Does an Extras Girl Ruin it for Everyone Else?

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• minnow

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  3 years ago

  Another DB post passing as an article.
• Smoothbrother

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  3 years ago

  What is a DB
• eros973

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  3 years ago

  everything at your own risk
• OrangeClown

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  3 years ago

  @brittinibitch, can you post some naked pictures of yourself here? Also, if you have one of your uncle, @desertscrub would appreciate it.
• deboinair

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  3 years ago

  I'm from Miami and all of the South FL the women are doing extras. It wasn't till I visited other strip clubs in different states when I knew we had it great. To answer your question. Yes you girls are less valuable and will be overlooked for the ones that are doing extras. Dances get old quick. If there is an opportunity for extras the overwhelming majority of men are going to go for that dancer vs the "just dance" and "talk" to get money type.
• Jascoi

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  3 years ago

  i like extras. sorry… (not sorry.)
• Papi_Chulo

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  3 years ago

  I think dancers hating on extras-girls is unfounded - IMO on avg there seems to be more custies that don't do extras than do for various reasons - a lot of dancers wanna blame others for them not making $$$ (e.g. "guys are cheap" or "it's bc of extras-girls"; etc). There's no guarantee those custies would spend on the non-extras girls if there weren't any extras-girls - one can argue the extras girls help bring in more custies into the club and more biz overall for all the dancers. The U.S. is too hung-up when it comes to sex - in many other parts of the world P4P is seen as an acceptable recreational thing.
• OrangeClown

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  3 years ago

  @curvylibra, is Greek at least on the table?
• iknowbetter

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  3 years ago

  Be thankful for the extras girls. As others have mentioned, it’s what gets customers in the door. I’m not always looking for extras when I go out to a strip club. More often I just want to hang out and look at hot naked women. But it’s nice to know that extras are available if the mood (or anything else) should arise. South Florida clubs are all pretty much mini brothels where it is assumed that all girls are available for anything - so don’t get offended by customers who assume that you perform extras any more than girls get offended when I turn them down for extras.
• tempest666

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  3 years ago

  What two other consenting adults are doing in the adjacent booth/room has no bearing on my money. I always articulate my boundaries up front. Also if a customer is looking for extras, odds are they're not going to get dances with me anyhow.
• OrangeClown

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  3 years ago

  @curvylibra and @tempest666, is there an upcharge for CIM? My friend is asking.
• drewcareypnw

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  3 years ago

  For me, a club with no extras is a stupid thing. Who wants to get worked up to no release? Not me. I like to sample the non extra girl dances in a club as I warm up to the main event: extras. If you don’t do extras, be glad some whore in you club does: I’m visiting your club and paying you because some sweet golden slut is willing to jack me off. I do also want to see you because you turn me on, even though you won’t finish what you started. If that girl you despise wasn’t going the extra mile, I wouldn’t see the point in your services, and you would not get paid.
• nicespice

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  3 years ago

  Yes when extras are happening in your space and you aren’t performing with the rest, it *does* make your job harder. The extra customer bodies in the door isn’t as helpful when they are getting demanding and stressing you out. I make better money after I stopped dancing full-time in Texas and moved on to other areas. That being said, when that stuff going on, it’s management’s fault not the dancer’s imo. Don’t hate the player hate the game (and it’s management who is a referee of said game)
• Locutusbrg

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  3 years ago

  As a customer. I feel like I buck the perception about extras. a hot girl with a nice rap, I will VIP if she will or won't. I personally never ask for extras. If a girl does those thing they usually make it clear, once we have some privacy. Never once have I said to them let's do... X... Because SO and So gave me Y in the vip. So to me the perception of availability of extras may be the problem. I may be rare example but I'm case where availability of extras is not always a plus. Although many guys are looking for availability rather than an experience. I go to the strip club for the fantasy. For example there is this very young tall thin pretty spinner at a club I go to. She has made it clear to me that she has no limit extras with prices. But yet I find myself avoiding her because she detached and uninterested. She is all about time moving the most guys as quickly as possible. I find one of my favs to be much hotter experience even though I know she has solid boundaries. She works me up first talks dirty ect. Makes me feel special. She has definate boundaries and I respect that. If they are both there I never ever pick the extras girl. Because she doing a job and I know it, doesn't matter that there is no limits to me. The other girl makes me believe that it's not just for the money. So in my case I'm buying the fantasy not the extra every time.
• deboinair

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  3 years ago

  @Curvylibra Please get over yourself. You are typical fat stripper that gets mad when the petite dancers get all the customers. Same fat stripper begging for dances. Same fat stripper begging not to pay house fee. You have all those side hustles just to make ends meat. You not fooling anyone here. Fat strippers are the least desired. So it's the lowest class of men that are asking you for extras.
• deboinair

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  3 years ago

  @desertcrub. You're not going to get any pussy being a white knight. You fucking clown. LOL
• Warrior15

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  3 years ago

  brittni , where do you work ? Maybe I don't want to go there .
• s88

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  3 years ago

  If a man is asking for extras, has a FULL WALLET, goes to every last girl, they all say no, he will finish his drink, maybe buy a pitch of beer, and watch golf for the rest of his time in the club. Remember he has other choices, massage places, the stroll, park in certain hotels, and light a cig near the coke machine. If mr extras pays cover, he is technically allowing YOU to come, to have the chance to meet no-extras men. Remember, one day the house mom will text you "sorry we are full of bookings for this week, we had so many new women audition" if its too slow and any talk of "rules will make you reach the top" "sisters stick together" ends when you get that "we are full for bookings this week" text that you were layed off.
• Pussylicker2

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  3 years ago

  In detroit the vip used to just be one big room with a circle of chairs. Once i went in the vip room with a dancer and another dancer was slurping away on a guys dick. I looked at my dancer and asked "how much for that"? She said "i don't do that" to which i replied "ok I'll wait for her". Sorry, but not doing extras is a rip-off. Why would a guy pay a vip fee and inflated dance price to watch a naked girl when he can watch her on stage for free? A guy who sells crack is a drug dealer. A guy who sells fake crack is still a drug dealer, and also a thief. Why would a "dancer" mind if a guy jacks off while watching her? Dancers who do extras are whores. Dancers who do vip dances but no extras are also whores, and thieves as well.
• ilbbaicnl

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  3 years ago

  I think maybe the sensible compromise is, you ask (once) politely, and drop it if the answer is no. If your power window doesn't work, you understand if your mechanic says you gotta take it to the dealer. But you don't expect them to be like I'M NOT A WHORE WHO DOES ELECTRICAL YOU FUCKING PERVERT!!!! Customers have to understand that, in the US, if they ask the dancer to agree to extras beforehand, they're soliciting prostitution. If they ask during the dance, and the answer is no, they just have to be happy with a no-extras dance. I knew a dancer who danced for Tiger Woods. He cut it short when she said no extras. But he paid, so it was all good.