Maybe it's cause I'm a rookie when it comes to extras, but I don't last more than 2 songs before I bust (even with a condom on). I try busting before I go to the SC, thinking of Rosie O'Donnell naked, etc. But I still bust like a minute man! LoL... How long does it take you guys?
Frankly, I probably wouldn't worry about it There's gonna be some guys that come on here and say "I'm awesome, I fucked her for 25 minutes and she came 7 times"
But the truth is that the dancers are on the
clock and it's in their best interest to get you off and get onto the next paying customer. Just enjoy it.
It's random, depending on the days if I'm hornier than others. I wrote on here one time that a girl gave me a bbbj and she gave up. Sometimes 2 songs, another 7....again...just depends on the mood and day.
@boredxx: Are you considering a lap dance and "extras session" just because you bust one?
That's not what I would considered an extra, and I have never cum from a lap dance. Not even when I was younger and quicker. For other forms of stimulation, it can take 10 to 60 minutes, depending on various factors.
I never got off in a strip club either even when I was younger. So it is something I never have given much thought to as far as strip club activities go.
When I was younger, I had a very hard time getting past some Korean massage parlors because those girls would grab me and force me inside their clubs. Lots of times they just wanted to play with me. I often felt a bit drained after escaping but still managed to get to my intended target, the strip club next door.
Stiletto, agreed....lol, the only thing that could possibly make sense in that context was he was using that as a method to combat premature ejac....and that certainly would cure it....
Wide range of results, of course. I've busted inside her BBFSCIP quite quickly; other times, the rides have been so long I almost felt guilty for monopolizing all her time...
Like above, it varies with the dancer. They are generally trying make as much money as possible, so sometimes being rushed is part of the experience.
It has always taken me more than 5 minutes of consistent, direct stimulation to finish. A condom adds at least 50% to that. Changing positions, popping out, lick and stick, etc, "reset the timer" somto speak. So if you're looking for my honest answer, it's probably around 10-12 minutes or approx 3-4 songs. Throw in some kissing, a warm up dance and DATY, and you're talking about 15-20 minutes or 6-8 songs.
If you want to last longer, consider adding some kegel exercises to you practice sessions. And if helps to pace yourself. Add in some desensitizing creams if you need more help. Maybe consider doing a complex thinking process instead of picturing Rosie. Like remembering the details of your drive to the club, and the number of steps you took before entering.
@MADDOG_ROMEO:
"Stiletto, agreed....lol, the only thing that could possibly make sense in that context was he was using that as a method to combat premature ejac....and that certainly would cure it...."
That is what I meant... the mind is a powerful thing and I think it helps to postpone busting....
@Stiletto25: I'm sure nobody gets off thinking about Rosie O'Donnell... I was using her as an example... lol
Papi_Chulo: Hmmm... Seems like I need to "PRACTICE" and Enjoy it Less... That way I might last more than 2 songs!
HonestT: Dayam.. You're my hero! lol
Thanks everyone for their input... I guess I'm still a NEWB and I'll eventually become more desensitized..Until then I'll sit back and try to enjoy it and as MMDV26 said: "Thinking about how much money I have spent in clubs over the past year helps me to last longer in an extra's session." should help!
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But the truth is that the dancers are on the
clock and it's in their best interest to get you off and get onto the next paying customer. Just enjoy it.
WHAT SERVICE!!! A reply in like 7 minutes lol... Thanks man!
I know when I was much younger I could probably bust soon after initial entry b/c I was so whined-up/excited.
It definitely takes practice for most.
That's not what I would considered an extra, and I have never cum from a lap dance. Not even when I was younger and quicker. For other forms of stimulation, it can take 10 to 60 minutes, depending on various factors.
So I assume he meant more than a lap dance. Uneless he plays it really really safe!
Funny, I thought you told me that was your CUDDLING time with the girl! LOL
Like above, it varies with the dancer. They are generally trying make as much money as possible, so sometimes being rushed is part of the experience.
It has always taken me more than 5 minutes of consistent, direct stimulation to finish. A condom adds at least 50% to that. Changing positions, popping out, lick and stick, etc, "reset the timer" somto speak. So if you're looking for my honest answer, it's probably around 10-12 minutes or approx 3-4 songs. Throw in some kissing, a warm up dance and DATY, and you're talking about 15-20 minutes or 6-8 songs.
If you want to last longer, consider adding some kegel exercises to you practice sessions. And if helps to pace yourself. Add in some desensitizing creams if you need more help. Maybe consider doing a complex thinking process instead of picturing Rosie. Like remembering the details of your drive to the club, and the number of steps you took before entering.
Abso-bloody-lutely *not* the only one!
"Stiletto, agreed....lol, the only thing that could possibly make sense in that context was he was using that as a method to combat premature ejac....and that certainly would cure it...."
That is what I meant... the mind is a powerful thing and I think it helps to postpone busting....
@Stiletto25: I'm sure nobody gets off thinking about Rosie O'Donnell... I was using her as an example... lol
Papi_Chulo: Hmmm... Seems like I need to "PRACTICE" and Enjoy it Less... That way I might last more than 2 songs!
HonestT: Dayam.. You're my hero! lol
Thanks everyone for their input... I guess I'm still a NEWB and I'll eventually become more desensitized..Until then I'll sit back and try to enjoy it and as MMDV26 said: "Thinking about how much money I have spent in clubs over the past year helps me to last longer in an extra's session." should help!