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The evolution of a stripper / customer relationship!!!

victor2
Florida
Sunday, May 16, 2010 6:17 AM
<p>About 6 1/2 years ago I was suppose to meet a business associate at a strip club for drinks. I am quite straight and was never one to frequent strip clubs. While I was waiting for my associate, a stripper sat down next to me ask started chatting. My associate never showed up. After a 15 minutes of conversation we sat down at a table and I bought drinks. Her conversation was quite interesting and we found that we had much in common. She asked for dances but I was not comfortable so I declined, however, I paid her for her time visiting with me. I told her I would get dances the next time I returned, not really planning on coming back.</p> <p>Over&nbsp;the next week I thought about her several times and finally made the decicsion to go back for a visit. When I arrived she remembered me. We had drinks and a nice lunch together. Then she took me to the room for dances. She is a marvelous dancer and gave me very sexy and enjoyable dances. Because I was relatively new to this, I still uncomfortable with getting dances. I sat on the small couch, enjoyed the dances, but was&nbsp;reluctant to touch. I started coming to the club more frequently and when&nbsp;I got&nbsp;dances&nbsp;she put my hands all over her body. After several visits and at this point I would consider myself a regular, she was pushing to give me a much more complete lap dance experience. I rejected the efforts. By this time, we had become very good friends and were having lunch&nbsp;together on her days off outside the club. One day she asked why I kept rejecting her advances. I told her that I had never had sex outside my marriage.&nbsp;</p> <p>Next step; I was going to be out of town for a while and mentioned it to her. She asked where I was going and when I told her, she told me that she had family there and was planning a visit. We coordinated and when she was there we planned an afternoon together. I scheduled massages at a very upscale resort spa. I reserved a couples therapy room that had an outdoor jacuzzi spa. After our massages we had drinks delivered and went into the jacuzzi. Once in the jacuzzi, with no clothes between us she gave me an aqua lap dance which led to making love for our first time. <br /> <br /> Now, more than 1 year had elapsed and we were becoming very close friends both in the club and out side the club. She told me about the problems she was having with her husband of a few years. We spent hours discussing her issues. I told her that if I was in her husbands place with a wife that danced it would be impossible my me to tolerate it. Well ultimately he asked for a divorce and I assisted her in finding an excellent attorney to represent her. The divorce was finalized a few months later.<br /> <br /> All this time I was helping her emotionally and financially.<br /> <br /> We have become best of friends. I see her in the club regularly and out side the club regularly. We get along fabulously, she is an amazing person. We have traveled together for extended periods and had a wonderful time. She has taken me to her parents home and I have had the pleasure of getting to know a wonderful loving family.<br /> <br /> I have become very emotiionally attached to her and I think she is to me too. The only problem I have is sometimes while at the club I become stressed and jealous when she&nbsp;spends time with&nbsp;other customers. She has assurded me that nothing goes on in the rooms, but I am uncomfortable with the situation. When I am at the club, I financially take extremely good care of her. Every other dancer there would like me to be there customer, but I only see her. But as I said the situation is getting very uncomfortable for me. I starting to feel like her ex-husband must have felt. I recently told her that I was going to take a vacation from the club so I didn't have to expose myself to this because of my strong emotional attachment. I told her that if she wanted to skip work days, I would buy her out. We are hopefully working this out, I do not want to hurt her financially or emotionally, however, I am not enjoying the club environment with her any longer. <br /> <br /> More to come as the situation unfolds....thanks for listening.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>

16 comments

  • Dudester
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    14 years ago
    <p>Last year, when I started my relationship with OTC Gal, I needed her emotionally, and she only needed me financially. As the months went on, there was an evolution. I was becoming emotionally distant and she was moving in the emotion area, but I wasn't sure to what extent. When she had an accomplice at my bank add her to my checking account, I figured out that I was just a&nbsp;scam to her. When I moved to protect my assets (I have more than one account), the accomplice told her. She blew up at me,&nbsp;and within a month, things were completely over.</p> <p>The last couple of months of the relationship, she wanted to get out of stripping.&nbsp;I gave her several great leads, but she wanted, real bad, to work at a particular call center, to the point that she regularly dismissed my leads. Just last week, I found out why she wanted to get in that call center. &nbsp;It turns out that people at that call center have access to other people's bank accounts, credit cards, and other vital information. She just wanted to move on to a new scam.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> <br /> Let me close with a thought. Two months before things ended, she expressed an idea of us sharing a two bedroom apartment. Now, why, would a woman you are physically intimate with, want her own bedroom ? (I know the answer, I'm just sayin....)</p>
  • sinclair
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    14 years ago
    victor2, are you still married? I'd keep the relationship outside of the club 100% if the dancer is okay with it. Get out of the phony environment and prevent the club from taking a cut of your money.
  • skibum609
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    14 years ago
    Why not fix things with your wife and let this experience remain the fantasy its supposed to be?
  • rickdugan
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    14 years ago
    I'm going to post as if all of that was real...&nbsp; ;)<br /> <br /> She is a mistress - treat her as such.&nbsp; If you don't like the club don't go there.&nbsp; If she meets up with you outside the club only then&nbsp;cool, you can still help her financially while spending time with her.&nbsp;&nbsp;If not then the train has come to the end of the line.<br /> <br /> And buy her out for skipped work days???&nbsp; Your increasingly pathetic attachment to a girl who is clearly using you for her financial goals is going to end up with you heartbroken AND broke.&nbsp; If you have enough $$$ to keep her on the payroll full-time&nbsp;outside the club, then do so (at least until you get tired of her), but if not then don't go in that direction.&nbsp;&nbsp;The heartbreak is inevitable, the only question now is how much $$$ will be siphoned out of you before it happens.<br /> <br /> But, you think in that whiney voice in your head: &quot;what if this is real?&quot;&nbsp; Tell you what genius,&nbsp;the next time you see her tell her you are thinking about leaving your wife to be with her and see how she reacts. <img alt="" src="/editor/images/smiley/msn/whatchutalkingabout_smile.gif" />
  • alkaholik
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    14 years ago
    &nbsp;Brother, you are right in thinking that her ex-husband probably felt something like this... he couldn't handle having a dancer as a wife, and now that you are getting attached, you are having the same trouble.<br /> <br /> The problem is that you are living a fantasy. As long as there is money involved, there is a relationship. The real test is whether there is one after the money is gone. If she hangs out for longer than a month or two after the tap is turned off, then maybe you have a decent on-the-side girl. One thing to remember about these kinds of relationships though, they can never replace a good marriage. And, in most cases, they end quicker then the original relationship that they were replacing.&nbsp;<br /> <br /> The grass is always greener. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy the scenery, just remember that the other guy also has weeds to pluck and leaves to rake.&nbsp;<br type="_moz" />
  • alkaholik
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    14 years ago
    &nbsp;And I speak from experience (my wife is a dancer... although I enjoy that fact, not resent it).&nbsp;
  • skilift8
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    14 years ago
    I am madly in love with a stripper too, so I know how you feel. <br type="_moz" />
  • Player11
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    14 years ago
    I have had a couple of really close relationships with dancers I have seen otc.&nbsp; The two I have had the most sessions with are friends of mine on Facebook (I have racked up over 200 sessions with them combined).&nbsp;&nbsp;Facebook gives me&nbsp;a stream of constant data&nbsp;about them along with photos to add to my already extensive archive.&nbsp;&nbsp; Interestingly enough these two got married within about 45 days of each other.&nbsp; One of them I have been seeing almost 2 years.&nbsp;&nbsp; She told me&nbsp;her marrying the guy she has been living with 4 years would not affect our meetings for sex.&nbsp; It has not and the sex has been good as ever.&nbsp;&nbsp;She loves to model bikinis&nbsp;for me.&nbsp; At most&nbsp;I would consider her my mistress but&nbsp;many would describe her as&nbsp;essentially a Housewife Prostitute. &nbsp; She describes herself as happily married to her HS sweetheart on her FB page.&nbsp; This may be true but my dick has been deep in her a lot lately.&nbsp; The other I stopped seeing in 2007 after her demands for money escalated due to pressure from&nbsp;her bum BF she is now married to.&nbsp; His trump card was that he had fathered her 4th child (she had the other 3 by two other men).&nbsp; These two women are a prime example of women in supposedly happy relationships who engage in Prostitution.&nbsp; They are as excited as they can be willingly posing for pictures, enjoying different dick, and of course shopping money.&nbsp; Seeing strippers will smash a lot of concepts you have about women.<br /> <br /> Victor, IDK how much money you have put into her but its gotta be a lot if your buying her out of the&nbsp;club.&nbsp; My article&nbsp;about &quot;Dealing with Dancer Drama&quot; can help you.&nbsp; I generally regard them like&nbsp;a&nbsp;College Football&nbsp;coach regards a Heisman WR.&nbsp; I know one day they will graduate and evaluate the relationship on POP and sex enjoyment satisfaction.&nbsp; POP with the one I am seeing averages&nbsp;$150 (down from around $200 last&nbsp;year).&nbsp; &nbsp; I hate to think what you are probably averaging for POP but it must&nbsp;be in the stratosphere.&nbsp;&nbsp;Once your are past all the fantasy glitz with these gals and emotional manipulation you can see them for what they really are.&nbsp; They are like actresses&nbsp;in a&nbsp;play and will act out their roles as long as the money keeps&nbsp;flowing.&nbsp; Don't expect anything more.&nbsp; A&nbsp;Players goal is getting some good&nbsp;stuff and keeping POP low not being a RIL.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> <br /> While I treat them like a queen, I essentially&nbsp;regard them as mistresses&nbsp;at best.&nbsp; Unless I am fucking one itc, I generally stay away from the club.&nbsp; Lets face it if she will meet me at motel for say $100 - $200 for pussy why&nbsp;go to club and spend money say $100&nbsp;on dances and tips?&nbsp; I can just about get pussy for that.&nbsp; Its no&nbsp;fun seeing them with other men either.&nbsp;<br /> <br /> &nbsp;
  • Dougster
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    14 years ago
    <p>If you are paying this girl you are going to get burned when she moves on, dude. Better prepare yourself for it now.</p>
  • rowdy1984
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    14 years ago
    son, you are getting played....you need to go to another titty bar, because this stalking stuff is going to get people hurt.
  • skeets35
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    14 years ago
    The word &quot;screwed&quot; comes to mind here!&nbsp; <br /> <br /> She is a stripper, her job is to make money of of guys,&nbsp; nothing wrong with that, it can be a pretty good living, but you better keep the relationship professional because she will move on when your money stream dries up.&nbsp; Your wife?&nbsp; Once she finds out you will have about half your money available that you have now!<br /> <br /> I have also fallen in love with a stripper, in fact I fell in love four times last time I was in a club!<br type="_moz" />
  • mikeya02
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    14 years ago
    <p>I, too am in love with a stripper, in fact she's the only one I see, pisses off the other girls I dont even notice. She's 22, lives at home with mom and dad, and sleeps with her dog Puff. Yeah I love her and I'm screwed.</p>
  • Doc_Holliday
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    12 years ago
    Hey Vic, how did this end?
  • victor2
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    11 years ago
    I want to give a conclusion to this story. This is a test to see where the comment will be chronologically posted.
  • alabegonz
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    10 years ago
    Hey Vic, are you still around? can you update your story. What happened?
  • victor2
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    10 years ago
    I am still here. I'll make a long story short. I am no longer a customer, however we are friends. We occasionally have lunch on her days off, purely platonic. She is still one of the best people I have ever known.
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