OTC, but not "OTC"

maybe she thinks of you as sugar daddy material and wants you to pay for all the drinks?

Have you guys heard of "buy a date" auctions? Basically rich/famous people offer to date someone who wins the auction. The auction money usually goes to a charity.

I think strip clubs could do the same thing with strippers willing to date. Like have an auction to see who gets to take Bambi, etc. out on a date. The club would collect the auction money and donate the money to charity and give the dancer some perks like a bonus or free tip out for a month. The dinner date could be chaperoned by a bouncer,etc. to make sure it is OTC but not "OTC"

Nope, that's not it. She's actually quite the opposite. She's told me on multiple occasions (and has told other dancers in my presence that she's told me this) that I shouldn't feel like I've got to spend $$$ on her every time I come in the club - that she'd like to just hang sometimes, if I wanted. I've told her that I appreciate it, but I don't think I'm capable. ;-)

It sounds like SS she is using to play you and open up your wallet.

samsung, that's a great idea! But maybe a house mom instead of a bouncer. I don't think I'd have a good time with a house sitting next to me. ;-)

Player11, she already knows how to get into my wallet. Maybe it's SS, but it's not as obvious as you suggested.

LeeH that reminds me of how Carol Bartz became CEO of Yahoo! and said "she doesn't really need the money she's doing this because she is passionate"
And then a couple months later she is selling her stock off like crazy.
If she really didn't want the job for the money, then why does she have an outrageous salary and selling off her stock lol

I agree with you LeeH, I don't mind the SS as long as it is not too obvious! I know they are there to make money to pay their bills.

Oh, I know she does the job for the money. Just that my experience with her says that this OTC-not-"OTC" stuff is not a money ploy.

I'm not following the question, you were invited to a stripper friend's all-girl party it wasn't sexual and it didn't cost you anything. Did you think it was worth it and a good time?

This is like asking if going to a party was a good time. I don't think anyone can answer the question for you.

Some OPs do not deserve discussion. As I see it there is really no discussion topic here.

gator, read a bit more slowly. References to it, not attendance. I'm dumb, but not that dumb.

samsung, apparently arbeeguy thinks you're non-existent.

Are you going to get laid or mugged?

25 years ago my EX had a business. Once a week she had parties for women. She sold languire(sp) and sex toys. She had one 20 yo model. And she was hot. I did do her on several occasions. My EX asked me to be a model.Almost nude. I couldn't do it.These were 40ish women. I dont know how strippers do it.

Okay, you didn't go. Why not simply ask her why she invited you? It's a reasonable question, this guessing won't answer it. I have no idea why.

sounds like a setup for more money later...do you have sucker stamped on your forhead?if not she might like you. lol. once the strippers get into the hustle mode its hard to have a "normal" hangout buddy.she is building your confidence for the big score later.as soon as you don't payout big she will move on to the next sucker.

I know you can have a relationship with a dancer that isn't based on money. Is it common, unlikely. It also doesn't have to be based on sex.

[Chris Rock]
Now I hate when some crazy bitch says "Let's Be Friends".
Yeah I wanna be the freind that's fuckin you in the ass bitch!
That's the friend I wanna be

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0K1aX_00…

^^ It is funny when you listen to comedian chris rock say it
short ten second clip

but did we hear it, Lez be ans

gatorfan, I may just do that (just ask her). BTW, my reply before was a bit short. Sorry about that -- unintended for sure.