My 2nd time at a strip club (Baby Dolls Dallas, old location), was the first time I ever had lapdances. I went with my cousin, which is also his 1st time. We were approached by 2 strippers, and they says we should get dances from them. We agreed, and they took us to a corner with high chairs. We did had customary dances, but we were together, so I suggested we trade strippers, in the middle of the song. I switched like two more times, for a total of two songs. It was great, because both strippers had different types of bodies.
We were young and naive. I don't know if I would ever do it again, though.
You must not have been getting good grindage, if you were willing to part with a dancer, even for a few seconds. ;-)