Strip clubs and the Current Legal Environment

docsavage
Indiana
I've seen many comments at strip club patron websites involving the decline of strip clubs. By this is meant declining numbers of clubs, visitors to clubs, and very attractive girls working in clubs.This is something I've seen myself as a twenty year veteran of Indianapolis strip clubs. Many of the comments I see involve the girls and customers having other options with the rise of the internet and sex related sites. I agree on that but I also think there are underlying societal trends as expressed in the legal environment that is influencing the decline.

I'll use as a concrete example three clubs on the east side of Indy on Pendleton Pike: Babes, PT'S and Harem House. As a comparison I'll take the local medium priced restaurant business. Strip clubs and medium priced restaurants both have a clientele with at least some money. Twenty years ago when these three clubs opened this was a fairly middle class part of town. On a Friday or Saturday night these three clubs were packed with local customers with money to spend. This opportunity to make money drew attractive dancers into the clubs to work. During this same period there were also several medium priced restaurants in the area that also were crowded on a Friday or Saturday night and made good profits.

Like most cities, over the ensuing twenty years middle class people slowly moved further out and were replaced in the area by poorer people. The business in the local restaurants slowly declined and they closed down, one by one. Only the cheap fast food places survived. While this happened, many new restaurants opened up a little further out of town where the customers were now living. The local strip clubs saw a decline in customers with money to spend too. Unlike the restaurants, though, they didn't shut down with new replacements opening up where the customers now were. A lot of their remaining business came from guys driving in from the suburbs. The numbers of these guys have declined over time. I used to live near these clubs. I moved further away but because of previously living near them and them being fairly good quality, I developed a strip club habit. A younger guy in a suburb now will be less likely to develop the strip club habit because there are no suburban clubs by him like there was for me twenty years ago. He'll have to make a longer drive. If he makes that drive to these three clubs, he'll see it's an area that isn't very safe. A lot of the customers in the club will be low class local hoodlum types he doesn't feel safe around. After being open for 20 years, the clubs will be a little run down. With fewer guys with money to spend, the clubs will attract less attractive dancers so the girls there won't look very good.

This doesn't create a very tempting environment that will draw in customers and get them to drive in. Now the question is, why didn't the clubs follow the restaurant example I mentioned above? Unlike restaurants, there have been increasing legal roadblocks set up to thwart new clubs opening. There hasn't been a new club open locally here for twenty years. The local government uses a combination of licensing laws and zoning laws to block new clubs. A new club tried to open in the suburban Castleton area. Zoning laws were used to shut it down. A local Mexican nightclub started having strippers to serve the growing Mexican immigrant population. It was raided by the police and shut down for not having a license. "We don't need no stinkin' license." Yes, you do. Can you get a license? No way Jose! The existing clubs are also being hit with more regulations. The pasties police are more on the prowl, ready to fine girls with exposed nipples. Politicians respond to their constituents and this oppressive legal environment is going along with what the public wants. We've gone through three periods over the last sixty years. Up to the 1960's, women were seen as someone to be protected in a paternalistic way, with their choices restricted to housewife or a conservative traditional female field like nursing or elementary school teacher. They were also encouraged to keep their sexuality subdued. They were to dress and act conservatively. Then, with the first wave of feminism, there was a belief that women should be free to make choices about what careers to follow. This allowed women who wanted to be strippers to go in that field. When conservatives tried to shut down clubs or prevent them from opening, they were met with resistance for the first time by liberals and feminists.

Now, though, I think we've entered a second and much different wave of feminism. The current wave of feminism thinks women should be more like men and go in male career fields. Stripping is mostly a female field so women wanting to do that don't get support. Movies are made about black women becoming NASA mathematicians and being portrayed as heroic but no movie will be made portraying any black woman going into stripping as doing something worthwhile. Just imagine, if all the strippers were men then everyone would be agitating to let women do it too but that's not the case. Some feminists have even gone further and are now actively hostile to strip clubs. They involve women trying to please men and you don't want that. They involve men looking at and treating women as sex objects and that's politically incorrect. So now when the local bible thumping conservatives try to prevent new strip clubs from opening, they find themselves with liberal feminists joining them. These strange bedfellows are combining to shut down the strip club industry and are slowly succeeding.

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  • lopaw
    8 years ago
    It annoys the fuck out of me when I see all feminists cast with the same broad brushstrokes.
    There are all kinds of feminists. Some are radical and anti-male, but most (like me) are just wanting things like equal opportunities in the workplace. Nobody is more of a feminist than me, but I defy anyone here to ever accuse me of trying to shut down a stripclub or marching against anything sex industry related. I am about as big a monger as they come, and I openly admit that I objectify women in clubs and during OTC P4P - during those encounters she is a sex object to me and I am sure that I am a big wallet (or purse, in my case). Bottom line is that there are many reasons why clubs are floundering and on the decline, and plenty of it has to do with economics more than a "new morality" which isn't new at all. Demonizing feminism and liberals is just an easy way to point fingers, when the real reason is much more complicated than that.
  • LecherousMonk
    8 years ago
    I think this article is spot on. Thanks for posting, docsavage! It's obvious that if things had continued on the same trajectory since the '60s, strip clubs would not still be seen as seedy establishments, and prostitution would probably even be legal. I blame Reagan for forming the conservative coalition that convinced Baptists to be political.
  • Dominic77
    8 years ago
    #NotAllFeminists. I get it. I was raised entirely by women and indoctrinated by them. It was mostly good and come from a good place. But there are some "troublesome" feminists. Or at least ones with (un)intended consequences. Present company excluded.

    1. Some women (the archetype is over 40, unmarried, childless) resent the "competition" from the dancers or other sex workers. 2. The glass ceiling at the board room. What follows is (an unallowed, against TOS) cross-post from the pink site:

    Melonie -->"There are many factors that play a part. First, the economy and people wanting more for their money. Second, most companies no longer have expense accounts (common when I danced). Third, back then in the 90's there wasn't as much porn online. I don't know if camming was around then but certainly not common like today. Then there is competition. Clubs are greedy and now often hire women who never would have been years ago. I've seen upscale dancers now who'd be rejected there and maybe even mid tier clubs years ago.

    Indeed the exotic dancing industry has changed drastically in the past couple of decades. For example, today's 'Breastaurants' offer about the same basic content that strip clubs did 20 years ago ( not counting private dances / VIP rooms at extra cost to the customer, of course ) !

    In regard to strip clubs now being taboo for business expense accounts, you can thank successful lawsuits by female stockbrokers and sales reps for that. Indeed, the aftermath of those lawsuits greatly decreased customer demand for the 'show' element ... and the resulting financial void greatly increased the importance of the 'contact' element.

    Agreed that the average decline in inflation adjusted after-tax income levels, the average increases in costs of 'necessities', etc. for middle class customers has created an increasing mindset that their fewer remaining 'discretionary' spending dollars are now more 'valuable'. As such, those middle class customers increasingly expected more 'contact' for the same price.

    And with clubowner income starting to depend far less on the 'show' element, and far more on the 'contact' element, those clubowners began to change their dancer hiring criteria accordingly. Similarly, stunningly beautiful but zero contact dancers saw their earnings levels drop, while somewhat beautiful dancers who were willing to deliver very high 'contact' levels saw their earnings levels rise ... which in combination with changing clubowner hiring criteria arguably caused a basic shift in club 'offerings'.

    All of these changes are easily explainable via 'follow the money' analysis." END QUOTE Melonie

    Melonie --> "In the early 90's, the 'glass ceiling' started to be regularly broken on Wall St. Thus 'professional' women were added to the ranks of stockbrokers, insurance agents, sales agents, and a host of similar occupations. Prior to this development, men working in those occupations would routinely entertain clients in strip clubs as part of their 'sales pitch'. This led to a lot of money being spent in strip clubs being charged to corporate expense accounts. This also led to a lot of strip club customers whose expectations were limited to looking and talking, as those using a strip club setting to float their 'sales pitch' to their own customer wanted to maintain a 'professional' level interchange ( with a few glaring exceptions ).

    However, in the late 90's, some of those 'professional' women started making 'equal opportunity' complaints, and started to bring 'equal opportunity' based lawsuits, based on the premise that they were unable to utilize strip clubs to help 'sell' customers in the same way their male co-workers could. It was pointed out in court that 'professional' women couldn't feel comfortable in a strip club setting ... and as such, the spending of corporate funds in strip clubs by male co-workers to entertain / 'sell' customers constituted a form of 'sex discrimination'. The courts agreed. As a result, the spending of corporate funds in strip clubs was effectively banned for both male and female 'professionals'. Additionally, male 'professionals' were often warned by their corporate employers that continued use of strip clubs to entertain / 'sell' customers, even if the money used to do so came from sources other than corporate expense accounts, would be frowned upon because it still left the corporation exposed to potential future 'sex discrimination' complaints and lawsuits.

    The aftermath of these court decisions effectively eliminated some 25% of former strip club customers, as well as some 25% of total customer dollars spent in strip clubs. Essentially, it converted a scenario of 2 'business' customers spending lots of corporate money on 'company time' into one 'business' customer spending their own money on their own time. As stated earlier, this situation created a financial 'void' for dancers, who in turn increased 'contact' levels to compensate for the reduced 'non-contact' earnings potential. Similarly, higher 'contact' levels becoming more generally available attracted a different type of strip club customer as a consequence." --> END QUOTE Melonie.

    ^^^ Melonie is right. I was there for the late '90s expense accounts. an overnight at giant sucking sound and some 25% or revenue disappeared almost overnight. Unintended feminist consequences. I'm sympathetic. But was it worth it? I dunno.
  • Papi_Chulo
    8 years ago
    The internet has affected if not displaced many types of businesses - w.r.t. strip-clubs they now have competition from:

    * online porn (a lot of it free)
    * cam-sites where a girl does not have to leave her house, can set her own schedule, is not groped by pervs, and has access to theoretically millions of customers
    * sugarbaby sites
    * hookup sites
    * etc


    The political climate def seems mostly anti strip clubs these days - many arras that once had thriving SC scenes are now SC wastelands or not worth-it - and the current gentrification trends means SCs that had been around for years in a certain part of toen all of a sudden are treated as eye-sores to be done away with

    And I def believe that as SCs have become high-mileage that this deters many of the good looking women that 20+ years ago could bank just from their looks but now would not be able to compete if they don't at least allow groping.

    I don't think not having SCs in g
    The suburbs nearby is that big of a deal - those that like SCs are willing to travel an hour or less for some good-pussy - it may affect married guys that can only get away for a short time but I don't think location is a huge factor.

    I also think many people were permanently scared by the great recession of the late 2000s and although we've rebounded the economy has not been exactly red-hot rhus making people cautious about spending in strip clubs where to have a good-time oftem means spending a couple of hundred in one-shot.
  • LecherousMonk
    8 years ago
    Melanie has some interesting and likely valid points, dominic. I never thought of the mileage issue, as I've never been to a high-mileage club and there are none in my area.

    Papi, you said, "Those that like SCs are willing to travel an hour or less for some good-pussy." You're describing dedicated "hobbyists" such as ourselves, but no business can survive entirely on regulars and semi-regulars, and it seems as though the random, seat-of-your-pants visits by otherwise-normal civilians have dropped off the chart. I am always on here complaining about how my desire to club far outpaces my resources, whereas my two closest male friends are the exact opposite. They're both well-employed (one is a dentist), and neither of them is highly religious, but they have zero interest in visiting a strip club, ever. To them it is a "dirty" waste of money. I guess being attractive and successful enough to get pussy for free is a factor in their reluctance to partake, but there must be a cultural element too, because I hardly ever see groups of under-40 bros out for a bachelor party or just a random night out anymore. It's mostly old PL's or pairs of business guys (not with clients). Clubs cannot live on PL's alone.
  • lopaw
    8 years ago
    Good stuff there, Dominic77 & Papi.
  • dynamicreno
    8 years ago
    The main thing I have seen through the years that affected strip clubs was women becoming more involved in politics. Sitting on city or county councils. These business type prudes don't like them. Think they give the city a bad image. Really??? Not only gambling built Vegas, strip clubs did also. A lot of men won't visit strip clubs in their own back yards, for fear of being seen. So lame..but trust me these same guys put on their big boy pants and hit the party scene soon as they touch down in a town like Vegas. I do understand the married thing, and the stigma that may go with that. But trust me, I will not date or marry a women ever again, who won't go to a strip club. I have spent to many years with PC correct women. AHHHH they drive me nuts . And yes there are plenty of women who believe in sexual equality. Most of them are strippers. Not all, but most strippers love the lifestyle. Women who don't that's fine, but don't tell other women how to live their lives. They sure as hell don't tell you how to live yours. To many people spend to much of their time here on earth, telling others how to live their lives.
    I'm quite certain most strip club regulations in the US today were started by women, or holly roller men...lol..
  • Papi_Chulo
    8 years ago
    Women politicians, hmm interesting.

    I lived in Dallas in the 2000s and that is where I became a strip-club PL - some-time in the mid-2000s the city all of a sudden decided to enforce a 6-ft rule that was apparently in the booke for a long time but not enforced - the enforcement only lasted a month or 2 if I remember correctly, I guess the clubs had to do some extra palm-greasing - anyway that was the only time I recall the 6-ft rule being enforced and just so happened there was a woman mayor at the tine.

    Also back around 2013 Houston went after the clubs big-time and the clubs have not been the same since, and if I remember correctly it was qlso a woman mayor at the time.
  • Jascoi
    8 years ago
    simple word for the problem. prudes.
  • rogertex
    8 years ago
    good artico.

    I'm calling it here: In 10 years prostitution will be legalized across USA.
    Strip clubs will become exchange marts - girls pay to get in, guys pay to get in and hook up - either ITC or OTC. Just like Brazil, Germany, Thailand.
    One word: Viagra

    20 years ago, In college I worked at a hospital and was surprised to learn sex life was over for majority of men over 40. Over 40!!!
    There was no sex for politicians, clergy, and bible thumpers and they actually despised anybody enjoying sex.

    While we all know what these new chemicals can do - apparently word is slow to get out. But soon enough, each of these damn politicians will see their dicks come back to life - and watch the way they craft bills after bills to bring recreational and therapeutic sex into legal zone. There will be taxes, permits, fees, medical testing, etc - but you can count of legal sex in near future.

    Money will do the talking and politician with a working dick will do the walking.
  • Papi_Chulo
    8 years ago
    Liberals in general seem to be pro drug-legalisation and pro-gay, but I think they are generally anti P4P so I don't see anyone pushing legal prostitution - if anything it seems they are clamping down on the sex biz and even internationally it seems they are tightening once more liberal areas
  • san_jose_guy
    8 years ago
    Thing about enforcing the prostitution laws is that it is a crime with no victim. How do you justify the LE man hours, and how do you know that a jury is not going to revolt?

    And then who do you bust? Client, Hooker, Venue Operator.

    So I hear that in Scandinavia they have taken things as far as possible that they bust the clients, and no one else.

    Needless to say, this nets a broad swath of the population, and it is very unpopular.

    In conservative jurisdictions, they tend to bust the hookers, painting them as a societal menace. Read the newspaper coverage from Greenville SC, and you'll see what I mean.

    But if they did this in San Francisco, the newspapers would be rightly mocking the police.

    So in more liberal jurisdictions they bust the venue operators, and try to portray the hookers as victims. And hence all the emphasis on 'trafficking', defined in the most broad terms possible.

    So when Diane Feinstein tried to incarcerate Jim and Artie Mitchell, the prosecutor was calling them the 'corporate pimps'. But these kinds of convictions, proving that these venue owners are knowingly responsible, are the hardest to get. And because Jim and Artie would not cop a plea, we have contact strip clubs today.

    SJG
  • TaraChristine
    8 years ago
    Dancer opinion: Customers don't spend money like they use to. Attractive girls eventually leave after not making anything. I've danced in 3 different states. Money in one state was consistently $300-$1200 per night. Current state is $60/night on average. $200 if I'm really lucky. Then add in the investment of shoes, outfits, hair/makeup and its just not worth it. I wasn't ready to stop dancing, but as long as i'm living "up north" i'm done. After a while you realize you can make more waiting tables which is less physical wear and tear, doesn't require buying outfits and shoes and makeup, and doesn't require paying dj, house mom, club, or security fees. And so what the customers end up being left is bottom of the barrel. If girls hear they can make money somewhere they will go. but customers just aren't spending like they used to. At least not up north
  • Papi_Chulo
    8 years ago
    ^ just as clubs don't make it worth it for dancers with the fees and all, too many clubs don't offer good value for what they charge custies - strip clubs may have gotten away with it in the past w/ over-charging and under-delivering when they were kinda the only game in town, but these days mongers have much more options on getting better bang for their buck and with the internet poor ROI clubs get found out faster and avoided
  • rogertex
    8 years ago
    TaraChristine: "I've danced in 3 different states. Money in one state was consistently $300-$1200 per night. Current state is $60/night on average. $200 if I'm really lucky. "

    .... it took me a while to get this sentence in my head.
    I thought 3 different states - Sober, Drunk, Frisky
    Frisky state - money was consistent $300-$1200
    Sober state - $60/night
    Then I'm goin - What about Drunk state? oh never mind she was too wasted to know.

    Tara have you put on weight? or you still look the same
  • Dionysus7
    8 years ago
    The influence of the internet was mentioned, but I wanted to expand on that a little bit. Now you can see a virtually endless variety of porn without committing a dollar; a decade ago you were paying at least $20, more likely $30, for a single DVD. These prices made renting porn much more attractive but that was still $5-7 for a few nights, or a monthly subscription fee of $15+ dollars. The internet has also made prostitution (and it's gray market relatives like sugar daddy/baby relationships) much more safe than before. Things like P411 and TER didn't exist--you had to look in the yellow pages for a service or cruise the streets--both tremendously risky. And the camshow has given girls the veil of anonymity and decent income without needing to touch anyone. Not to mention that hookup culture and things like Tinder have made finding sex without any P4P much easier. There's just more competition from all fronts.

    But the other issue is that the middle class has still been hit hard by the recession. I just don't think there's the discretionary income that was available before the crash. Everyone says that stocks are up and unemployment is below 5% but when you look at the labor force participation rate and the U-6 which includes the underemployed, we are still way down from where we were in 2007. Which is why mid-level restaurants are still hurting badly, just like strip clubs.
  • AAR
    8 years ago
    1. High cost of living especially medical cost and tuition fees has sucked free dollars from mens pockets.
    2. Police state making sure people don't have a good time. Monitoring, surveillance, restrictions even on victim less sins like prostitution and strip club.
    3. Metrosexual man who likes to be indoor and browse or stream or play video games.
    4. High cost again and less patrons made women look for other professions.
    5. Zionists business culture has made sure more money in few pockets at the top. Middle or bottom workers are not paid that well anymore. No spare change to enjoy.
  • Tiredtraveler
    8 years ago
    While I agree with the point of the article but the real reason for the decline of the Indy Pendleton Pike club is the closure of Ft. Ben army base. The entire area went down hill rapidly without the soldiers renting apartments etc.

    Back to the point I tire of the diatribe from the left and the "feminists" that a woman should be able to control her own body: UNLESS she wants to do something that does not subscribe to their narrow views!!
    If she wants to keep the child-she is denounced: If she wants to have more than the PC requisite one child, she is denounced, If (GOD FORBID) wants to be a stay at home mom and put her career on hold for her children's sake; she is derided as a backward,evil and lazy . Motherhood is the worlds toughest and most important job. Feminists are ones who are evil, selfish and lazy. There are several "respected" feminists that want to outlaw stay at home mothers. They say that "it deprives society of that woman's talent, denies 'Society' (the state) the opportunity to input the children's upbringing, and (most important of all) the tax revenue generated by her working and raising the family's income bracket.
    Women are not allowed to make the choice to be a stripper, despite the sexualization of every aspect of life. She would be an outcast of the feminists if she dares become and escort. But casual sex with strangers is ok as long as she pays her half of the date!
    I know there are hypocrites everywhere but politicians and feminists are the worst.
    Libertarian is the only way. All governments everywhere are in the business of promoting misery, if everyone is happy government has no job. If people are happy the government manufactures misery or strife (transgender bathrooms for example) to reinforce the reverence of "government controls".
  • joc13
    7 years ago
    Being in IT, I've had several dancers ask me for help getting set up as a cam girl. Since they are already used to entertaining while naked, it's an easy transition for them. Whether they make any money depends on how comfortable they get with masturbating on cam.

    I lived through the disappearing corporate expense accounts but never realized why it happened. Thanks for that info.
  • san_jose_guy
    7 years ago
    I go along with the key insights of this article. Strip clubs challenge middle class norms. Local zoning laws, almost always as unconstitutional as the previous generation of anti-red light and anti-strip club laws, are designed to make strip clubs impossible. These hurt much more than the penal code against prostitution, as that is almost impossible to lawfully enforce.

    Fact is some women and some men prefer to operate in this underground P4P sex realm.

    Some schools of feminism go along with the stigmatization, but not all. There are definitely pro sex schools of feminism.

    Of course their leader would be Simone de Beauvoir. But you also have writers like

    https://www.amazon.com/Love-Tender-Conte…

    https://www.amazon.com/Love-Strange-Stor…

    To understand the puritanical type of feminism, I suggest D. W. Griffith's Intolerance, 1916:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eo66cJqE…

    SJG

    She's A Lady
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReL9dmYD…

    first page of sheet music
    http://www.musicnotes.com/sheetmusic/mtd…

    complete guitar tabs
    https://tabs.ultimate-guitar.com/t/tom_j…

    This song looks to be entirely diatonic, and so much of it is sung over Em.

    The bridge is all major triads, and seems to constitute a key change, likely to Bb.

    I remember reading a discussion once of the transitions in popular music as being either 1. harmony changes, 2. mode changes, or 3. key changes. But as to what distinguishes one from the others, I am still not clear. And then I don't think that classical music lends itself to such analyses, as it is more varied.
  • Book Guy
    7 years ago
    Excellent thoughts.

    From my point of view, as a life-long monger, I find that the "new" strip clubs are MUCH LESS enticing than the "old" ones. Used to be, I could just drop in to a bunch of seedy fun but relatively safe "neighborhood haunts" and, if I wished, I could examine the wares of many an attractive lady. Now it seems, I must make an entire outing of it, plan my travel itinerary, almost pre-book the room and maybe double-check competing clubs' schedules on line, spend a fortune, and get a lot less enjoyment. It's gone from cooking a quick meal to take care of a momentary hunger, to pre-planning the kitchen mess tent for an army of six hundred. And paying for it. BETTER BE HUNGRY!! :)

    my complaint is not that we are getting more contact for more money, which seems to be one gist of the Melanie-and-others line of reasoning. My complaint is that, WHILE more and more types of women dancing, dancing women are becoming more and more visually unappealing and equally more and more unskilled at (or unwilling to try) being pleasing to men. It's getting less enjoyable, over all.

    Yet, explain please, the prices are going UP. Less service, less of what the customer wants, potentially unlimited supply, that means cost-for-service should go DOWN, right? But prices are rising. Much faster than inflation. Every ten years or so, they hit a plateau and then DOUBLE. There's no gradual growth, just a sudden six-month transition to TWICE AS MUCH. WTF?

    I wrote a long thought-piece about this and other ideas, submitted as an "article" here at TUSCL yesterday night, mostly in response to this thread. But I realize now (it hasn't yet been published, might not be?) that my article was WAY too long and meandering to really address the points. It will only give rise to a lot of "TLDR" type responses, I'm sad to say. If some day I manage to cogently summarize it, I will submit a shorter version again. :)

    Partly, I said that selling the dancing and buying the dances are both about buying and selling self-esteem.

    Partly, I said that the whole sex industry is rather self-referential, in a problematic way (I noted Alfred North Whitehead and Bertrand Russel here, the set of all sets, that sort of thing, this is where it got wordy and meandering ...). The problem is, you don't know what you're buying. Are you buying time with the dancer, or the dancer's services, or the dancer's expert well-experienced trained services, or the dancer's innate desirability and therefore literally no expectation of expertise, or the dancer's approval, or ... what? Is she selling the same thing you're buying? Is your experience one of getting money for service (whichever service you thought you were buying, or whichever service she actually DID sell)? Or is it one of gaining confidence and puffing up your own self-worth? Is her experience one of gaining money? Of course, but is there not also a sense of self-worth inherent in every rejection? Being rejected for a private dance, especially when the rejectee is either financially needy or emotionally insecure or new t working strip clubs, hurts the dancer. Hurts her "self-esteem." And it probably hurts her self-esteem much more than the rejection of an automobile hurts the self-esteem of the salesman. Right? That seems to point to ... something. I didn't quite figure out WHAT.

    Cheerio ...
  • san_jose_guy
    7 years ago
    Book Guy, having a hard time understanding you. When the ITC mileage goes up, often the minimum looks standard for the women disappears. The boss just tries to hire as many as possible. He doesn't want them to follow any rules, he wants them to be as aggressive as possible, just so long as he doesn't know about it.

    If you are comparing ITC encounters with OTC, then of course OTC is better. And maybe some girls who do FS-ITC might not be interested in OTC.

    If you mean that it is all more complicated because you are now traveling out of town, maybe so.

    Buying dances is a chumps game. Pick your girl yourself and start feeding her money, and get a front room makeout session going. Then you invite her to the back room, and then take her home with you to continue.

    SJG
  • Book Guy
    7 years ago
    SJG, I'm just complaining that although (A) WHAT I GET is continually trending toward less and less desirable women with less and less "skill" at customer-interaction, nevertheless (B) WHAT I PAY is continually trending toward up and up and up.

    I suppose VALUE (according to this idiotically backwards market) has gone UP because contact and services have gone up. In other words, BBBJTC can now be had whereas the presumption previously was that only CBJ could be had, and the market somehow considers that to be MORE SERVICE, therefore OF HIGHER VALUE, therefore worthy of higher price. But (1) I thought varieties of BJ were to be had at all dates, and IME they were; and (2) the decline in stripper-experience is profoundly detrimental (again, IMO, IME) to the overall enjoyment and VALUE. If the girl is (i.) ugly, or at least, uglier than they used to let her be; and (ii.) clueless about how to be "fake intimiate" and "fake nice" and "stripper-shit that the customer likes even though he knows it's stripper-shit" performance, then, at least for ME, the dance is LESS, not MORE, valuable.

    Less value. But greater price. Sounds like Obamacare, as the Republicans would describe it.
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