Talking dirty

8 comments

• gatorfan

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  15 years ago

  You need to initiate it, start talking dirty to stripper and usually stripper will play along.
• wallanon

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  15 years ago

  It depends on the girl, like everything else. Y?WV. My experience is it can cross the line into comedy pretty quickly, and prefer they not do it if they're not good at it. Just like certain kinds of grinding. One thing especially bothersome is when a dancer launches into porn speak in the middle of a simple dance. I find basic communication works best, but dirty can work when done right. Based on the OP, if you want to hear something, a simple line to try would be "tell me how you like it" once she has a rhythm going. Softly.
• 59

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  15 years ago

  Every once in awhile I'll get a dance from a new girl and she'll talk dirty right off the bat. To hear it for the duration of a song gets a little monotonous to me. I often wonder if I were to give her repeat business how quickly it would get repetitive. I don't usually give these girls repeat business. Now with a long time fave it's different. I may whisper to her or she to me, given a different time/place, what we'd like to do to each other. That is always hot.
• shadowcat

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  15 years ago

  A definite turn off! It just sounds like phony bull shit. Sincerity gets my attention. Although an occasional "My, you have a big dick" does sound good to my ears.
• yndy

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  15 years ago

  i've had girlfriends so accomplished in talking dirty they could have done phone sex for hire. it added much fun to our fun. not so with dancers. only my first-ever fav at the beginning of the new century would participate. she was 30-32. maybe age matters? when i've asked since they always say they're too shy! when they are sitting on my lap naked! maybe they are too lazy?
• chandler

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  15 years ago

  I agree that the best way to get strippers to talk dirty is to start it yourself. I like to lead into it soon after she joins me. Sometimes, it's the first words out of my mouth when I meet her at the stage. I've found that almost all strippers pick up on it and give back in kind. It helps if you say it with a spirit of fun and humor. I'm not a fan of strippers who suddenly moan a bunch of dumb cliches in the middle of a dance about how sopping wet her vagina has become or about the astonishing size of my penis. Fortunately, that's not the only way to talk dirty.
• uscue13

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  15 years ago

  Not a fan of it
• casualguy

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  15 years ago

  I don't try to initiate it so I guess that means I'm not a big fan. I've had 2 or 3 dancers who occasionally tried talking dirty but it does sound a little bit fake to me. Usually a dancer is trying to give a good lap dance at the same time so I'm focusing on that instead of whatever she is saying. One dancer a long time ago, kept wanting me to talk dirty to her during the lapdance. I might have tried it but it didn't do anything for me. I did get one dancer with a prank I heard on youtube. I thought it was funny when she said it. I told her to spell out the word "ihop" and then say "ness" right after it. Then if she didn't get it, to say it faster. She must have thought it was funny because she said she told or asked several other dancers to do the same.