Significant Others and Strip Clubs
Wednesday, February 23, 2011 1:44 PM
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Why is it that women feel so much animosity toward the men that visit strip clubs? I have heard many times from women that so-and-so is "such a pig" because he visited a SC, with no cursory demonization of the SC itself. It is my opinion that it stems from a woman's misinterpretation of a man's reasons for having sex.<br />
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Most women think that men have the same feelings that they have during sex (an emotional and psychological connection), when in reality it is all about physical pleasure for the man. That is why most women feel betrayed when they learn about "their man" going to a SC. They think that "their man" is seeking an emotional or psychological connection to someone else, when that simply is not the case.<br />
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I propose that a man can LOVE one woman for his entire life, and at the same time, have SEX with many, many different women over the course of that lifetime. Many men that visit SC's, love their SO dearly, and treasure that relationship above all others in their lives. And visiting one of these establishments has no detrimental effects on that relationship. In fact, it is almost a necessity for the man to at least have other women to look at, in order for a marriage to be successful.<br />
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Look at it this way. If all someone had to eat everyday was a potato, how long would it take for them to get so sick of potatos that they wanted to throw it out and never eat a potato again? One year? Less? But, if that same someone could have a potato one day, and then go have a couple of tomatoes the next, and a steak the next, and so on, his love & desire for the potato would never waver. This is the same with sex. It is simply a physical need for a man.<br />
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In summary, not only do SC's not have a negative effect on a man's relationship with his SO, but they actually help a man to stay with that SO!<br />
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...All that being said, you are still better off not telling the Misses! She might not see it this way. ;)</p>
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