

  Wow, quite a lot more hostility here than I might have expected. Honestly I think that among the things that he commented on such as how clean the club was, how friendly the staff was, whether the DJ was a jerk are all things that you don't have to be hetero to evaluate and are all things I would include in a review. Whether the women were attractive is also something that a gay guy could evaluate.
  
  Now when it comes to the dances we may have a difference of opinion. Clearly he was not looking for high mileage ('slutty') so I will take it that the club did not do high mileage dances.
  
  Still, was the review informative? Yes.
• snowtime

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  12 years ago

  The review sure appears to be a shill review. Just the way it is written makes it look suspect. If the guy is a Gay male I don't know why he would be writing a review of a strip club. I can see a Gay male going once out of curiosity, but not writing reviews and participating in a site like TUSCL.
• motorhead

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  12 years ago

  " Whether the women were attractive is also something that a gay guy could evaluate."
  
  I would have to respectfully disagree with that statement. Consider the reverse situation. What I consider to be an attractive male, most dancers wouldn't agree. Just take a look at the men that dancers find attractive. Totally not what I would consider to be "hot".
  
  Another example. Have you ever watched "The Killing" on AMC? The women on the show's discussion blogs find Detective Holder super hot and sexy. They gush all over him. I think he is the epitome of white trailer trash. Scuzzy.
  
  I just dont think a gay man's taste in women will reflect my tastes. I like thicker women and I just doubt a gay man would feel the same
  
  
• mmdv26

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  12 years ago

  I wonder if the reviewer had a least some "stirring in his loins" while watching friendly, attractive, non-slutty women? He didn't say anything about nice tits or asses (on the dancers), so I'm thinking he might not have been focused on, or even aware of, those aspects of his surroundings that night.
  
  So, maybe gays write good reviews about the aesthetics of the club, but miss the loin-stirring details of nicely shaped tits and asses...on girls.
  
  
  
  
• deogol

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  12 years ago

  I think a gay person can accurately review a strip club in many ways. Cleanliness, attitudes of staff and others, music, security, etc. These are important things.
  
  I don't think I would trust a gay (man's) opinion of what girls are sexy though. :)
• inno123

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  12 years ago

  @motorhead
  
  So, for example, could a gay man judge a beauty pageant? I think he could. He may not be personally sexually arrouses by the women, but he can tell if they fit our standards for what makes a beautiful woman.
  
  I do find it puzzling though that if he does not find the women desirable WTF is he doing in the club in the first place?
• pabloantonio

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  12 years ago

  Why would a gay man even go to a heterosexual stripclub?
  
  Sexually speaking this is a contradiction in terms. Men go to stripclubs because of sexual motivation, not because they want to see the decor of the club.
  
  Either:
  
  1. He is lying to us about being gay, or
  
  2. He is lying to himself about his true sexual orientation.
  
  I suppose he could be bi-sexual which would make his review half correct, but which SBGM went to the club that night, the gay SBGM or the straight SBSM?
  
  I still say the review is a shill at best.
• motorhead

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  12 years ago

  @inno
  
  I'm probably sounding like I'm contradicting myself - but yes I gay man could judge a contest - just as they always have women. Seems much of the points are awarded for things other than physical beauty. Talent, poise, answering the question.
  
  
  That's why the contestants who I think belong in the top 10 (based purely on looks) hardly are the same ones that the judges vote on.
• maburton

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  12 years ago

  Have you seen some of the reviews here? He presented a greater detail than about 80% of them. Isn't that good enough?
• georgmicrodong

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  12 years ago

  @maburton: My thoughts exactly. He at least addressed some of the issues most of us here have lamented over the lack of in reviews.
• sharkhunter

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  12 years ago

  I wouldn't place much value on the review since I'm mainly interested in how the dancers look and some variables related to that. He didn't list any prices either for drinks or dances either unless I only read a partial clip. I probably would place a lot more value to the review if he said it was a gay club and the dancers were male. I'd know to stay away.
  
  As far as how the dancers look, I don't care a whole lot about how they look with their clothes on. I'm more interested how they look if they were naked.
• sharkhunter

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  12 years ago

  I figure a gay guy has a female like brain and will be judging looks with a heavy emphasis on the clothes making the appearance. A regular male brain imagines the girl naked in judging her looks IMO. Clothes only get in the way of making accurate assessments.
• sharkhunter

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  12 years ago

  I suppose some outfits do make dancers look a lot better than others. I don't really have much experience with how gay guys would rate girls physical appearance so I guess I am a bit prejudice. Some dancers don't seem to know when their outfits make them look worse. I suppose if someone said the dancers looked like street walkers or were wearing evening dresses, I would understand.
• how

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  12 years ago

  A woman can review an SC, and her comments can be valuable to those who care about the things she's commenting on.
  
  A gay man can review and SC, and his comments can be valuable to those who care about the things he's commenting on.
  
  But for most on here, the objective in an SC is something that neither the woman nor gay man share as an objective of theirs.
• mikeya02

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  12 years ago

  I'm pretty sure gay guys like chatting with girls. A strip club makes sense.
• lopaw

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  12 years ago

  "But for most on here, the objective in an SC is something that neither the woman nor gay man share as an objective of
  theirs."
  
  
  Besides myself and one or two dancers that post here, what other women with different objectives are you referring to?
• deogol

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  12 years ago

  Gay males cannot be trusted for judging the looks of a woman. Just look at "super models" that appear more like scrawny malnutritioned boys. Don't throw flowers at them - throw sandwiches!