On Reputation and Increasing Your Chances for Takeout
huiyjohns
Michigan
Just to highlight one of those caveats: I’m assuming interest in takeout means disposable income is available. Most of what I’m going to say here is not going to be meaningful if that’s not the case
How to Develop a Reputation
1. Frequency
Variety is the spice of life and I do visit different clubs, but there’s one that is in the rotation more than the others. Fundamental to establishing a reputation is repetition, and frequency is what enables that. At my usual spot I know the bartenders and the bouncers. I know the DJs.
You don’t have to be on a first name basis with these people, but it’s good for you to recognize them and for them to recognize you.
Last thing I’ll say on frequency is don’t go overboard. There are some dudes there everyday and they just come off as losers, to everybody. If you are one of those people, just know that everyone smiles and no one kicks you out, but you are talked about as such.
2. Consistency
Even if you don’t have a rapport with the people mentioned above, what’s important is they see you enough to know what to expect when you come in. Big spender? Corner lurker? ‘Club boyfriend?’ (Yes that shit exists, but that’s a discussion for another day).
In my case I’ve been there enough for them to know I’m going to open a tab, spend some time on stage, and take someone in the back for an extended period. They know I don’t do VIPs.
What works well for me in this setup is that the girls know I have my favorites, but I’ll spend my money on new talent if the vibe is right. They also know that more is available from me, but not in VIP.
The rest of the club know I’m low key and take care of the girls, so they are accommodating in their own way. Those things combined make for a smooth experience.
Last thing on consistency is that for a variety of reasons, people seem to be spending less in the club. That puts a premium on consistent spenders, even if they are not big spenders.
3. Emphasize experiences.
These girls are grinding on dicks all day. However they make you feel to the contrary, there’s nothing special about your lap in particular. That means differentiation really only has a few categories: tip amount, attractiveness, personality.
If you have those three things, just stop reading and go get your takeout you lucky bastard. If you are lacking one or more, here is what I have found: talking about experiences you have had can fill in the gaps.
Sharing experiences makes them see that for you having fun is more than draining your dick. In their world where that’s literally what everyone wants from them, that’s attractive. If it’s an adventurous experience or something they’ve always wanted to try, that gives you personality. If they have the idea that you can enable that experience in their own life, then that’s better than a big tip.
Sharing experiences lets them know that they are talking to someone who could be a gateway to the world. I have chatted with so many girls who had barely left their state. It taps in to their own desires to post bullshit on Instagram and be like everyone else.
4. Give an experience
I took one of the girls from my regular spot on a trip, and it was a great time for all involved. This has given me a baseline for credibility at the club.
Takeout is seemingly falling into my lap right now, as other girls are positioning themselves to be next. I have literally fucked for free on the strength of my reputation and that one trip. In those cases, I try to give mini experiences to keep the interest. Never been horseback riding? Yeah we’re doing that. Went ziplining and loved it? Let help you relive that.
Some of these ladies are so starved of actual life that showing them just a little bit is better than actual money. You get an actual date instead of an hr long appointment. And at the club you are the preferred customer over other regulars, who may tip well, but are otherwise boring.
Conclusion
Because of my reputation, takeout has never been more accessible or affordable. Hopefully some of what I’ve shared helps with your own adventures in takeout.
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1. Don’t be an asshole. Be polite and respectful. At minimum she has to feel like she’s going to be physically safe with you.
2. Tip well. Demonstrate that you’re willing to spend a few bucks.
90 percent, maybe 95, of your so called “reputation” is based on how much the dancer thinks you’re willing to spend.
And not to be flippant, please let the board know when simply not being an asshole and tipping well results in free takeout
I talked to a porn-star dancer at SRCOI back in the day, and somehow ended up in this intense literary analysis of Moby Dick, and she was schooling my post-grad ass. Then she said “That was fun and now I really want to drain your balls.” And for a couple years after she remembered & we talked about all kinds of crazy stuff before nympho mode. The perfect storm. Had similar great experiences with other dancers a few other times, with the same sort of arc. With the right girl, it’s like catnip.
In my humble opinion, what you are describing isn t necessarily “OTC”. When I think of OTC, I think of when dudes negotiate to meet a dancer at a hotel or some other spot for a pre-arranged price.
What I feel you are describing is just normal chemistry with a dancer that can lead to actual dates - not paid ones. This is true of most women - not just dancers specifically. Any hump can offer a boring dinner and movie date…but you’ll get further taking them on their first helicopter ride or to a wine tasting at an art gallery or to the aquarium. Women never forget experiences like this - but will accept a dinner date and never answer the phone again.
Whatever chemistry is there doesn’t change the fact that they want something out of me the same as I want something out of them. Ultimately things would fizzle out without that payoff, and that’s what distinguishes it from the dating scene to me.
That said, I haven’t dated (in the traditional sense) for a long time now. I really don’t know what the scene is like these days.