No Means No
DFreshPalace
California
As many of you have read I am a 1 Girl Guy when it comes to going to my Favorite Club and even outside of the Club especially in my current status.
I won't bring names into this article for protection of those involved but one night in Feb. I was visiting my Favorite Person at my Favorite Club when I noticed not 1 but 3 new or fairly new very talented girls working. One of which was flat out Fine as (Well you know) A very Thin AA who just started earlier in the week. The other 2 were okay but unsure of themselves as dancers and working at the club. While these 2 didn't approach me the other one did who just started earlier in the week. She wasn't asking for anything she wanted to introduce herself and let me know she won't ask me for dances because she was aware I was only there for 1 reason. I did watch her on stage once and her stage was pretty sweet but that's not part of the story..
Another girl who has been working at the club for awhile did approach me not once not twice not 3 times. but 5. I am always pleasant when it comes to saying no because I always add a Thank you at the end or I will add I am waiting for.... I know how hard it is to make money and how difficult it can be working at the club and this girl is not ugly but she's not my type nor do I want anyone else but who I already have. I picked the person I have for many many reasons not just because of her looks, not because of her skills but her heart and mind have a lot to do with it.
I love the art of dance and I will always support the dancer but No Means No. How does a Brand New Girl know this whereas a girl who has been here for many months not? I'm sorry I don't want to be rude but damn girl. You keep asking, You keep trying to steal me and I won't budge. I respect you and everyone in the profession but I am only there for 1 reason and if she wasn't there neither would I be.
I don't and I won't ruin any chance I have and/or continue to have with the GREATEST Girl in my life (Best Friend Excluded) She is far too important to me to do that.
I won't bring names into this article for protection of those involved but one night in Feb. I was visiting my Favorite Person at my Favorite Club when I noticed not 1 but 3 new or fairly new very talented girls working. One of which was flat out Fine as (Well you know) A very Thin AA who just started earlier in the week. The other 2 were okay but unsure of themselves as dancers and working at the club. While these 2 didn't approach me the other one did who just started earlier in the week. She wasn't asking for anything she wanted to introduce herself and let me know she won't ask me for dances because she was aware I was only there for 1 reason. I did watch her on stage once and her stage was pretty sweet but that's not part of the story..
Another girl who has been working at the club for awhile did approach me not once not twice not 3 times. but 5. I am always pleasant when it comes to saying no because I always add a Thank you at the end or I will add I am waiting for.... I know how hard it is to make money and how difficult it can be working at the club and this girl is not ugly but she's not my type nor do I want anyone else but who I already have. I picked the person I have for many many reasons not just because of her looks, not because of her skills but her heart and mind have a lot to do with it.
I love the art of dance and I will always support the dancer but No Means No. How does a Brand New Girl know this whereas a girl who has been here for many months not? I'm sorry I don't want to be rude but damn girl. You keep asking, You keep trying to steal me and I won't budge. I respect you and everyone in the profession but I am only there for 1 reason and if she wasn't there neither would I be.
I don't and I won't ruin any chance I have and/or continue to have with the GREATEST Girl in my life (Best Friend Excluded) She is far too important to me to do that.
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The new girl took her shot as well (and you’d better believe that her approach, however it sounded, was her attempt to fix her in your mind and get your attention), she just has a different approach, one which probably works for *her*.