In a recent blog or article comment (and I apologize for the lack of attribution; I couldn't find it), a poster remarked that he didn't understand why one might have an ATF, though I surmise from context that he actually meant something like "regular favorite," since "ATF" simply describes one of potentially many current and past favorites, (though I've noticed a tendancy towards generalizing usage of the term ATF towards "current" rather than "all time"). Why not just have a girlfriend, SO or wife if you're going to fuck the same woman all the time?
For me, that's relatively simple. Since sex within my marriage is effectively nonexistent, any sex, whether with a regular or with a different girl every time, is an improvement. Like most human males, I am a creature of habit, and while variety does appeal to me, so does familiarity and the comfort level that comes with it. Having a small number of favorites, with whom I deal, I not only get the sex I wouldn't at home, I get a bit of variety and the comfort of familiarity at the same time. Without apology, I can have my Kate and Edith, too.
