You either spend time or you spend money

I'll never forget those words were told to me by my ATF in my younger years once I got to know her. It came about as we were sitting on her couch and she made mention of a piece of jewelry one of her clients bought her. Feeling slightly jealous (and my young understanding of life) I went in saying I'd never buy jewelry and gifts for a dancer. She simply said well you spend time so that's just as expensive if not more. This was mid 2000s and besides the hole in the walls that had sub par girls but offered everything at bottom of the barrel prices I had no clue there was this other world that existed where every girl had their price. Good thing I didn't find out until later as I wouldn't have had the budget to play in that world. In my world I had all the time to spend trying to charm the dancers I liked. It worked out pretty well for me as I got the end result without spending a small fortune on multiple girls. Nowadays I'm still stubborn in some of my ways but money has freely flowed from my pockets to theirs because I didn't have the time to spend or the desire to play the charming game. I do draw the line when it comes to the amount I'll spend since it's just a nut and I have enough memories for a last time woth beautiful women. My advice, if you have the time to spend, spend it. Be consistent in your pursuit but not overly aggressive. Build repoire, drop hints here and there and when you do ask her out ask about a specific date/time. Don't nag and leave a lite mystery, it typically works every time. If it's going to be a monetary transactional thing, still need to take the time and build repoire and not think money is your ticket to ride that ride, but if it's transactional make sure it's known and agreed beforehand. No dropping a ton of money in hopes to get her to agree... That's how you get milked. Happy mungering