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When the Music Stopped

This article comes under the category of "strange happenings..." If you have one of your own, maybe you could share it.
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The constant din and rhythm becomes a part of us--we crave it--it's the fabric of the strip club. For me, it is a thrill to enjoy an awesome sound system and watch the dancers, but it also brings a favorite peeve--disrepectful, loud-mouth DJ's. They can go home, as far as I am concerned. But, I am wandering...
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Several years ago, I was at my favorite club well reported here, in one of the cramped cubes enjoying some LD's with J.. (hardbody extreme!) when the music stopped unexpectedly. (Was the damn DJ shortening the song?) The unusual silence continued, and we emerged from the cube, standing at the side of the stage, to behold one of the customers motionless, on his back, approximately perpendicular to the bar, with his feet near his empty bar stool. I subconsciously noted it was a stool I had occupied many times. He was about my build and looked a little bit older than me, but otherwise not a person I had previously noticed, and no one I knew (In fact, I do not talk with or get to know any of the other customers--I suppose I am a loner.) He could not be drunk--it is a non-alcohol club, I was thinking. He had apparently passed out, and did not have a buddy or dancer companion sitting with him at the time (he was another loner). The initial erie hush was punctuated by urgent appeals from the bartender--she had come around to the front of the bar and kneeled over him. I heard her say. "He is not breathing." She called 911, and the police arrived within about 3 minutes and did some chest massage. The rescue squad and ambulance arrived about 4 minutes later and immediately got to work on him. I was transfixed by all this, pleasantly surprised by how fast help had arrived. Questions popped into my head--who was he? Does anyone know he is here? The emergency team continued to work--they administered oxygen and checked his vital signs. I heard one of them say, "He is in defib." "Clear!" They applied the shock defibrillator several times. Yes, the entire body jerks. Other than that jerking, he never moved again, as far as I could see. The revival attempts continued over what I thought was a long time--10 or 15 minutes, and the team loaded him onto a gurney and rolled him out of the club, continuing to administer oxygen. I learned the next day that he did not survive.
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After a little intermission, the music started again. Unfortunately, the mood was somber and I left the club struggling with a powerful sense of doom. I have been back to the club many times and enjoy it immensely, rarely recalling the events of that day.
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If there is anything to be learned from this, it may be that it is not too soon to make sure our affairs are in order, and to make sure that each second of every lap dance is fully appreciated. We never know when our song will end unexpectedly.
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11 comments

  • dw.buck
    14 years ago
    beets a shooting in the club
  • scpatron
    14 years ago
    Very nice and thoughtful post. I appreciated it.
  • Player11
    14 years ago
    I would not mind going like that. Beats some long drawn out suffering fade out....
  • SuperDude
    14 years ago
    Shades of Nelson Rockefeller.
  • Dudester
    14 years ago
    <p>At a very young age I started running into burning buildings. I graduated from that to Marine Recon. Went from that to Military Police to five years on gang task force. One day I woke up afraid that there was a bullet out there with my name on it. Two days later, I put in my notice.</p>

    <p>A week after my last day, I pick up a paper. The guy who took my place had followed a suspected felon into a public bathroom. The felon got the drop on the cop. The felon pointed the .25 mid forhead and pulled the trigger. Hammer fell on the firing pin. Firing pin hit the bullet. The bullet, for whatever reason, didn't go off.</p>

    <p>There but for the grace of God go I. </p>
  • Irish1072
    14 years ago
    Do you wake up in the morning and feel good about; the person you are, how you treat others, how they think of you? If you can look in the mirror and answer yes to all 3 questions then you've done good. If even one person was changed because of that story, then it was worth sharing, even in this forum. Moral of the story? Guys and girls, lets play nice (as my dad used to say) and enjoy the time we have.
  • basketball
    14 years ago
    This is where legends are made. He goes down as the guy who died in a strip club. People will tell the story about how a guy had a heart attack and died when they were in the club.
  • kingcripple
    14 years ago
    What a way to close out the year
  • Prim0
    14 years ago
    I just wanted to know if you had to pay for your dances that night and did she charge you for that "interrupted" dance.

    Not that I'm not sorry for the guy...it can happen to any of us at any time.
  • stilltries
    14 years ago
    Prim0:
    Yes, had to pay for the dances. What would it take to get a free dance anyway--a f... magnitude 9 earthquake?! :)
  • stilltries
    14 years ago
    Irish1072: No. Although I can't resist them, like a moth to flame--dancers hit me very hard. Not the ones with practiced pitch, the "you've got nice arms" -- it's the ones who (rarely) blurt their feelings. For example, I saw A... on stage for the first time and asked her to sit with me. She had only been working there two weeks. We went back to a cube for some lap dances, and I can't forget what she said. I thought it would be interesting to learn her opinion as a new dancer, and I was persistent with my damn nosey questions. Her neighbor and casual girlfriend also worked at this club, and, when A... lost her other job and couldn't pay bills, she had persuaded A... to try dancing. "Was it hard the first time to dance nude in front of strange men?" The smile went away, and she quivered. Tears poured down her contorted face, and she told me she vomited every day, before she left her house to come to the club. I asked no more questions. She regained her composure and attempted to get the smile back. No, I agonize over it. I am a hopeless sentimental person, and I probably will not be of much benefit reviewing or recommending clubs, etc. Thanks again for the kind remarks.
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