And the point is?

I'm an old man now. In my sixties, for a few more month anyway. And have been visiting strip clubs (and other similar places) for way too many years to remember. All kind of different places, on most continents. From the tame, clinical, tedious clubs in France - nothing even remotely memorable from London, shocking (but wish there was one near me now!) FKK Clubs in Germany, as you'd expect it clubs in Amsterdam, a few evening's fun in Spain, a fair few places on a number of stops in the Asia Pacific and now, in the US where I spend about half the year in a vacation home. Been married too many times to remember - always thought I was trading up, but really wasn't and, no matter who I was married to at the time, always had a persistent need to see naked women, in some form or other. The thing is, for me, it always started with wanting to "see" them, but never ended there.

So - the point of strip clubs is what exactly? Well, getting in has always been easy. A fairly quick way to set eyes on actual naked women so, in a way, an upgrade on porn but than is where the issue sets is. There's a saying, might be a Chinese proverb or something? that says something like - the eye is never satisfied with seeing. And mine never have been. White, black, hispanic, asian, some kind of mixed, varying ages sizes, shapes, states of undress and never satisfied. Ever. If they were dancing in front of me, or sitting on my lap, I'm still looking over their shoulder at someone else. Two, three at a time? Tried that. Didn't work either. Hotter girls. No, that wasn't it. The mythical 'perfect girl'...if there is such a thing, I was looking in the wrong place. What is certain then? Well, I could have bought my vacation home many years earlier if I had stayed away - or a bigger one, in a better location. And if I had all the hours back I have lost, wasted, thrown away in those places, I would love to have them right now, when time has become really very precious. It's transactional, i know (unless i forget again!). The girls are there for money. I am a source of cash. I get that. And I have even gotten myself into the trying to rescue girls with cash (silly man!), have dated one or two, taken some out to dinner, almost married one, and although I know how pointless the whole thing is - that it never satisfies - I still go back. On here right now scouting for somewhere new to head this afternoon. Classic addiction, I suppose. Regrets? Of course. Lots of them. Advice to anyone who has stumbled on here, and is exploring things, yet to get started (if such a thing might even be possible) - RUN, FOR YOUR LIFE, AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! Really.

5 comments

  • hotwheels
    10 years ago
    I like strip clubs too. But I decided a while ago that what I was really after was hot sex with hot women. And I realized that hot sex only occurs when a. the girl is hot and b. she likes you and you like her ie: there needs to be chemistry. A lap dance just doesn't do it for me. So I still go to strip clubs but I just have a drink or two, and buy one for the strippers and every once in a while I hit it off and we have sex. I am good with that outcome and I am not throwing my money at lap dances.

  • alabegonz
    10 years ago
    "And I have even gotten myself into the trying to rescue girls with cash (silly man!)"

    Actually, that the thesis of the article.
  • bvino
    10 years ago
    All things in moderation eh? I have a real life with real women but I still enjoy the club action-once in awhile-. I never spend more than I can afford. Maybe people with addictive personalities should stay out of these places. Of course that isn't the stripper perspective. Maybe I will start a monger practice. Y'all read like folks who need therapy.
  • jackslash
    10 years ago
    "RUN, FOR YOUR LIFE, AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN! Really."

    I read your story, but it did not lead me to that conclusion at all.

  • lollipops
    10 years ago
    Good read. Thanks for posting.
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