The life of a young adult regular

7/12/2012 12:00:00 AM

I am a young adult male. Age 23 I have no need for Viagra and cannot get women off my mind. Biology is the reason behind it but I am not going to give a science lesson. Instead I am going to go give an outline of my strip club life and the impact it has had on me.

First off I have been going to strip clubs since my second year of college. I recently graduated in May 2011 and now work a full time job in the real world and am living independently. Over the years I have been going more and more frequently and always look forward to my next visit. I have tried multiple clubs from deja vu, which before I tuned 21 I thought was the best place to be, to Spearmint Rhino and Platinum Plus just to name a few. I spent plenty of money in the clubs and I think the money I spend is worth it. However all these fun times and much needed female companionship doesn't come without some negativity.

A regular can get a bad reputation for regularly attending the strip clubs. I have been told that I am pathetic, waste money, a loser, and ignorant. Also people have told me that I should repent and turn to the church. My family disowned me and I have also lost some friends. Also, especially in college, if a female student knew that I went to strip clubs she would either talk down to me or give me nasty faces. People have also told me that I will never get a girlfriend, that I will never know love. Also I am told things I already knew such as the strippers only want my money and don't actually care about me, nor are they actually attracted to me.

However I really don't care what other people think of me and the way I choose to live my life. I work for the money I spend there and it makes me happy. I feel welcome in the strip clubs and even if the stripper doesn't actually like me they still make me feel good and help make me have a good time. I love the feeling of getting my nice clothes on. Also I enjoy the ride there and walking in as I show my I.D. and pay the front desk the entry fee. I enjoy the feeling of buying my first beer of the night and sitting down and relaxing with a friend or two. Then there is the best feeling of talking to a girl and getting a lap dance. Some visits I even go to the VIP room.

All in all, despite the fact that there are people out there that think less of me for going to strip clubs the clubs still make me happy. After all it cures my boredom, lack of female companionship, and in all honesty I have sort of an addiction. I know that I am not alone either. Many people out there love strip clubs and it plays a major role in the growing secular culture.

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mjx01

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12 years ago

I like naked women (without ink). I don't like the overhead of relationships.

As long as you:
1. Remember they only want you money and don't become a RIL, and
2. Don't send moeny needed for other things (retirement, housing), then

Live free brother. Screw the puritans.

Corvus

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12 years ago

Its your money and your time. Spend both of them anyway you like. And have fun brother, life is short. Just don't wake up 20 years from now wondering where all your time and money went.

randy77

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12 years ago

I guess if you're not a pro athlete or rock star, this is the next best thing to getting lots of hot ass.

jackslash

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12 years ago

"I work for the money I spend there and it makes me happy."

That says it all. You don't need to worry about what anybody else thinks.

Estafador

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12 years ago

actually bro, if, despite what all these people think, if you want to go to the strip clubs, that's all find and dandy, but if you want a girlfriend who likes you, then you need to hide all the free invites for different stripclubs and shit. Seriously, bro, you can't expect to get a chick and not have her offended if she finds out you spent a lot of your free time at the club (strip club of course. In today's world, normal clubs are the in thing), of course she won't respect you and won't bother giving you a chance for a date. Because she knows you won't give her all the attention she wants. Plus i'm pretty sure with the constant strip club paradings, you won't gain any of the social skills necessary to get a date and I think your social skills may degrade over time. Not saying there's anything wrong with going to the strip club, that's your form of entertainment, hey beats being home alone, but also learn to moderate with other things outside the SC bro, that's all I'm saying. Explore much of the world, and not just some.

Omega22

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12 years ago

Hey sorry I haven't been online for a couple weeks and had no idea they published my article. Thanks for all the comments I have read them and appreciate the time you all took to comment.

mre123

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12 years ago

Thanks for sharing, man. Agree with all the comments but I would just add that I think its a myth that all dancers only want your money. I started going to strip clubs when I was your age and have been fortunate enough to meet a handful of dancers where we took the fun outside the club (not for pay, by the way). Everything from a quick one-time hook-up to a more regular thing to some light dating. When people state that myth, I remind them that strippers are not some other species- they are just girls.. and just like "regular" girls are meeting people at work, why would strippers be any different? They're not. I'm not saying it should be your goal to go out with strippers and maybe you have no interest but its completely doable. Sure, a lot of them do have baggage but, on average, I haven't found them to be any crazier than other girls. Regarding the comment about the clubs ruining your social skills, in a weird way the opposite *might* even be true. At the club, all these gorgeous virtually naked girls *approach you* and start conversing. So different than the awkwardness of approaching a woman in public. So, I wonder if the club dynamic might even help some guys be more confident when they are out in the "real world" and give them practice talking to attractive girls in an environment where they are not really putting themselves out there..? Anyway, enjoy. Relationships can be great if you find a quality girl who you are compatible with. But a lot of the time, dating is a complete circus. I'd rather chill at the clubs than be in a bad relationship, for sure.

Omega22

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12 years ago

Thank you for commenting mre123. You make some really good points. I agree with what you wrote and am glad you took the time to comment.

Cornball357

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12 years ago

This is the great thing about America people can comment about you but it doesn't matter... As long as you are happy and not hurting anyone enjoy yourself. Just remember a girlfriend is not a stripper lol.

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