Female Friendly Strip Clubs
Tuesday, July 7, 2015 12:00 AM
Over the past five years, it's becoming clear that women patrons in strip clubs is mainstream. Well, as far as mainstream at a strip club can be. Recently there was a celebrity wife swap episode where the wife said that strip clubs are the new clubs. That may more true than I had realized.
There are few friends that know that my wife and I go to clubs together now and again. When we first started some number of years ago, we really had to find out way around. The waitress would always try to put us at a table towards the back away from the action. My wife prefers something a little more central. We used to have to speak up, but now we often get some of the more central tables offered by default.
We like to get dances. My preference is that she gets one first, and, if it is friendly enough, ill get one too. We offer to buy the dancer a drink about half the time. Varying degrees of acceptance. I don't feel gouged by that. It is a nice shared experience.
In the early days would not know what to do, or they would straight out to refuse to give dances to women. I think it was a cross between uncertainty about what to do, and sometimes it was about concerns over the woman getting grabby. Some women definitely do, while others are respectful and only cross boundaries that they are encouraged to cross. Being respectful is king, and not trying to get as much as possible.
Couples can be a good win for a dancer. If I like seeing her dance, I will get one. If I enjoy mine, then odds are I will encourage her to get another, (or two!) and I will then take one more. If this go poorly, we stop at one. But if goes well, it's probably 140 plus tip. The tips vary... they are special occasions but there is something nice about adding an extra 20 or two for a job well done. Plus a drink or two and some conversation and you can get some winning time spent together.
Lately it is rare that we find truly clueless dancers. Most know "it is all about her." Start there and work your way up. She likes to know your cover story, how long you've been working, if you have other plans, and likes seeing you drink with her. It's female bonding.
Some clubs are still suspicious of unaccompanied women so your mileage may vary. I think there are fewer and fewer places. There are a few in the Austin area. P10, Palazzio, and Expose come to mind. While they are quite different from each other, they so have their draw.
Always remember, be friendly, don't be grabby, tip your waitresses, and tip your dancers. Definitely take a few dollars (more than one!) and do the stage interview. Try the beginning of the second song so she is topless. Go early so she doesn't have "overtime" due to the DJ having to extend the song so she can finish with you. At the end you can get on her list of people to visit. That's important when you have brought a lady friend. Few dancers are willing to come up and ask a couple of they want some company. It is a little more intimidating and they are more likely to be told no. If my wife goes to the bathroom, I'll usually get someone to come up right away and offer me company. I always decline so that my SO can have a say. I do appreciate the effort. I can imagine it being more difficult.
Tip your waitress well, and as you go! She can often help you find a willing dancer, and likely one that can cater to your wishes.
If you follow some basic rules, you can have an awesome time. I highly recommend it.
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