What type of dancer do you think is most aggressive?

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• samsung1

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  14 years ago

  I remember reading a study saying blondes are the most aggressive...of course this is YMMV.
• mmdv26

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  14 years ago

  A dancer who unzips me before the music starts is aggressive.
• gk

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  14 years ago

  Signs your dancer might be aggressive 1. She complains about iit being her time of the month(rent). 2. She takes two of your fingers and sticks then in her mouth all the way to the back of her throat. 3. You get drunken "hello" kisses you dont want from a dancer you don't know and you haven't left your bar stool. That's just generic stuff I've observed/received. But as to type--I don't thnk you can typecast an agressive dancer by race, hair color or looks. And what does "agressive" realy mean? (Yes I saw CGs personal definition, but for others it might be different.) If by aggressive you mean too forward and over-the-top in a way that makes you uncomfortable, feel out of control or ruins the lapdance (for example, grinding too hard) yes, that's bad and is worth walking away from. But if it's simply playing hard, bring it on. For the most part, the more desparate or drunk they are, the more aggressive they might be. But sometimes we overlook the most common aggressive dancer--the one who promises whatever and doesn't deliver. And I'm not just talking extras, but the ones who tease and say my dances are better or you'll remember my dances etc.--but they lie. That's more than being aggressive, that's aggression, because then we're the victim.
• arbeeguy

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  14 years ago

  Definitions and nuances -- Aggressive has a negative connotation of unwelcome force being used. Assertive is aggressive but with politeness and consideration. Pro-active means taking the initiative, and in a constructive way. Of the three choices, I definitely prefer the pro-active stripper.
• Lil_Baller100

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  3 years ago

  Da wyte hoez
• Icee Loco (asshole)

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  3 years ago

  So I guess you mean the most pushy. Cubans, older women and young black girls.... these are pushy in a bad way. In a good way drunk or high young latinas
• Papi_Chulo

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  3 years ago

  This is 10+ y/o thread
• TheeOSU

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  3 years ago

  Yeah I guess he couldn't find a 15 year old thread but I bet he does now. Lol
• wallanon

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  3 years ago

  Old thread? Interesting threads are timeless. I'd rather see a 10 year old thread that's interesting than the same tired topic being recycled every few months by people who can't use a search engine. Most aggressive type of dancer? Brand new dancers being mentored by successful experienced dancers. Too many tricks of the trade on display with no nuance and no concept of whether they're being effective or not.
• Tetradon

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  3 years ago

  What @wallanon said. Also, Russian dancers seem all about separating me from my cash as quickly as possible.
• Cashman1234

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  3 years ago

  It’s old - but it may be interesting to see if things are different now - in comparison to 10 years ago. Sadly there wasn’t much response before. I’ve found African American dancers can be very aggressive at times. When I’m the lone white guy in a black club - it is a challenge to breathe without hearing “Wanna dance?” Also, some Eastern European dancers can be a bit pushy when selling dances.