Articles - February, 2011

This may not be a concern for many guys, but I know there are some of you out there that want to "play" but do not want their significant other (SO) to find out. I know. I'm one of them. I have been clubbing and hooking up OTC (Outside the Club) for many years and over the years, I have…

<p> I had been to maybe one strip club before, in the early 80s, but they always held a fascination for me. Later, married for a few years, and feeling the need for more variety, but not wanting to cheat on my wife, I found my way to The Naked I in the remnants of Boston&#39;s old Combat Zone.<br /> <br /> At…

<p> I don&#39;t think I&#39;ve ever read about a Las Vegas dancer&#39;s experience that didn&#39;t leave me scratching my head wondering what the hell I just read at the end. Mostly, I was reading these reviews prior to becoming a dancer in hopes to use the information to my advantage of picking the right club and getting a heads up on…

<p> &quot;Kansas bill aimed at sexually oriented businesses [SOBs&quot;] Kansas City [MO] Star 2/16/2011.<br /> <br /> The &quot;Community Defense Act&quot; aims to: &quot;outlaw physical contact between patrons and dancers; prohibit the sale of alcohol; require [SOBs] to close at midnight; and restrict where new [SOBs] could open.&quot; The bill would create statewide rules for bookstores, strip clubs, &amp; other SOBs. Last spring…

<p> How do you know if the club management doesn&#39;t get it?&nbsp; Here&#39;s a good example:<br /> <br /> I visited the Pink Poodle in San Jose around 6:30pm when the day shift was just wrapping up.&nbsp; The physical club was nice enough, but after 3 songs went by and no dancers, I asked the waitress about it.&nbsp; She said, &quot;No one&#39;s tipping,…

<div class="usercontent" style="display: inline;"> Back in bygone days it seems now, the clubs were all about the show.<br /> <br /> Before Table Dances, then Lap Dances, then VIP and Champagne Rooms, there was the Show. I still enjoy it and have lamented it&#39;s mostly demise, the girls come and go off the stage so quickly now, there&#39;s barely a dance and literally,…

<p> Why is it that women feel so much animosity toward the men that visit strip clubs? I have heard many times from women that so-and-so is &quot;such a pig&quot; because he visited a SC, with no cursory demonization of the SC itself. It is my opinion that it stems from a woman&#39;s misinterpretation of a man&#39;s reasons for having sex.<br…

<p> I read customer reviews of strip clubs from around the U.S. Many customers are often surprised that many strip clubs are located in industrial areas, warehouse (not whorehouse) districts, and the like. From my experience as a long time strip club goer, and a career in city planning, with much of that time working in zoning, I can explain this.<br…

<p> I write this article in hopes that some club owner may read it and be able to improve his business. Basically the clubs &quot;that Get It&quot; get the business and the ones that &quot;dont get it&quot; generally don&#39;t get the business and fail. We see clubs everywhere changing hands and going out of business simply because the owners &quot;don&#39;t get…