Question for strippers - How can a customer get a date with you?

Oh, this is just silly. Plenty of strippers are into casual sex: yes even with customers: yes even for fre. Just make it clear what your agenda is from the start. Some girls in the strippers demographic are looking for LTRs but most just want to have some quick fun. This is the real reason why asking for a date rather than sex straight up is such a bad idea: hides your agenda, and no one wants to feel out played. Just be straight forward about what you want.

The only way a customer could get a date with me is if he seriously wanted a long-term relationship and not just sex.

Are more strippers out there?

There are a bunch of strippers out there RL. You just have to visit a strip club.