txSOONER

One other thing I forgot to add.

We started a tab... So every time we ordered another drink, they brought the tab for me to initial the order. They had written out the order and thr price. LOVE that! I've never seen that before in any of thr clubs we've visited.

Galleria area or Energy Corridor area, is where I would stay. Last I was at St.James, athletic shorts were a no no.

I'm from Oklahoma - I miss OK a lot. LIve in Houston now, so don't get back up that way too often.
I love that your wife likes to go with you to the clubs - I love going with my husband and if we are going, it is usually my idea.
We haven't been in awhile, but our favorite all-nude club in Dallas was called Jaguars. I do believe it has changed names. Never did the VIP - but the girls who were open to a LD (I like to watch) were usually more open to hands-on with me. My husband likes that.

I guess I am a softy. I know they are trying to make a buck and I understand that. I do like that they recognize us and have come to understand that I am not the jealous wife type there to keep a close, watchful eye on my husband. When we first started going together, they all avoided us like the plague! Even AFTER I would tip them on stage and tell them it was OK to come over. So I am thankful that they have come to recognize and realize that we are not the drama type.
However, I feel like when they pull up a chair and sit down that I need to talk to them, or entertain them. And I am the type that likes to kick back, have a drink and watch the entertainment. I like to watch my husband interact with the ones he finds attractive. And when they are sitting with us, I even feel like it is disrespectful to them if I get up to tip someone else on the stage.
I know I need to focus more on MY experience and what I am there for - but I am a nurturer by birth and I worry to much about everyone else's feelings.

Thanks for all the opinions. I truly enjoy strip clubs with my husband. We have set rules and a "code" word (and sign in sign language) if either of us are uncomfortable in any way. Everything is out in the open. There are no secrets in our relationship - and we have been married 16 years.

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