My First Real Night Stripping
slimbaby
First off, these girls were very rude and don't even speak when spoken to nor do they even look at you. They are also dirty looking and nasty. I was literally one of the cleanest looking there. Not to brag or anything, but I look like I belong in Manhattan. So anyway, I got changed in the small dressing room and got on stage for my set. I was a wee bit nervous but I pulled through for the 15 min set. I got off stage and a man called me over to his table. He talked with me, flirted with me and touched me a lot. He wanted to go to VIP. We went into VIP and he immediately began to take off my top and stuck his fingers in my private area. I was immediately grossed out and felt violated. I told him I had to go to the bathroom and ran out the VIP. I didn't come back out until he left. Soon after, I asked the manager how much do I get for the VIP and he said i get $0. I was supposed to ask for a tip from the customer. ARE YOU SERIOUS? The VIP was $65 by the way. I was royally pissed.
Later I was propositioned from a guy who wanted sex/bj. I proudly declined. Come to find out from talking to another dancer (who actually spoke) that a lot of regulars come to that club and they expect to have sex because that's what the girls do. I even heard conversations from the girls in the dressing room about their sexual encounters with the customers. So basically there was no money in that club unless I was having sex. I couldn't wait to get out of that club and go home and take the longest, hottest, shower of my life.
Will keep you updated on the next part of my journey.
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Since you wrote this article you have VIP tuscl status and can read the reviews of possible clubs.
Now you know why many custies are at-times defensive when dealing w/ dancers – many dancers can be serious bitches = and of-course in an extras-clubs one will not find the “nice girls”.
For various reasons not every custy is looking for sex even in an extras-club – a good/fair dance is the dancer grinding on the custy and he grabbing titties and ass – anything else is beyond the scope of a decent basic dance and many customers will abide by that.
Most custies *will* want/expect sex in VIP (that’s why they wanna go in there and pay the extra-$$$); so if a custy wants VIP you tell him your rules ahead of time and if he’s fine w/ it then do the VIP and if not then don’t.
In many clubs it seems dancers have more drama w/ other dancers than w/ custies – so as a newbie def watch your back, belongings, and $$$’ other girls particularly in dive-clubs will steal anything you have.
Not all clubs are the same – there are well-managed clubs that dancers enjoy dancing at – you just have to do your research and do some trial and error.
Good luck – give it a chance for a while b/f you decide it’s not for you based on some bad experiences early-on.
Since most clubs don't allow unescorted females as customers, maybe you could have a guy friend go around to clubs with you.
Pay attention to the appearance of the other dancers. Is there a lot of variety? Or is there a "look" that most adhere to? And do you you fit that particular style? I mention this because management at my club hired a girl recently how only worked one day and never came back. She was nice, and everyone was nice to her (fortunately, because that's not always the case), but she didn't "fit" physically.
Also, larger clubs in metropolis or tourist areas have less drama and attitude between the girls. There are so many other things going on that there isn't time. Many of the dancers are travelling and rotate through, so there isn't as much opportunity for cliques to form.
Conversely, in small local clubs, you'll get a group who is so used to their routine, that they won't welcome new dancers at all. In fact, some of them will haze new girls. I've worked at places like this too.
It sounds as if you've decided that your last club wasn't going to work, but if the money was great, that could compensate for a lot and you could work around the negatives.
Good luck with everything.
Nowadays a stage set is just the preview to sell LDs or VIP rooms.
Baby Dolls Dallas has a 7-stage rotation which AFAIK dancers dance from beginning to end so that can be close to 25 mins or a bit more.
i would imagine that the courage it took to do your first stage has to be huge. me as a pl/custy enjoys watching a brand new stripper. and amateur nite is so fun. and when the waitresses have their strip competition. luv it!!!!!!