A Guide to Pushy Dancers
Monday, December 13, 2010 3:16 AM
After paying 10 dollars to valet, 15 to enter, and one drink, usually 10, we have already nearly 40 dollars to sit at the table. Almost immediately, a beautifully tan girl with big eyes and glittered eyelids sits in the chair next to me.
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"Hello, I am Annie. What's your name?" She grinned. Within minutes, we were discussing my visit and business trip. One song later, she asked if I would buy her a drink. Sure, I agreed. A few minutes later, she recommended getting a dance from her. I told her, no, not at the moment. She huffed, asking why not? Well, I wasn't ready. Oh, she replied, you have to be drunk to enjoy a dance? While pointing to my beer.
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She ended up leaving soon after. I didn't get a dance from her the entire night, and it was a slow wednesday night. This was a no win situation. She didn't win, obviously, because I arrived with a fresh stack of 20's to spend on the pretty lady of my choice and it could have been hers. I didn't win because she ended up being a good dancer and she never came back to ask for another dance.
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There is no real way to gracefully turn down a pushy dancer, the best way to be honest and upfront. If you aren't feeling the moment or the girl, then wait. It is her job to make you spend money in the club, but if she is good at her job, she will make you feel like you are the one creating the good environment and not her. She should know that you are there of course to uy dances.
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But if you are not there to buy dances, then you should let the girl know you are only interested in the stage show so she can move on. If you like talking to the girl, but don't want a dance, you should tip her anyways for hanging out. Be a gentleman.
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That said, there really is a limit to how pushy some girls can get. It's not a personal offense if we do not want a dance from you! It is more probable that you are having a bad day and do not want to meet me or my friends, who have so kindly bought your drinks for you. So be kind to the new people you meet, and if you look at us like we are clients or customers, then we will treat you like a product or sale. The real good girls are the ones who talk to me like we are old friends and laugh at the things I say. Sorry, but it's true.
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