Evolution of a Monger

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Lockjaw
Nevada
When I started out mongering somewhere around 1990, gentlemen's clubs had everything I wanted and desired. For 20 years lap dances were sufficient to keep me entertained. Dancers wanted you to have a good time and seemed to actually enjoy entertaining men. It was not just ‘fast money’ or ‘a hustle’. I could satiate my craving for variety and excitement while not cheating on my spouse.


By around 2009 when the recession hit, strip clubs started to suck. Dancers started over-counting songs more frequently. Dancers would start dancing in the middle or latter part of a song, yet still demanded you pay for a full song. Dancers wanted to go to the VIP room, expecting to just sit on my lap and have a conversation at a rate of $10 per minute. Feminism was blossoming. In some instances, dancers were trying to unionize or get regular wages. Millennial dancers were slowly pushing Generation X out of the strip clubs. This new crop had a poor work ethic. Everyone was constantly on the internet thanks to smart phone technology. Social media evolved to the point where dancers would create venues to discuss how to scam customers. On the flip, the internet was now in the palm of our hand and afforded us easier access to escorts. I was divorced by then and started to look for a better bang for my buck.


I met probably 100 escorts over those years. Being in Las Vegas meant there was a never ending supply of women willing to have sex for money. A few of those women were epic and will forever hold a place in my Sexual Hall of Fame, but I found myself disappointed about as much as I thought the money was well spent. Half of the time, the women who would show up were uglier or fatter or older than their pictures. Sometimes you would get a ‘cash and dash’ or have to deal with a pimp. Many would charge ridiculous add-ons for things like cumming on their boobs or kissing. Sugaring got big around 2011. While I saw some success in that medium, there were issues there as well. Some girls wanted to legitimately be in a relationship with you. Some girls did not understand their worth. There were plenty of fakers and flakers to deal with.


I had finally gotten to the point in my life where I had plenty of money. I was not Scrooge McDuck diving into piles of cash, but I could live comfortably. I was not looking to risk having a shitty experience just to save a mere $200 like I would in my youth. I really do not know how many good healthy years I have left to live. The number of years my dick will fully function will be even less. I decided to throw caution to the wind and participate in the most expensive genre of mongering: porn star escorts.


I had heard for years from guys online how fucking porn stars was a waste of money. The charges were always north of $1000 per hour. They will rip you off like any other dumb escort. They are not as pretty in real life as they are on your computer or tv. They are vanilla compared to their on screen persona. I was super skeptical going into this, but I wanted the bragging rights and ego boost, even if it was just for myself.


I have fucked over 20 porn stars now at price points between $500 and $2500. I can’t say I have had a truly bad experience yet. The worst thing I have dealt with was a few young ladies being late to an appointment. The actual sex has been everything I have desired. My hypothesis is porn stars have a reputation that they have to uphold. They cannot rip guys off and then just disappear and reinvent themself under a new name and look like the women on escort and sugar baby websites. If you choose to have sex in front of a camera as a career, then you probably really do enjoy fucking. The first pornstar I saw was Carmella Bing when she was still in her prime. She made me feel comfortable and was no different than she was in the porn flicks. Other notable porn stars I have been with are Gianna Michaels, Megan Rain, Lauren Phillips, Kristina Rose and Nicolette Shea.


Sex with porn stars is expensive, no doubt about it, but I have a 100% satisfaction rate, at least so far. With escorts and sugar babies, which have almost become the same thing over time, I am disappointed about 50% of the time. In modern strip clubs, I leave with a smile on my face about 10% of the time. This is just one man’s evolution as a monger.

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PutaTester
a year ago
Interesting article. Wish I could afford the expense/experience of a porn star. OTOH, I have had some who delivered a porn star level experience. I am a little surprised that you went from strip clubs to porn stars. I would have guessed that brothels would have been in the mix.
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Manuellabore
a year ago
Based on a sample size of one, I concur with the basic theme of the article that sex with a porn star can be worth the premium (within limits, of course).
Having said that, OP almost lost me in the first paragraph with the rosy observation that, in the 90s, it was not just about 'fast money" for the dancers. It is, and always has been, all about money, and I fully respect that
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steve3000
a year ago
That's quite a list! Especially prime Carmella, Megan, and Kristina - some of my favorites.

Bluesandbabes - That's very disappointing news about Anya Ivy.
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JAprufrock
a year ago
@lockjaw: "I really do not know how many good healthy years I have left to live. The number of years my dick will fully function will be even less."
Good, thoughtful article. Life is meant to be enjoyed and lived to the fullest, something that finally dawned on me in 2017 after my first trip to TJ, an absolute game-changer. You have the financial wherewithal and clearly enjoy porn stars. More power to you.
@Putatester brings up a good point about brothels. If not TJ, then German FKK clubs, Thailand, The Philippines, Brazil.
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CJKent_band
a year ago
@Lockjaw

You wrote and I quote:

“I have fucked over 20 porn stars now at price points between $500 and $2500. I can’t say I have had a truly bad experience yet.”

Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.

Good Times, Good Times.

:D

I think the caliber/quality of pornstars in Vegas might be lower than in the Porn Capital of the world, the Los Angeles San Fernando Valley, and other places frequented by the Scrooge McDucks of the world, like New York, Dubai, Germamy 🇩🇪, Sweden 🇸🇪 etc etc etc

From the movie “Easy A” (2010) starring Emma Stone as High school student Olive Penderghast.

“Rosemary (Olive’s mother to Olive) : Not to mention how you have been dressing these past few days. No judgment, but you kind of look like a stripper.

Olive Penderghast : Mom!

Dill (Olive’s father to Olive) A high-end stripper, for governors or athletes.”

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8xj2D1_hKQ…

In my humble opinion and limited experience Real High-End Escort for the Scrooge McDucks of the World, Really Rich and powerful men, offer real good PSE, GFE and More; some would say as good and even better than some Porn Stars.

However like we already know YMMV.

Let’s be careful out there.

:D

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iknowbetter
a year ago
I tend to agree with the assertion that strip club experiences back in the 90’s were a little more meaningful than they are today. Just like 90’s porn were real full length movies with good lighting, multiple camera angles, wardrobe and makeup, and attempts at a plot line, with corny dialogue, compared to today’s porn which is all basically low budget amateur sex scenes shot on an iPhone. Today’s strip club experience is about the same - no real stage show or feature dancers, just go to the club, find a dancer to go fuck, then leave.
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JAprufrock
a year ago
^^This is why I stopped going to U.S./Canadian strip clubs. The value and the experience is lacking compared to TJ and the Toronto escort/massage scene.
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Jmigs
a year ago
Is there a website to connect with escorting pornstars? How did you contact them
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Lockjaw
a year ago
You can contact many through Porn Companions, Eros or Tryst Agency. Some of the gonzo girls you can just contact directly on Twitter. You may have to pay a deposit or go through light screening.
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neil_halstead
a year ago
Maybe this seems overly conservative, but I'd never want to do that, if only to avoid the STDs. There's no way you were with that many escorts and porn actresses and didn't have to go to some rather embarrassing doctor's appointments and even the occasional urologist.
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Lockjaw
a year ago
I always use protection. Porn stars are usually tested for STD's every two weeks, so they are actually safer to have sex with than regular escorts, strippers and sugar babies.
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Smegma Jones
a year ago
Great article, and similar to my own history/evolution, except I went from strippers to AMP to escorts and haven't dabbled in Porn stars yet (I'm not even Daffy duck money levels). Honestly at some point I had thought about pooling a few months worth of 'play' money and heading to somewhere in EU where you can hit the legal brothels with some insanely beautiful women (I'm told). I had a buddy who was talking about doing it too, but he ended up getting canned from his job in early 2020 (I wonder what happened then?)...and hasn't had the 'spare' money to do anything of that level since.

Good read. Stay safe everyone.
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rickmacrodong
a year ago
Do you need to use protection even for a BJ though? I heard many of them do BJ without covers?
I also heard once enough trust and safety is established there are some who will go raw, only for specific people
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rickmacrodong
a year ago
Btw pawg emily and jenna starr were escorting out in vegas and also touring the US maybe last year or something. They wanted $1200 per hour, or $2000 for both of them for an hour.

Pawg emily looks good but thats a high rate for her since she isnt as famous as the brazzers stars. It also seems like on her onlyfans she only fucks black men, some of them are completely ugly and old too… it seemed somewhat odd
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Bobjob34
a year ago
Great article! Love hearing about your journey. In a lot of ways we are all on the same journey!
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stripperlover777
a year ago
Cool, Wish I Could Monger. I Luv Pornstars*
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rickmacrodong
a year ago
With pornstars, you can actually get BBFS if you can provide recent test results.

In my experience there is a problem with how american girls are raised. The best experiences i have had with strippers or escorts has been foreign raised women like cubans, brazilians, turkish, middle eastern, eastern european. The key factor is they were raised in those other countries and came to the US later.

If they came to the US at a young age or were born and raised here, no matter what ethnicity, they are more likely to have ridiculous demands whether in a relationship or for escorting or stripping.

The other thing is american culture also includes hip hop culture, gang culture, and open relationship culture all of which are twisted. Many of these other countries arent as open to pimping or open relationships as the US.
So if youre seeing a cuban girl otc, IMO shes more likely to be single, or not single but cheating on her SO, than be in an open relationship or pimp situation. Since the situation in itself is cheating, she wont care if you make her cum unlike a pimped girl who considers kissing or cumming specifically to be cheating.

The nice thing about pornstars and some onlyfans girls is they regularly have bareback sex with multiple different partners. So even if they have a boyfriend or husband, its a different situation than a possessive pimp or boyfriend who doesnt want her cumming with clients, where the clients arent allowed to play with her pussy or daty or play with her boobs.
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rickmacrodong
a year ago
So for me personally, i dont even bother with american girls unless its dances at the strip club (where i will assume its a dance only, and any extras if available would be pathetic or a scam attempt). At this point, I stick to pornstars, eastern europeans, brazilians, cubans, arabians, etc.
instead of paying $500 an hour twice and getting ripped off, its better to just spend a few hundred to go to vegas or California or New York, and $1000 to see one of the numerous onlyfans girls or pornstars in those areas.
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