STD Paranoia
Lockjaw
Nevada
In the days following the encounter, my lower abdomen was in pain and my testicles hurt. I was in so much distress, I was having trouble just sitting at the computer at work. I was almost sure this sugar baby had given me gonorrhea or chlamydia. I called my doctor up and admitted I had unprotected sex with a bust down, so that I could get a lab order for a full panel STD test. My doctor approved the order but advised that I wait 2 or 3 weeks until I actually went to get tested. She said it takes a couple weeks for the body to have a reaction and produce antibodies to fight the STD’s. Testing too early, may not detect the antibodies and thus not give meaningful test results. I was in so much pain that I got tested four days after having sex. A few days later my results came back that I had tested negative for all STD’s. A few days after that, the pain in my balls finally went away. I was still not convinced that I had not caught something, but at least the pain was gone and I wasn’t spewing green slime out of my dick.
A few days later, I saw the sugar baby bragging on social media to her friends that she had prepaid three months of rent. The allowance I gave her would have only covered about a third of a month. She was currently unemployed, so she must have been having sex with at least several other sugar daddies. Where else could all of that rent money have come from? After two and a half weeks, I got a second full panel STD test. Again, it showed I was negative for all types of STD’s. I breathed a side of relief. It turned out I did not need to hunt down this tart with my shotgun. The only thing I could think of that caused the pain in my testicles and lower abdomen was the sex itself. This girl was a little heavier than she admitted online and was dropping a lot of weight on me in the cowgirl position. She liked it rough and would thrust herself into me when I was thrusting her.
In the end, I think I was just paranoid. Even if I caught something, I don’t think it would have been the end of the world. My doctor ran through the different scenarios between the time I took the two STD tests. If I had gotten chlamydia, gonorrhea, or syphilis, she could’ve prescribed antibiotics to kill the bacterias. A week or so later, any of those infections would have been cured. If I had gotten trichomoniasis, a vaginal parasite, a single oral dose of metronidazole would have returned me back to full health. Herpes cannot be cured, but Valtrex can treat the symptoms. Hepatitis B is generally prevented because most people are vaccinated against it. If infected by Hepatitis B, it can be treated orally with Viread. The worst outcome would have been testing positive for HIV. If that did occur, HIV can be treated by taking one pill of antivirals a day. Twenty-five years ago, an infected person needed to take 20 pills per day to treat HIV. Treatments have been so successful that most people with HIV in 2022 will never progress to AIDS. Even HIV-positive Earvin ‘Magic’ Johnson looks like a healthy 62 year old living his best life.
I’m not opposed to using condoms, but none seem to fit me well. Even Trojan Magnum XL’s feel like strangulation. And let's face it, the perfect condom would still not 100% measure up to hot, juicy bareback sex. Maybe this STD paranoia is just the Higher Power’s way of telling me to stop being a sugar daddy slut and act my age. I know I am out of control and should stop barebacking every vagina I can peel the panties off of. But as long as there are twenty somethings that need to be plowed by a man as old as their father, I am married to this game.
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Should’ve been your first clue. This post has way too much specific info regarding STDs, etc. Sounds like either some sort of hidden brag, or you’re trying to convince yourself of something. Not sure what response you’re looking for from this forum?
Only problem is you don't immediately know if you got the chamber w/ the bullet but your mind will do it's damnedest to make you think you did.
Now, that's not to say we shouldn't use those vile things however, on the times you opt out, just be prepared to give yourself a mental check every so often about it. Like your DR said, it takes a bit of time for all the nasty stuff to run through your body before it'll show on a test and for you to likely show symptoms, unless your dealing w/ a real nasty piece and the symptoms show up almost immediately as in the case below.
In a former life while serving our country, i had the distinct privilege of going to Thailand where we were allowed to "cut-loose". word got around that one of the guys out visiting a strip club w/ his buddies, getting drunk and stupid, picked up a glass and drank it. the contents of that glass had just been sucked up and then re-poured into it via a strippers vag. His liberty ended soon after that, since his throat had completely swollen shut and he was having difficulty breathing. That's gotta be a real bad piece if it makes a mans throat swoll shut!
again . relax.
To each his own, but I'll never bareback a pro. Not even a civvie if I ever hook up again. I'll sacrifice some pleasure for peace of mind.
I started seeing escorts in Toronto last August and one thing that surprised me was a couple of them wanted to do a bareback pussy slide on my cock -- not to penetrate, just to rub their outer lips on my cock. I grudgingly did it with one but was so paranoid after that, so I declined doing that with another one.
One just has to weigh the risks and accept those risks and not be delusional just looking at one side of it of “hey the chances are low …” – yeah the chances may be low; especially if one is talking about one encounter; but obviously those chances increase with encounters and # of partners (not to mention all her partners).
It comes down to weighing the risks – if one is under 40; I think it’s riskier b/c you still have a lot of life to live and you may still want to be in a relationship – if one is past 50 or 60, IMO it’s a different calculus; you don’t’ have as many “good years left to enjoy yourself”.
It’s not black or white – there are multiple variables at play including if one is married or in a relationship and having sex w/ their S.O.; or if one is still responsible for raising children and you need to be in good health to provide for them – outside of this it comes down to whether one wants to be as careful as possible vs enjoying yourself – but if choosing the latter one has to go in accepting the risks and deal with them.
"... STDs that may show signs and symptoms soon after exposure include herpes and gonorrhea ..."
https://www.letsgetchecked.com/articles/…
The link below shows the typical incubation period for different STDs:
https://www.healthline.com/health/how-lo…
Before I take a new sugar baby to bed, I insist on sharing recent (last 30 days) test results. If she doesn't have a recent test, I offer to pay for new tests, and in some cases have taken her to the lab I use to get my tests. I get tested every 3-4 weeks, even when I'm not sexually active.
In addition, I stated taking PrEP this year and got snipped a while ago, so I feel reasonably safe that my risks are very low. I have a rotation of 6 SB's right now, and that includes active porn stars (who get tested every 2 weeks).
I hate condoms. The biggest risk I have with raw sex is not being able to hold off long enough to drop my boys into my preferred location for that session.
I have been offered BBFS from multiple working girls. I ALWAYS decline and cover up. It just isn't worth the risk. Yes, those bugs can be killed or brought under control, but I don't want to take the chance of unknowingly spreading it around. And the girls say, "It is OK. I am clean." But was the last guy you fucked also clean?
Now BBBJ is something i would expect from a high end escort, an added bonus is if they swallow but that isnt as common.
I had a similar scare where i brushed my teeth really good, and two hours later, did DATY on someone for 30 minutes straight. The next day, I had a flight back home and people sitting next to me were coughing and sneezing. The day after, i had a severe cough that lasted maybe 1 week or 10 days, and constantly had the taste of blood and her pussy juices in my mouth. Im not sure if i got something from her or from the people on the plane. Some providers really want DATY if they dont have someone else doing it.