For all you used to be married mother fuckas !......was you a real peace of shit and was clubbing before the devorse or after ?...........I started clubbing after she cheated ! Then she left cuz I was clubbing so fuckin hard ! Now I'm clubbing until I die ! What about all you super fly getto gangstas !
According to her, my clubbing was the reason for the divorce. She assumed I pursued extras. I did not, but the fact that I was in a club equaled adultery in her head.
One dancer made me feel like I was married. She was on me as soon as I stepped in the club and would chase away any other dancer that dared to approach me before she got to me. She was still bossing me around even at her house telling me if I took it out, I had to use it.
I separated from her by moving out of state. Clubbing before, during and after I met her. She did get pissed off at me and quit working the club I was visiting for 3 whole months at one point. I didn't even understand why she was so pissed off. She gave me the creepy marriage vibe.
Leonard313, I submit it is entirely possible for a happily married couple to frequent strip clubs together. Just as I submit that it is possible for a happily married couple to view porn together. Neither means their relationship is not fullfilling or that they are not happy together and want something else. It means that they choose to explore their sexuality together and together experience everything the two of them deem as appropriate or safe within their relationship.
ALP- What I have a problem with in your statement is (well, pretty much everything in your post but I will only address this one) "being good to your wife in front of her....listen to her bullshit." If that is a true reflection of your feelings, you have no idea what "being good" to someone means. If you love and are good to someone, you don't see what they want to talk with you about as bullshit. Nor do you believe being good to someone means only the things you do while in their company or, as you say, "in front of her."
You say you have been married for 12 great years. I assume that means your spouce knows you visit clubs and what goes on there and that you do not hide or lie about it. If that is the case and she has no problem with it, then fine. If you hide it or lie about how much you spend or what you do, then shame on you. The only reason for you to do so would be because you know she would have an issue with it.
Marriage is a partnership, of which, by Bibilcal command, the man is at the head. That does not give him carte blanche to do whatever he wants. In fact, it means exactly the opposite, that he is to consider his spouce's feelings and needs before his own. And, yes, I am sure I will take some flack because I refer to a Biblical command on TUSCL. And I really don't care. Partners do things together: when trouble ensues is when one partner believes they can do something (anything) knowing the other partner would have a problem with it.
And I am sure you have all guessed by now this is mrs m00t. What you probably don't know is that you would get a far harsher sentence from mr m00t than from me. LOL
ALP, I seriously doubt the same types of clubs would appeal to us at all but I thank you for the invite.
Secondly, I thank the stars I am not married to you. I cannot imagine a partnership with anyone who spouts the crap you do.
Thirdly, mr m00t has his dick. We happen, by today's standards at least, to have a very traditional marriage where the wife still believes the husband is the head of the household.
Divorce occurs for a variety of reasons and most of them have nothing to do with what you seem to think it does. My first husband was no girly-man, for instance. He has a severe gambling and lying problem with some alcohol addiction thrown in for good measure to help make him meaner.
I am pretty sure my husband will take the time to respond tonight when he is home. I am quite sure he will give you a completely different perspective to consider.
Oooooooooo! Sounds like an ass beaten is comming ! Lol ! Wait until daddy gets home ! Lol.....I kid I kid .....moots your fuckin kool.....pimp god do I love the filth that flows from your computer !
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Men in happy fullfilling relationships don't tend to need to blow $200 to have company and some nice boobies in their face.
I ain't hatin...I love clubbin. Nothing like variety to keep life interesting. But I don't kid myself.
ALP- What I have a problem with in your statement is (well, pretty much everything in your post but I will only address this one) "being good to your wife in front of her....listen to her bullshit." If that is a true reflection of your feelings, you have no idea what "being good" to someone means. If you love and are good to someone, you don't see what they want to talk with you about as bullshit. Nor do you believe being good to someone means only the things you do while in their company or, as you say, "in front of her."
You say you have been married for 12 great years. I assume that means your spouce knows you visit clubs and what goes on there and that you do not hide or lie about it. If that is the case and she has no problem with it, then fine. If you hide it or lie about how much you spend or what you do, then shame on you. The only reason for you to do so would be because you know she would have an issue with it.
Marriage is a partnership, of which, by Bibilcal command, the man is at the head. That does not give him carte blanche to do whatever he wants. In fact, it means exactly the opposite, that he is to consider his spouce's feelings and needs before his own. And, yes, I am sure I will take some flack because I refer to a Biblical command on TUSCL. And I really don't care. Partners do things together: when trouble ensues is when one partner believes they can do something (anything) knowing the other partner would have a problem with it.
And I am sure you have all guessed by now this is mrs m00t. What you probably don't know is that you would get a far harsher sentence from mr m00t than from me. LOL
Have a great day!
Moot.....you made a fuckin goodpoint !.......plus juice reads and teaches from the bible so I loved that reference : )
Secondly, I thank the stars I am not married to you. I cannot imagine a partnership with anyone who spouts the crap you do.
Thirdly, mr m00t has his dick. We happen, by today's standards at least, to have a very traditional marriage where the wife still believes the husband is the head of the household.
Divorce occurs for a variety of reasons and most of them have nothing to do with what you seem to think it does. My first husband was no girly-man, for instance. He has a severe gambling and lying problem with some alcohol addiction thrown in for good measure to help make him meaner.
I am pretty sure my husband will take the time to respond tonight when he is home. I am quite sure he will give you a completely different perspective to consider.
I guess I am a "a real peace of shit and was clubbing before the devorse"