Building a rapport at a club
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I was wondering how long did it take for you guys to build a solid rapport at your favorite club or clubs ranging from dancers, waitresses, bouncers and VIP hostess and if you guys get any special treatment. It took at least 2 trips to set rapport with my favorite dancers. Waitresses it took about 1 1/2 month and for the rest off the staff it was abot 4 to 5 months. Now I get good seats constantly, no drink min, special prices on the VIP rooms and I could pretty much get away with a bit more things then other people cant. LD are becoming fun ranging from LFK to DKF on some occasion and neck sucking.
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About a week or two ago, I met a dancer at a club I frequent, that will probably become my first favorite. This chick is my type and will probably end up taking all of my money, lol. Only problem is, I'm not sure what days she works and I don't know how to find out other than calling the club and asking which is something I really don't want to do. Any other ideas?
I have been able to build some level of rapport at the club I'm frequenting. The hosts/managers generally know who I am. I've been going less often but they haven't forgotten. Some dancers know me, others don't. Just be a true gentleman in the club and respectful to all. Tip well. The dancers waitresses, bartenders, etc. all appreciate that.
@gsv- How much do yo usually tip the bouncer, waitresses and ect? When I was at my favorite club on Saturdays night it was busy as hell and I got the only open table which was in the back. not more then 5 min passed by and one of the bouncer went up to me and said if I was having a good time. I told him if there was any open chair by the seats and he looked around and said " Fuck that bro im going to put you n celebrity stage one" note celebrity stage one is only open for a group of 8+ people coming into the club. so I tip him a 20 for a good area thats semi private. Ever since then I get upgraded to stage 1 even if theres no table they will actually bring one out from the back for me. my usual waitresses I will tip them 25 plus and non regular waitresses 15 to 20 dollars. Bouncer around 40 dollars.
@GoVikings - I honestly think OTC is always in the cards no matter where the club is. True it less likely in some places, and some girls are not open to it. But it is worth a shot especially if you like this girl. I say the first step is to get her number. See if she wants to go out sometime. Worst she can say is no. Feel free to PM me if you ever need any advice.
n't say I'm a big spender, but if you tip appropriately and treat the staff (including the dancers) well, you'll build a rapport soon. Up here in Detroit, my ATF club, it took awhile, but the waitresses take very good care of a regular that treats them well.
One day the night shift girl was there when I walked in for lunch. She greater me after I sat down and said, "Hey great to see you. Did you know that you're the man around here? All the girls talk really highly of you." there may have been some SS in there, but she's one of these dancers that are real straight shooters, so I believe her.
The other side: I was with a night shuft ATF and she commented on some PLs at the bar. "Man look at those losers over there. Those guys are here more than I am! And it's not like they're spending much, they just sit there. I'm glad you don't come in all the time like that." I wonder if she would have said the same thing if she was collecti paper from them.
Aside from that, DJs and bouncers love when you talk up how great their jobs must be, and tip them. In the same period as above, I stopped havin to pay cover and the DJ always asked me if I wanted him to play my favorite songs. This were great perks, IMHO, even better than having your drink prepares for you. In my experience the waitresses turned over more than the dancers.
I was shocked the one time you walked in and she went over to tell you where I was sitting. Good club, my friend!
I'll try to keep it "warm" till you get tired of the snowbird thing!
Ever since that visit, that waitress has been giving me 'tips' about the current roster of dancers whenever I show up at the club. About 50% of the time I score some sweet takeout. Since there are no house dancers at this club, just a different roster of touring dancers every two weeks or so, this waitress is pure gold for me. I continue to tip this waitress very well, even took her out to dinner once - but she refuses to 'play' with me.