OTC - how the hell
funluvncpl13
Ok. I have been reading all of the posts on the forum and first of all, I am pissed I didn't know about this place before. Secondly, I am starting to get a tad Jealous of you guys. I have read stories about OTC and ITC but have never witnessed it. I don't know anyone personally that has either. I am not saying that I don't believe you guys, cause I do.. I just want to know HOW THE HELL!! I mean, I have read and still trying to figure out if you just magically hit it off, or if you just pay a lot more. I've read how much you guys spend a night and I almost spend that much but all I seem to get is a dancer that is only interested in my money. Which I don't blame them, because that's what they are they for. But, I'm not sure if I would know otherwise.. LOL..
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Step 3: Dress well. Have good grooming.
Step 4: Make your intentions known.
Setp 5: Bring money. Truthfully, this step can eliminate steps 2-4.
I've been relatively lucky; about half of the encounters I've had, which ended up in some form of sex, were initiated by the dancer. I was in the right club. The other half were the result of interacting with the dancers and trying to feel them out about it. I probably missed a few by being too cautious, but that still leaves me with plenty. Again, I was in the right club.
As for OTC specifically, IME a girl who will do it ITC will also do it OTC, as long as she thinks you're serious about it. She might even prefer it, since she wouldn't have to share the fee with the club.
There's no one right way to go about it. You can get some ideas for different general approaches for various scenarios by reading past discussions and articles on TUSCL, but ultimately you're going to have to go out and do your hunting.
Be careful, though. There are a number of pitfalls, including LE, ROBs and club management. Most of those are navigable with some care, though.
I think you are shooting yourself in the foot for extras if you insist on taking your wife along. I have seen many couples getting private dances. The good dancers will give them both a good time but it ends there.
As for me, generally I rarely score the 1st time I meet and get dances from a stripper. You gotta establish a trust with them. And be a repeat customer. I am going through a dry spell. I know 2 that are sure things. The price for FS OTC has already been established at $150. I have the money and then some but have been cock blocking myself. An ex stripper has captured me. Yeah, gridget.
easier said than done of course, but that's the key.
i have to disagree with the comment though that a girl that is willing itc will be willing otc. i'm sure many will but i've had conversations with some that have insisted that what they do in the club stays in the club and will not be repeated anywhere else. sure it doesn't make sense but since when did strippers ever make sense.. lol
Next time try a little finger banging. The best way to try this is when she's facing away. You can 'ask' for this by sliding your hand into her g-string, only to the first joint. She'll either tap or move your hand or you will soon know what her kitty feels like.
If you get the stinky pinky, feel free to ask, "what else is on the menu?" Be sure to ask prices before enjoying your entree.
Wanna dance?
What's available?
Step 0 - leave your wife at home.
After that I agree with the steps 1-5 above. While PH is right that enough money trumps 2-4, I think you will find that 2-4 will bring more dancers by you to begin with and this is sometimes a game of chance.
Good luck!
I have experienced ITC 3 times and the 3rd time being the best but it still seems rushed unlike OTC where you can take your time and be a lot more comfortable.
Some of my OTCs have been at the dancer's place and some have been at a motel where I paid for the room. For my next OTC, the dancer has offered to split the cost of the room-I will deduct the amount from her fee.
As far as $150, not likely in most places. Maybe in Houston and some other parts of the deep south, but you should expect to pay between $250 to $300 to take a stripper out of a club. Like I always say, a good gauge IMHO is to go on Craigs List (generally low) and Eros (generally high), add the common hourly rates from each place and divide by two. This method has worked for me in several cities.
In both of those places I would readily agree that $150 can get it done, but you are both in blessed areas from that perspective. That is why I love SC so damned much ;) Hell, even ITC is much cheaper there.
Fun's only post is from IL, and there is very little chance IMHO that $150 gets it done there.
Shit like this isn't anything new, but I'm sure the economy is a factor in the greater willingness the last 2 years.
One thing that should help in avoiding putting out the "sucker" vibe is knowing that nearly all girls will do OTC, especially the good looking ones for whatever reason. This is especially true if they know you will instantly move on to one who will if they don't.
On the rare occasions I've gotten ITC (and I've never yet gotten OTC, although it was offered by a couple dancers who never followed up), it's been at the suggestion of the dancer. And it seems more related to the club's policies (or lack thereof) and a given dancer's willingness to go the extra mile.
In a couple cases, the girl was just straight up, telling me if we go to VIP, she'll suck/fuck me. Of course, the $ were high - in the $300 range, by the time you add in club charges, drinks, bouncer tip. At those prices, I'd rather go to an escort or an AMP, because you can relax and take your time. In a couple other instances, I didn't know until we were already back in the VIP, and the girl takes out Mr. Happy and proceeds with a HJ.
In all cases, I've never requested anything, and there have been a number of times I've turned down some very promising and suggestive offers from dancers about what could happen in the VIP. As I mentioned at the top, ITC extras seem more likely at certain clubs, and then there are other clubs where nothing ever happens beyond the standard air dance and the bouncer sticking his nose in every five minutes and saying, "watch those hands, buddy."
OTC fun is most always a result of considerable time & money invested in the dancer. Can be pricey, but the payoff is most often worth it.
More idiocy from lopaw. You should be able to get dancers who do do OTC to agree to the first or second time you meet them, and without having to buy many dances either. Not sure what that crazed man-hating lesbian has been smoking when she comes up with this B.S.