"Unfaithful stories of betrayal" I just recently watched a few episodes on cable. There were two stories of a guy or girl cheating on their spouse for each episode. Out of the ones i saw, there was three different relationships or stories in which the guys did otc with some stripper they had fallen for. One story was when the guy supposedly leaves on business in FL every few weeks, but it was to go see the dancer. Wife finds out about what he has been doing and they divorce. That following week the dancer makes up some ss and ends the relationship out of the blue. Another one is when the dancer calls his wife to tell her of whats been going on because he wasn't willing to leave his wife and kids for her. I would hope that if and when I do get married that i would be faithful and true to her.
I did joke around to my cousin that i would finally do it, he got excited for until i said i was joking. I have always thought strongly about waiting for marriage. Well strip clubbing isn't really helping, make me want it even more.
"Why? What gives you the moral authority to set such conditions on others' relationships?"
Are you referring to me gmd?
If so, that's MY opinion. Anyone can Dislike it or Like it. That's anyone's Right. As is expressing their opinions on any subject.
And I have a right to have an opinion about other's expressed opinions & beliefs.
Please explain HOW I could possibly SET & ENFORCE conditions on anyone's Life & Relationships. I do not possess ANY
Moral Authority over anything or anyone except myself.
Of course you have the right to your opinion; I never claimed otherwise. However, when most people who respect the language are expressing an opinion, they use such phrases as "I think", "I believe" or some such. You used the imperative, i.e. "Don't get married." That's not the expression of an opinion, that's a command, irrespective of whether or not you can realistically expect to enforce it.
"You used the imperative, i.e. "Don't get married." That's not the expression of an opinion, that's a command, irrespective of whether or not you can realistically expect to enforce it"
Sorry Sir, BUT it is still an opinion NOT a Command. I have have NO POWER to enforce any opinion I express. If you disagree with how I expressed the opinion...Well that's too bad. I'll express my opinions how I believe I should, NOT how anyone else believes I should. If someone disagrees with or doesn't like my opinions, I suggest they don't read those that they disagree with or don't like. That's their right.
"However, when most people who respect the language"
There are some persons who don't. I attempt to by being as Literate as possible in my posts. Not everyone apparently makes that effort. You are certainly literate Sir.
Ugh I dated this guy for a few months who was a complete ass and lied to me about being married. The wife contacted me after we had broken up and told me that I was the cause of their divorce. I felt horrible. I would have never had a relationship with a married man like that. To this day I'm still miffed that the fact got past me all those months. Really made me question a lot of things
Stiletto25 there is not much you can do in a situation where someone completely lies to you & probably covered up all evidence of a marriage. About the only thing you could have done is run a background check on the guy - that's if you had his "Real" name. The man was wrong to deceive you & his wife.
I don't think you should feel bad about it. If he hadn't lied to you, he would have and probably did lie to every other girl he met including his wife. I believe it was a trend not one thing that led to their divource. I hope dancers and any other girls that I end hooking up with are single but some married people are looking to cheat. I keep seeing an ad for an online web dating site that involves married people wanting an affair. I guess they want an affair and to stay married.
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I would hope so to. Otherwise if you wish to continue screwing around...DON'T get Married!
Are you referring to me gmd?
If so, that's MY opinion. Anyone can Dislike it or Like it. That's anyone's Right. As is expressing their opinions on any subject.
And I have a right to have an opinion about other's expressed opinions & beliefs.
Please explain HOW I could possibly SET & ENFORCE conditions on anyone's Life & Relationships. I do not possess ANY
Moral Authority over anything or anyone except myself.
Sorry Sir, BUT it is still an opinion NOT a Command. I have have NO POWER to enforce any opinion I express. If you disagree with how I expressed the opinion...Well that's too bad. I'll express my opinions how I believe I should, NOT how anyone else believes I should. If someone disagrees with or doesn't like my opinions, I suggest they don't read those that they disagree with or don't like. That's their right.
"However, when most people who respect the language"
There are some persons who don't. I attempt to by being as Literate as possible in my posts. Not everyone apparently makes that effort. You are certainly literate Sir.
I realize that now. Your method of expressing it confused me.