Annoying Body Language

I can tolerate Annoying Body Language much, much easier than a Verbal Assault from a rejected Stripper.

Did she say anything motorhead?

No. Thankfully she was silent.

Guess that's an indicator as to how her night was going...

I wonder what the longest interview process a customer could get away with before making a decision?

I've had uninvited Dancers sit by me for up to 20 minutes before they decided my initial "No Thanks" & subsequent silence was in earnest.

Drac, is that the ol' Bogart's routine? Where the gal poses as somewhat occupied (yet very visible) such as to create more desire/interest? There were a number of Bogart's gals who used to slide in next to older customers in hopes they would buy them a drink (or at least not try to mount them the way the younger lads can't wait to do.)

Might be CTQWERTY. About 60% of these episodes happened at Bogart's prior to my getting a ATF there in early 2010.

"Push off?" I'm honestly confused

Stiletto,

I mean physically give me a liitle shove when I declined the dance. Instead of just taking her hand away from my arm, she pushed off like a swimmer does against the wall.

It's happened on several occasions. Always very young girls.

It's unfortunate, but not all dancers take rejection very well. You would think that women coming into this line of business would realize having thick skin is a prerequisite.

motor,

Would you complain were she a crotch grabber when she approached? :)

Motorhead - I've experienced the same thing, as well as the huff, bad words, sneers, scorn, disgust, and every other expression of human contempt when I say, "No." I've also had the occasional smile and wishes for a nice evening as they walk away with grace and dignity. The latter occurs about a fifth of the time, and is always appreciated by me. I often acquiesce for a dance or two when they later come around versus never for the ones who dissed me.

I'm with Nobodyhere on this, if you don't like the customers in your line of work, you should find another occupation.

I have discovered a new tool to use on the persistant dancers. I tell them that I just finished a trip to the VIP room.

It's understandable, them not taking rejection, I agree that there is no call for physicality. Back in the 80's when I was in outside sales, there were times I felt like pounding on some of my prospective customers, but thankfully I never did. LOL

" One thing that tickles me is when a dancer hugs a customer from behind, then he turns around to see her with that "What the Hell" look on his face"

I DON'T like the from behind ambush. In my case 95% of the time it is a 5 or worse on the scale of 10 type Dance. NOT a Stripper I'm likely to pick on a random basis.

Alucard - That is why I always try to get a seat with my back to the wall.

"Alucard - That is why I always try to get a seat with my back to the wall"

That would help shadowcat.

Ah I get it. Its sort of a passive aggressive way to respond to your rejection. I don't think Ill be doing that.

Normaly if a dancer does this to me and yes it happens even to juicy ! : )) she has lost all business with me even if she is extra friendly or mt type ! She just ain't worth it to me ! If I wanted that kind of treatment I would have just stayed married and got it for free !

juice - I couldn't afford all the free pussy, so I got divorced.

Lmf ASS OFF ! Shadow that was a good one !

A veteran SC waitress lamented the bad manners that are becoming routine in clubs. She said the industry was going downhill fast, because dancers were openly rude to customers, agressive and crotch grabbing. "No style, no flirting, not seduction."

Rude = Bad

Aggressive = good or bad

Crotch grabbing = GOOD